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Male Switch, 45, HamiltonNiagara
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Male Switch, 22, Clinton, Connecticut
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Male Submissive, 49
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About Glaucus69
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Romantic, hopeful (always been my downfall) love music, film, literature, poetry and love being in wild beautiful places.
Intelligent, arty, adventurous, highly sexed, very caring, confident, witty, and although perhaps a little rough around the edges in some way ways can also be a little geeky in others - but above all decidedly kinky and romantic.
The two go hand in hand for me.
For all that, I'm still faithful, considerate and although driven by lust and passion with someone who can impress me, move me, and who I can care deeply for, I'm still a gentleman in the old fashioned sense of the word ...AND able to converse with little old ladies and help them with their shopping without striking terror deep into their hearts.
I have no vestigial tail & no history of axe murder either. No.
Not even a little.
For me sex and kink is very much about trusting and loving connection - a connection that is meaningful. A connection that overtakes us both. A connection that burns.
And a connection that can be warm and affectionate as well as passionate and intense.
As well as being intense and exciting; As well as being exquisitely filthy, even deliciously debauched, knowing the darkest corners of a partner's soul and the intensities of desire that you can set free within them is to liberate us both from the restraints that bind us to the everyday, the mundane and banal. To give them the freedom of wanton desire is, for me, unutterably and incomparably ROMANTIC.
..but still is just one part of the whole spectrum of emotional satisfaction I'm looking for.
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So I'm looking for a partner in crime to share a romantic & perverted adventure through life with.
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Dominant but caring and as ffectionate as I am cruel as I know when they can be the same thing. I'm searching for a lifetime, deeply rooted loving relationship with a fellow adventurer. An equal in life aside from our power exchange with a high sex drive and appetite to explore. Who like me is also drawn to beaches, music, jumping in puddles, art, nature, poetry, kicking through piles of Autumn leaves, long walks, cinema, paddling, lots of passionate kinky sex, travel, kissing and laughing till you keel over.
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As well as my hand tightening around your throat and on occasion yours around mine...
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I am looking to make a friend, a slave, a mistress, a companion, a lover and, regardless of dominance, an equal in love and respect to share thoughts, discuss ideas on sex, & the interesting ways that our drives seek expression. And, of course, to indulge them in reality.
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I'm interested in pushing boundaries. In discovering the intensities that new experiences bring - but for me, really enjoyable and satisfying sexual relationships can stretch from the simple sexual to the very dark & kinky. Intensity can be anywhere in that range.
The taste of dark chocolate being all the more intense upon our for palette for the flavours of vanilla being savoured too.
Dominant & cruel at the right moments, caring, loving and gentle too, I know however that intelligence & humour are also part of the sensual spectrum.
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I am tactile, witty, kinky, and demanding but always considerate ...& I'm experienced enough to know when that means considering your pleasure & considering my own (when your pleasure is to please me).
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I enjoy flirting, the excitement of making a new friend, seduction, prolonged foreplay & giving - as well as taking - pleasure from someone unafraid to explore themselves and the nature of their desire..
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I have a visual arts background & music, film, art & literature are very important to me.
I work for a charity so probably never going to be rich but I do ok. There are more important things to me than material wealth anyway (I'm a sucker for nice things but I do ultimately know that things don't bring you happiness - sharing does). I do own a suit and not always beardy, cowboy hat wearing, or chased by imaginary octopi - but do tend to get that way when holidaying far from civilisation which is where I'm happiest. Particularly if I'm there with someone special.
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I guess I like contrasts and apparent contradictions. I love the sea and the coast but I love the city too. As with many things I want enough of both in my life.
I have had a few good long term relationships but never been married or had children, but is something I would enjoy with the right person.
An occasional desire to switch may emerge if you are someone I deeply respect, if you move me, and if we engage in a committed loving relationship.
I'm currently living in Lausanne in Switzerland but pop home to London and the West Country to see friends & family & for work very often - with a permanent move back planned for Spring/Summer this year.
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you:
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I don't have a ticklist for who will make happy. If it's you, you will surely surprise me .
If you recognise some of following in yourself perhaps we should find out if we have that elusive spark? ..and for the right person nothing is set in stone.
..except actually, as I value compassion and intelligence, that you wont be religious and definitely will NOT be a tory or UKIP voter - unless you're looking for a man to spank you with a rolled up copy of the Guardian.
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If you're the right person you may be a a little more submissive or a little more Dominant than I might have any preconceived ideas about ...in fact, if I'm able to find you as the finest needle in this haystack of weirdness the ONLY thing I do know about you in advance is that you'll challenge me and be a complete but happy surprise.
In so many ways I could never have imagined.
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But I'm guessing you MAY be: maginative, have a deeply silly side to you, be open minded, and of course have a very high sex drive with a need for kink ..a need to love and connect with deep roots to your partner, to sometimes submit and please another, sometimes seduce and sometimes take charge ..a more overriding need to explore & to enjoy your sexuality ..even in those difficult & sometimes scary places.
You may be creative and have a heightened sense of both the romantic and the ridiculous. You may even sing along at the top of your lungs to your favourite songs and possibly create your own avant garde dance moves when you think no one else can see or hear you.
Equally comfortable slipping on stockings, make up and heels to surprise me with a hot night in when I get in from work or go adventuring together at a club and possibly play with others - OR slipping on hiking boots and a woolly hat sans make-up for a cliff-top walk in the rain somewhere remote wild and beautiful.
Not afraid of a swanky bar on occasion but also happy in a cosy pub or a night in listening to music and chatting animatedly or watching a movie.
I shall love you just as much whatever paths we choose at any given moment and more deeply because all are you.
In whichever place, we might simply kiss and hold hands, letting me gently brush the hair from your temple as our eyes meet and we lose ourselves in each other in simple affection or one or both of our hands might find the other's throats and in utter fluid desire find ourselves fighting for and lose track of whose will takes dominance in a burning almost uncontrollable lust to take and deliver pleasure.
When I say I have a very high sex drive I do mean VERY and yours will match to the point where you may have thought/fantasised about or engaged with aspects of the sex industry. This could be an area to dip our toes in and explore.
..and I'm certainly happy to both teach and to learn from you - challenging each other to give as good as we get whatever our respective 'roles'.
You'll have a deep understanding that life is for sharing.
You may sometimes be ballsy, but not reckless where things matter and you'll not mistake daring for the vital deeper courage to share, commit and work at things - even when they get tough - because we come out stronger the other side.
But most of all I'm looking for that fire of recognition in your eye. That feeling that we've always known each other..
The full range of romantic, loving, perverted and wanton love. A pair of eyes I can drown in. I'm not asking much
...except to say hi if this is you.
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