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About Happilymarried
I am only seeking friendship and advice. I am happily married and am not looking for a dom. I have recently been introduced to the lifestyle and am very interested in pursuing it. Unfortunately, when I married my husband, I took on the role of the dominant one. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can reverse the role and make him the dominant. My husband is by no means a weakling. He is a very strong man both mentally and physically, he just has a weakness when it comes to me. He basically gives me anything I want and does anything I want to do. I would like it if he would just tell me NO once in awhile. I have discussed my interest in the lifestyle with him, and have managed to get him to try spankings...he has even tied me up. But, he keeps stopping to ask me if he is hurting me and he can't bring himself to do it hard enough to feel good. I also don't think he gets the mental control aspect of BDSM.
I would appreciate any suggestions. |
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I'd like to clarify some things. I have never been in a dom/sub relationship. Some people think that it means I can't spot a phony. Well, men are men whether it is in a d's relationship or vanilla. There are so many men on here that just use this site for a cheap affair. They feel validated in cheating just because they want kinky sex and can't get it at home.
Some may argue that I am in the same boat. I beg to differ. I do not lie about being married and I do not try to solicit men on here for sex. I have a few friends on here that I chat with and if that offends people then TOUGH!!!! This is a free country and I have as much right to be on here as anyone. If you don't like my profile then don't read it. I can assure you that I do not give a d**n what you think of me. I am who I am and I don't pretend to be anyone else. |
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Tomorrow is my birthday, at least my CM birthday. It's hard to believe that I have been on this site for 2 years. The funniest thing is that even though I have never been in a sub/dom relationship I can spot the phonies a mile a way. I am thankful for the friends I have made on here. They are very few in number, but they are the reason I keep my account active. For my birthday I hope that all of the genuine people on here get what they seek and I hope all of the players on here get what they deserve.
Take care and be safe. |
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This is for the jerk that keeps contacting me and deleting his account. You are one sick twisted freak. Do not contact me again from any account. It's a shame that your life is so empty and shallow that you have to do this for attention.
Because of this JERK, I will not respond to ANYONE that has not had their account for at least six months. |
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I have finally been able to come to a decision. I will have to deny my submissive side and continue in the role I chose 8 years ago. I can't in good conscious cheat on my husband, and there is no way he would agree to let me have a Dom. I don't blame him though; I wouldn't let him have someone on the side. He is an amazing man and in spite of our differences, I love him very much.
I have made several friends on here, both male and female. I will keep my account to correspond with them, but I have no interest in starting a relationship with a Dom.
I wish everyone the best of luck in finding what they are seeking. |
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Thanks for all of the advice. I have come to the conclusion that he just doesn't have it in him to be dominant with me. The way I see it is that I have two choices. I can look outside of my marriage or I can suppress my submissive side. I haven't decided which road I want to take as of yet. |
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