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I'm just fed up of the time wasters and idiots on this site....



1/21/2011 2:55:18 AM

HONESTY

Ive heard and seen many people complaining here about the fakes and wannabe's. they complain about people not being honest, yet these same people are the one's who blow you out for being honest and speaking your mind then have the audacity to accuse you of being a fake and not being submissive ??  

Then there's those who pretend to be honest and put up a big front about being so, then after chatting and building up a genuine rapport, they tell you that they want to meet, they think you are gorgous, blah.. blah... blah... and the next minute you loose contact with them completely,  they just disappear from radar, they havent even got the guts to say goodbye, tell you they've met someone else, they've changed their mind, or even quite simply they don't  fancy you, they just hide and don't contact you again.... How very pathetic, infantile and undomly ... Don't you think?

 

Is this a different type of honesty?

I don't think so, it's called being Forthright, upfront and honest .... Ok rant over! 

 

 

 

1/4/2011 8:19:38 AM

I'm feeling very philosophical today...

1)   Nothing is ever black and white, and the grey bits are confusing.

2)   Life is what you make it, but some don't seem to want to put the effort in.

3)   So many different perspectives makes it more confusing than it is.

4)   Opinions are always worth hearing, but you can choose if you want to listen.

5)   Those who are opinionated are usually prejudiced.

6)   Its better to learn from the experiences of others, but one seldom does.

7)   Intuition is a rare gift, you should listen to it more carefully.

8)   Want, need and impatience get in the way of cautious thinking...

9)   If there is doubt in your mind, follow you intincts.

Questions can be confusing, but the answers are clear ...

WAIT and OBSERVE until you can determine for yourself the right path to take...

1/1/2011 4:53:06 AM

Happy New Year Everyone...

Remember dreams don't often come true unless you make them.   If you try,  maybe you'll make someone else's dream come true too...

Make 2011 a year to remember  xx

12/24/2010 1:32:35 PM

Flattered as i am that some poor soul felt my photo was nice enough to be stolen i have removed it from my profile so that there are no misunderstandings...

If anyone wishes a photo all they need do is ask...

12/7/2010 2:43:49 PM

Until recently i have been chatting to someone who i thought was a quite a nice guy...
Although he seemed a little keen, he did seem very polite and genuine...
He told me he had been duped several times by women pretending to be submissives and that he was looking for someone who could commit to him, i found his attentions very flattering...

As our chat time logged up he told me he was based in London but travelled up to Liverpool reguarly, and asked if we could meet.  At this time I had only seen one photograph of him, so  i asked if he could send a couple of himself or perhaps we could talk on cam, I initiated cam so he could see i was genuine and who i said i was, but no futher photos were forthcoming from him...

We continued to chat, but i started to have my doubts and over a period of a few days  he became very insistant that he 'wanted' me, and that as he was travelling up to L/Pool on Sunday and we should meet on Sunday night...

Then he told me he would have to go back to London on Tuesday and that he wanted me to travel back with him for a few days, which of course un-nerved me a little...

Thats when the heat turned up, suddenly he wanted me in no uncertain terms, he wanted me to submit to him by Tuesday, (even though we hadn't even met) and demanded that i was his and his alone stating 'I get what i want and I don't give up easily'... etc etc...

I suppose at this point i should have just blocked and deleted him, but i gave him another chance to prove he was who he said he was, and asked again if he would send me a couple of photos, which resulted in more excuses and even more demands to submit to him...   So I was more assertive (which isn't me) and I told him in no uncertain terms that if he couldnt supply me with more photos or use a webcam, then i wouldn't meet him. 

He then gave me a final ulimatum, which i refused to take up, so he is now deleted and Blocked!


Safety first! Be careful out there and trust your intuition!

Remember some things are worth waiting for...







12/1/2010 12:34:24 PM
I was discussing with a friend recently about when i first became aware of my inclinations towards submission and BDSM..

When I asked him the same questions
, this was his reply...

I recall my first time with a condom. I was 16. I went in to buy a packet of condoms at Boots pharmacy.

In those days it took a lot of guts to go in a chemist and ask for that kind of thing because everyone in town knew me and there was no doubt the young lady assistant knew what they were for and what i was going to do...

