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HarletMinx

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HarletMinx - Transgender Submissive, Vienna Virginia | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About HarletMinx


So, rewriting this; mostly out of frustration. First off, I'm not looking for cyber sex of any form. I'm also not interested in having a long distance relationship where it's not really feasible for either partner to maintain... especially if I haven't met them before. And please, please don't friend me if we've never so much as exchanged a greeting.

That aside, I'm a sub (sorry, not a switch bone in my body) looking for Dommes, couples, or just friends wishing to chat. I have a wide range of interests extending from museums, clubs, art, literature, sociology, philosophical debate... well debate about anything, to computer science.

I tend to be aggressive in personality and playful, but also very much have a driving need to submit. I adore conversation and those who can have them as well as self confidence but ego is very much a turn off.

As to playing, I'm most easily described as a mental masochist, and adore humiliation. I tend to be non responsive to pain and pleasure, simply put, I'm numb to it. As such, if you're looking for someone to simply be a whipping post or a sex doll, this is most likely not a profile for you. However, I react beautifully when theirs an element of mental dominance to pain/pleasure. I've been previously owned and trained in a semi long term relationship which you might find positive or negative depending on what you're looking for. Currently I'm looking for a long term relationship but open to the prospect of play partners in a more nonsexual sense.

Just a side note, I'm a preoperative but post hormone transsexual. That means I'm not a male looking to be feminized or a transvestite. I view myself as female and currently live full time as a female though I'm not open to most about being trans since I pass easily as a female.

So, I've recently updated my profile, due to the same problem croping up repeatedly. I have repeatedly been getting emails that boarder on crude and in many cases it's clear they didn't bother to read the first three lines of my profile. Since this has almost exclusively been from the older single male crowd I've closed my profile to single men. While absolutely bisexual and having gotten a few decent emails from men I'm kind of tired of the same junk nearly everyone else on CM is getting. Also, I tend to be a lot more picky about my interests in males since than I am with women. I am more than willing to accept couples however.

If you are a single male and are interested, a well composed introductory email goes a long ways. I appologize to all of you single men out their who are actually decent, I know you guys get a bad rep, it's just some of these emails are just plain painful to read.
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