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BarbieSlut3
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Its a pleasant afternoon to be walking in the park. He came over early with that naughty smile on his face. A sure sign he was up to no good. No good, but fun as always. He asked if I was up for something new. Sure why not. I said. He held up a eggbullet vibe with only a thin wire and said it was radio controlled. So wheres the control, I asked. Silly me. He just smiled. He kissed me and as he did I felt his hands slide under the short dress and slowly ease the egg into my pussy. Im a little wet. He excites me its a warm from the trip in his pocket. One of his hands keeps massaging me but I feel the other caress my mound as he withdraws it. Suddenly I pull back and gasp as the vibe, now deep inside me comes to life. He nuzzles my neck. I guess its working he whispers.
So here we are in the park. Weve been walking 5 minutes or so. We saw a few other people at the entrance but weve struck off in a quiet direction. His arm is round me. The motion of our hips as they rub against one another is lovely. His hand slides down to my arse. His touch as always excites me. Suddenly the vibe is running again. My knees feel a little weak but Im determined not to let him see any sign. He lets it run what seems like forever. I can feel myself getting wetter. God this could get embarrassing if he doesnt stop soon. Almost as I think it the vibe stops. I start to take a breath and am caught off guard as it comes back on. And then off again. And then on again. Did I make a sound? I sense he is watching me. In my mind I can see the smirk on his lips. The crinkling around his eyes. The vibe keeps pulsing off and then on and then off. Slowly matching itself to our walking pace. My breathing is easier if I breath in the gaps when its off. His hand squeezes my arse. It distracts and the vibe picks up pace at that moment. Now its slowly getting faster. A little by little. Off... On... Off... On... My breathing is strained slowly becoming more ragged. Faster still. Off, On, Off, On. Its inexorable. My pussy is tingling. Surely my juices are cascading down my leg by now. God the rhythm is driving me insane. I love it. The vibe has picked up even more pace Off On Off On Off On. Its hypnotic. Its controlling me. I feel so horny. I feel like Im going to explode. OFFONOFFONOFFON... It just keeps going. The waves of feeling are cascading through my body. Each step my knees feel like theyre going to give out. My mouth is dry as each wave of vibe stimulated sensation sweeps across me. He pulls me behind a tree and kisses me. I sink to my knees. I need to taste his cock...
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Its a lovely fantasy. If you feel like trying it, we can even do so one day. But first of course we need to get to know each other.
So, Im a tall, middle aged, dominant man, non-smoker, never married and no kids. Now at that age where life is comfortable and Im not all that keen to disrupt it. But it does get lonely and would love to find someone who would like to get together for company on a semi-regular basis initially and am prepared to make a commitment if we both find ourselves there. That can be Ds, merely sexual or just general social activities (movies, dinner, etc), ideally all of the above.
Realistically, I expect well chat a while first and then maybe meet somewhere neutral for a drink or a coffee. If the chemistry is right, from there we can play it by ear... Ill also note that while Italk about lots of things and have ticked lots of theboxes, the intent is to show we could try any of these things not that we must try them all... pick the things that interest you and we can forgo the rest. This is about having fun after all and that means both of us of course... Youll note from all this that Im mild dominant. Not looking to cut you or scar you, leave real injuries or marks. The female body is beautiful if cared for and I believe it should stay that way. I do enjoy the mental aspects though and will k and control you to get you and me into the headspace where we can enjoy those. TPE and the various s of mental control (hypnosis, conditioning and the like) are also things Id like to pursue.
Not greatly concerned about age compatibility or the absence of it. Nor of height or any of the other superficial things. If you have nice legs and like wearing short dresses, if you shave bare, if you like deliveries being made in the tradesmans entrance in the rear, if sex is about more than just missionary with the lights off, Ill be particularly interested. If youre none of those things but are just interested, feel free to drop me a line. Im old enough to know we can never really tell where the lightning will strike.