She was working behind the counter and she could see that I was really embarrassed by the whole thing.  She handed me the pack and asked if I knew what to do and how to wear one and I honestly replied, "No, not really."...

So she unwrapped the pack, took one out and slipped it over her thumb. She warned me to make sure it was on tight and secure. I must have still looked confused. So, she looked all around the chemist to see if it were empty. It was. "Just a minute," she said, and walked to the door and locked it.

Taking my hand, she led me into the back room, unbuttoned her blouse and removed it. She unhooked her bra and laid it aside. 'Do these excite you?' She asked. Well, my chin hit the floor! All I could do was stand there with my mouth open and nod my head, while my cock sprang to life in my pants....

She then said, " time to slip the condom on". so I slipped it on, while i watched her drop her skirt, remove her panties and lay down on a desk.

"come on", she said, "We don't have much time." So I climbed on her. It was so wonderful that, unfortunately, I couldn't hold back and BOOM, I was done within a few moments.

She looked at me with a bit of a frown. "Did you put that condom on, John?" she asked. I said, "yes of course" and held up my thumb to show her.

She then beat the shit out of me . . .  Thats when i knew...

I joined the ranks of BDSM as a sub, and the rest is history...

 

I don't think i have laughed so loud in ages!!! 

 


11/30/2010 10:28:02 AM
Ive always had a bit of a hearing problem, but when i was in my early 30 I started to loose my hearing quite quickly ...during a virus, within a short time i was totally deaf.

In 2005 I had a cochlear implant operation so have now retained some hearing, just enough for conversation, but the thing i still miss most is music...

Many times people say... have you heard this song or that, no i haven't...
but my daughter enjoys searching out lyricks for songs she thinks i'll like.
Two of her favorite bands are Nickleback and The fray. 
I can't say i have heard the music either band produce but i love the feeling they put into their song lyricks...

This one is one of my favorites by Nickleback...

This time I wonder what it feels like
To find the one in this life
The one we all dream of
But dreams just aren't enough
So I'll be waiting for the real thing.
I'll know it by the feeling.
The moment when we're meeting
Will play out like a scene straight off the silver screen
So I'll be holdin my breath
Right up to the end
Until that moment when
I find the one that I spend forever with

Cause nobody wants to be the last one there.
Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares.
Someone to love with my life in their hands.
There's gotta be somebody for me like that.
Cause nobody wants to go it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone.
Somebody else that feels the same somewhere.
There's gotta be somebody for me out there.

Tonight out on the street out in the moonlight
And damn it this feels too right
It's just like D�j� Vu
Me standin here with you
So I'll be holdinmy breath
Could this be the end?
Is it that moment when
I find the one that I spend forever with?

Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares.
Someone to love with my life in their hands.
There's gotta be somebody for me like that.
Cause nobody wants to go it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone.
Is there somebody else that feels the same somewhere?
There's gotta be somebody for me out there.

You can't give up!
Lookin for that diamond in the rough
Because you never know when it shows up
Make sure you're holdin on
Cause it could be the one,
the one you're waiting on

Cause nobody wants to be the last one there.
Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares.
Someone to love with my life in their hands.
There has gotta be somebody for me

Nobody wants to go it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone.
Is there somebody else that feels the same somewhere?
There's gotta be somebody for me out there.

Nobody wants to be the last one there
And everyone wants to feel like someone cares.
Is there somebody else that feels the same somewhere?
There has gotta be somebody for me out there......
11/30/2010 10:08:29 AM
My thoughts on Friendship...

Often claims of friendship fade away,
when trouble and drama cloud your day,
friends in your life will come and go,
but true friendships will always develop and grow...

The friends who help you through your pain,
are those who patiently wait for you to laugh again.
they listen carefully and don't speak a word,
I'll do the same, when they need to be heard.

Regardless if friendship is real or online,
those friendship bonds tie tight for a time,
The void you feel will be fulfilled,
and you'll feel your life starti to rebuild.

A friend who will unconditionally love you,
respect, be faithful, honest and loyal too.
A soul to confide in, to learn from and trust
these are the friend's who for me are a ..must!

A heart may be broken...
or made to mend;
and all because of those "special Friends".

Dedicated to my friends in life and online... You know who you are!