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happilyMarked

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happilyMarked - Female Submissive, new york city New York | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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****DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU'RE TRYING TO HAVE SOME KIND OF WEIRD KINKY IM SEX SESSION.  So tiresome.****

 
Hi, there.  I just made this profile and I got many, many messages asking the same things.  I suppose it would have been wise to fill this part out a little more first.
  First of all, my SN just refers to the fact that I enjoy seeing marks (bruises, welts) on my skin, they are great for evoking memories and feelings of closeness.

What am I not looking for?  First of all I am not looking for any 'online dominant'.  (I mean, what the hell is that anyway.)  Second, I'm not looking for anything long distance. I'm not leaving NYC and you should be relatively nearby.  I think it is pertinent to mention here that I am not a proponent of monogamy.  I do not believe that it is in most people's nature, and our cultural insistence on it's value leads to many of our societal problems.  (I'm going to read "Brave New World" by A. Huxley, and I'll let you know if that changes my opinion ;).)  That being said, I am looking for a LTR, and I don't believe that being polyamorous prevents it from being close and intense.  I just know that I am not capable/interested in trying to be monogamous.

I am between a sub and a bottom.  I do like the role of pleasing and serving, but I really like the abuse.  Not that I confuse pain and pleasure- I don't like pain much at all, but it undeniably turns me on and I feel closer others through it.  Ideally, I would like to find a Dom who is a bit of a serious sadist (without wanting to inflict and permanent injuries), but who I can also relate to and have fun with outside the bedroom.  I am definitely not of the slave mentality, from what I understand it to be.  I do not want a 24/7 completely controlled relationship.  All this being said, I am up for just occasional play, also, with the right people.
  I tend to be a bit silly and immature.. Fancy clubs and restaurants tend to make me feel somewhat uncomfortable, but I can fake it for a while.  I do enjoy the latter sometimes, however.  I'm a bit on the fence about things like art museums:  I like art and I like looking at it and pondering it but I am too distracted by crowds to truly enjoy the experience.  It'd better to sneak in late at night or something ;). 
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I just added some quick points that I thought I should include.  This may have made my profile repetitive or jerky.. I promise to fix it soon ;)
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