In case its not obvious, this profile is intended to show that Im smart, fun, open minded, can complete sentences and much more besides. Its better than flatly saying it, and you may even come to believe it. Or just maybe you got a little excited reading some of the fantasies. Everything though is negotiable. And I do mean everything. The activities, the things you like to talk about, if you hate short dresses, if youre not the shape I describe, if youre shorter than me so long as theres a spark, its all OK. Thats the real message here. And frankly, its what you should expect. We will talk about your hard limits and mine and then respect those.
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Just imagine. Youre naked. Your lover steps up behind and gently fondles your cheeks. He slowly gives each of them a gentle smack. The feel of his hands as they touch your bottom excites. The sound is amazing. You feel your cheeks starting to get warm as a second stroke arrives. Its still more for effect than anything else. It hurts but not greatly so. You feel so naughty. Its years since you were ked. Your cheeks are now getting hotter. A new feeling as their heat soaks into his cooler hands as they caress you between strokes. His hands slide lower and spread you as they probe your pussy. The feeling is electric. His hands felt cool on your hot cheeks but in your pussy their heat feels red hot. Now another stroke. You moan. Now he separates your cheeks and you feel the touch of cold lube as it trickles down the valley to your rear portal. His finger gently spreads the lube around and briefly ventures inside to make sure youre ready to receive. Your breath catches. You feel the heat of his erection touch you. A shiver as it pushes inside and a pause as he waits to make sure youre OK. You turn your head and quietly kiss him to indicate youre ready for more. Are you ready for more?
Let me know if you are.
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So there you are. Having a conversation with someone. You go to wish them a great Easter and get "Message cannot be sent. User has blocked you." How charming. If only there'd been some reason offered... |
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If you've been online for any length of time you'll be aware how much of the information online is flawed, mistaken, misunderstood or just plain wrong. This varies from people who earnestly believe the BS they're peddling either because their mistaken or because of their agenda (why yes, there has just been an election on here at the moment, why do you ask?)  to those who simply are simply trying it on.
The ones I want to talk about are a subset of the mistaken ones, the ones who have only a poor grasp of math or statistics or who earnestly follow a flawed train of logic to a foolish outcome. What brought this on? Well truth is I stumbled across another link to "The acid test for Doms". I've seen it before, you may have too. Google "Acid Test" right now and have a read if you like. Its presented as 'good advice' for submissives who are seeking dominants and specifically submissive women. Its certainly has the air of something that believes itself to be offering deep truths.
My problem is, it starts off with some very flawed logic and that kind of colors the rest of the discussion, for me at least. So what does it say? Here's an extract:
"Various estimates and surveys have placed the ratio of real (i.e. natural) male sexual Dominants to female sexual submissives at about one to ten. However, a quick count in any given BDSM-oriented chat room would lead you to believe that male Doms outnumber the subs at about two to one. Now if there is actually only one male Dom for every ten female subs, that means that 19 out of the 20 "Doms" you see online have to be fakes
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Some of you will see the problem immediately and some won't. Statistically its called a "selection bias", which means that the group you're looking at is in some way a skewed sample. Most often people who've selected themselves rather than being chosen at random (which you have to do to make your small sample in any way approximate a larger population). Here's one I've made up which makes it easier to see the problem:
"We're told that 49.5% of the Australian population is female but when I look at the numbers of profiles of men and women on Adult FriendFinder I see a closer to 10:1 ratio of men to women. Clearly (!) 9 out of 10 of those so-called men must be women masquerading as men." (I'll note that the math in my example is deliberately wrong too...)
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See the problem? We know the 50:50 (roughly) number at the start is more or less correct, its basic genetics. In fact, allow me to suggest that the 10:1 ratio of men to women on sites such as this is pretty much the status quo too. This is because men are disproportionately over-represented in the population of people online and also because women, especially attractive women may not need to come to here to find that partner(s) they want already, without the need to fill in profiles and sell themselves in 100-10000 words. All that means is that the people on the net aren't a representative cross section of society and the people on here even less so. That makes most of the logic that follows in the Acid test discussion a little moot. You'll note that there they're reporting an even higher ratio and guess what, if you work the stats its about the right number. But the acid test sees it as a sign of fakery and insincerity, self-delusion or outright fraud and decides to advise you walk away from the 95% you decide are the not real ones.
