HarleyRidinDame

About HarleyRidinDame

I know what you like when no one is looking.


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I have been active in the BDSM Lifestyle since my late teens, I have always identified myself as a "Switch". It seem that identifying myself as such gives others the impression that I am either a Domme` or a Submissive. Please let me assure you that I am neither. I usually try to explain that I will "TOP or BOTTOM" but it seems that even that explanation is not sufficient So let me try to explain it another way,* I crave extreme sensations. I enjoy having my limits pushed and I enjoy pushing limits, I love to use the body as a canvas and I enjoy it when my body is the canvas.* People have often referred to switches as greedy, I admit it I am greedy, I want it all! What I don't want is a Master or a sub.

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What if you gave someone a beautifully wrapped present? Inside that present was everything that someone could ever need, want or wish for.
What if the person receiving the gift opened the present & took out only what they wanted at that moment and gave the rest back to you?
This is the type of relationship I keep finding myself in.

I am looking for a relationship, a long term lasting relationship, one that encompasses both the Vanilla world and the lovely world of BDSM.
Ideally it would be one that we would balance each other out, one of us strong where the other is weak, in other words a partnership.
I don't believe in Monogamy, BUT right now I am need to be the only one, the focus , the Primary, so that said POLY is a very real possibility but not right now.

Please don't approach me with a lowered head and a ready "Yes Mistress" I will not respond, nor will I respond if you approach announcing "I am Master".

I am not into secrets so if you can't have marks or you have a spouse that is unaware of your activities, please move on.


I DO NOT CYBER!

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If you would like to play and you have read the above paragraph, well then contact me and we will see where it leads.
Just because I am looking for a long term doesn't mean that I am not willing to have a little fun while I am looking.

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Of all the Toys in the toy box, the hand is my favorite. From a gentle caress to an excruciating pain, the hand is the most versatile and can bring the most pleasure.

What is your pleasure today?