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Male Dominant, 21, Central Ohio, Ohio
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Male Dominant, 30, Manchester, New Hampshire
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Male Dominant, 36
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About GlazedNConfused
the title explains it pretty much. i am glazed and confused. you may be asking yourself, huh? i am totally honest, as you will see by reading this profile and getting to know me.
i am currently married, but the marriage is not going good. i am seeking the help to see where my life should go. once i know where i want to head, i know i can move forward without carrying any of the baggage that some people carry when divorcing. No kid living at home - full grown and on his own. No pets...you get just me as the pet. ;-)
the reasoning for my confused in my handle. in one sense i like having that someone in my life to share all my dreams, thoughts and desires. I am not getting that in my marriage. and i am willing to go on with my life in just a Dominant/sub relationship without another marriage. i would rather be with someone whom i can talk to openly, freely and honestly with on everyday normal things in life and share my hopes and wishes. someone i can worship being my friend and sharing every day's ups and downs.
on the other side of my spectrum, i have an extremely strong sexual appetite (where the glazed comes in....i dream sexual desires so much that i feel i am glazed all the time) and to please people. i fantasize daily, almost hourly, and you can even say sometimes every minute and second of my life about living the sub life of a Woman or a couple. when i have these dreams i am seeking someone whom i can share my wildest sexual dreams and desires with and willing to allow her or the couple to take my complete body mind and soul and push my bdsm buttons to their limits. i dream of being shackled or tied up and serving a Woman or couple constantly. it drives my mind wild thinking of serving someone. the thought of being stripped down to no clothes at all on and living in a house with my Dominant owners like this all day and night doing whatever they ask of me throughout the day and night is all i can think about all the time. but as said, i need that relationship with them where we can talk openly and honestly and they must be able to respect my limits. there may be some of my limits that are hard limits where i wish them to respect my wishes and not do to me, but there may be others where they may be limits, but i may be willing to give in after feeling there trust in our relationship and let them see where it can lead to.
i am faithful and honest. which is why i will not cheat of my wife in our marriage, but i need to talk with someone to find out what kind of life i want and to be able to get out of this confused state of mind i am in and to be able to move forward in life. right now i am not happy living a life that i feel is nothing but a fake life, i am not able to live the life i dream and fantasize about all the time. i don't have a life that i can open up and communicate with my best friend all my wishes, desires, dreams and my humorous or sad sides of daily life.
of course since i am currently married, i first need to find that woman or couple willing to talk with me first and help me find what i really want in life And to know and feel comfortable with them taking my body to the true side of what i want out of life. right now i am not getting that. should i find that the bdsm lifestyle is what i really want more than anything else in life (i truly know the way my mind thinks constantly about this lifestyle it does), or the current unhappy married life i am in, then i am willing to make that move as quickly as possible to move on in that new lifestyle and i will not drag you along in a state of uncertainty. when i know what i really want i go for it and give my all.
but my marriage i am currently in i can not go on any further as it is right now. as said, i have extremely strong sexual desires and fantasies and think about them almost every waking minute. my wife is not fulfilling them as well as we are not seeing eye to eye on almost everything in life. the reason why i need to find that path on which i want to move forward on with my life.
but i don't want to make a mistake and take the wrong path if it is not the right path for me or what i really want.
is there someone out there willing to be my friend and help me find what is right for me? |
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