So the acid test moves on. Know your enemy it says. You know. Them. The geeks and the nutters and sex fiends. Errr... bad news guys. If you're on the net, you are by definition geekier than someone who's not. I for example appear to be writing a blog entry for fucks sake! All that's left is a question of degree. Its like the old saw about would you sell yourself to a stranger for a night for $10? How about $10million? So now we're just haggling on price right? In the same way you are a geek. You may not be debating Kirk vs. Picard or have a Dr Sheldon Cooper pinup poster but it is all just a matter of degree. You're using a web site to try and meet people for heavens sake. The non-geeks are down at the pub/club pouring enough beer into themselves to make their local "single for a reason" opposite numbers look appealing. If you don't like the label, you are free to join them.
Similarly, the sex obsessed. Kind of goes with the territory on a place like this. Hell it may even be why we came here originally or perhaps why some return every day. And if its not sex its certainly a desire to find that compatible fetishist. These may be the actual people you're looking for. Or could easily become the people you're looking for. Chemistry changes people folks. Its how confirmed singles become partners and why people marry.
More amusingly to me was the Acid test's prose about control freaks. Here we have a document written to assist subs looking for 'real' doms that then branches off into a discussion on how to identify and step away from... well people with a dominant personality. Too funny for words. Which is not to say I'd want to have my life micro-managed by an arsehole with no sense of balance, nor would I want to be that arsehole, but there are some (I've met them) who crave that (and its not me).
Finally, this section of the acid test ends with a warning on rapists and predators. Good advice at last, and sadly not advice that needs to be limited to the BDSM community or even the vanilla dating community. These people are out there and you have to be vigilant. The good news is they can't reach through your screen to get you and engaging in conversation is often a fairly effective way to weed them out. And while you're conversing, don't give too much away upfront. Don't use MS messenger or Yahoo with your real name as an ID. Don't trade telephone numbers till the requisite warm and fuzzy feelings are in place. Don't be pressured to meet till you feel safe. Meet in an open public place. Repeat the getting to know you stuff face to face where you can now check body language and tone. If you go to his place, make sure someone you trust knows the address. You may even arrange to have them call you after you've been a while and if you say some agreed upon 'innocuous phrase' they can send the police (hence why they know the address). If you are playing in the BDSM world, make sure you have a safe-word and if he or she doesn't honor it get the hell out. These are all basic things you should do to watch out for yourself. The last few may not be necessary in vanilla dating. Let face it if you do the 2-5 dates before sex thing, you're less likely to find yourself tied to the bed (unless you wanted to be of course...).
The last (real) section of the Acid test is the "Know what you want" section. Its nice advice and sadly more likely to be honored in the breach than the observance. Few people, in my experience have any real idea of what they want. Sometimes it literally manifests as someone saying they have no type or they don't know their type and other times its more a matter of self delusion. We've all met that person who just wanted something casual who announces soon after meeting that they really like you and would like to have a more serious relationship. Its happened to me at the end of the first date once. (Yes you're right, I should have run screaming... being too polite can kill you!) Or the girl who describes the nice guy in the polo shirt as her ideal and then dates the tattooed horror with no shirt, open leather jacket and ponytail. Knowing what you want, being able articulate it honestly, being able to look past the skin deep and see if the person you're talking to matches the ideal are all good ideas in principle. We should strive for that ideal. Don't beat yourself up if you fail though. That too is part of being human. The only message is don't be too judgemental. Yes, you may think you know what you want, yes you may feel yourself an excellent judge of character, but what if you're wrong? Then sadly, you become the major hindrance to your finding the right one. Worth bearing in mind.
That's kind of where I lost interest in the Acid test. It goes on with a bunch of little tests, lets call them testlets. It instructs you to memorize all this. Might be useful if it weren't so flawed. And the best advice remains to use your common sense. We're none of us love-sick teens here and that means we've some idea of how to find what we want, how to weed out the non-starters but still keep an open mind to new friends, new opportunities and new adventures.
Oh and if you are a tall girl interested in a non-extreme dominant male, do drop me a line! A man can't live by blog alone afer all! |
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