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Hetero Female Submissive, 49,  Linda N of Sac, California
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 Submissive Female

 Linda N of Sac 


 5' 0"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Domme/Dom Couples

Friends Only

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community (Expert)



 Fine Dining

 Fire Play

 Mental Bondage


 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops

 Breast Play





 I am a slave at heart, looking to learn more about my inside desires. i am also somewhat of a switch to my husband. I’ve been called a Sadistic Masochist. lol. I believe i could be a slave for the right person. It is important that the person i'm seeking will click with the both my husband and I. That doesn't necessarily mean You would Dominate both of us, Just that we all get along. That should make sense ~smile, I am not new to the lifestyle, and neither is my husband.

I am a very sensual woman who can be a very soft personality, or very brash, depending on the situation. I am intelligent and expect the same from the One i'm looking for. WIITWD is also about the mental aspect and the mental dynamic between the people doing it. Sex can be a part of it, but i tend to separate them a bit in my mind. Pain is from one place and sexual pleasure is from another. Yet, a good sexual scene is yummy also! I have been told i'm a caring, compassionate person who can be loyal and honest to a fault. Integrity means a lot to me. I am sincere and sensitive and usually wear my feelings on my sleeve, as they say. I tend to analyze things, sometimes too much so. The most used word i hear about me is sweet, soft and adorable. oy! Then again we never see ourselves as others do, now do we?

I would honor a Dominant and give complete faithfullness to them by giving a heart to share, to be able to fill the desires One has , to bring ease, truth, love and compassion, to know and obey and to understand those things that are shared, and hold those values close to my heart

In looking for a Dominant, the ideal person would be caring, consistent, knowledgeable, not play games and have an understanding of where the vanilla life comes into context. Someone who understands what it takes to be with someone that has limitations due to health and some disabilities, as i'm diabetic for one, and have arm limitations also. I believe that it is not the whip that produces the slave within, but the mind that does. Understanding, communication and more communication is always necessary whether your mode d'employ is phone, computer, in person, email. Are you sadistic both physically and mentally? I seek someone who will allow me to grow both physically, mentally and emotionally. The way One talks, looks into your eyes and engulfs your soul is very important too. Namaste

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Journal Entries:
2/21/2010 9:28:41 PM
Every now and then i get a hankering to write here. i'm finding that CM is a better place to express yourself where EVERYONE doesn't have to see it! like on .
i feel like i'm going thru some sort of changing. Not sure to what or such. Maybe its just menopause!

8/28/2009 1:22:30 AM
Well its been awhile i see. Sometimes i don't know what to say that doesn't open up my soul to everyone on the net. I don't think anyone wants to hear my mundane life.
Sometimes i wish Life would just get ON with it!

6/18/2009 12:57:11 PM
So our Marysville CA Munch is coming up (the 4th Sat) on June 27th!
let me know if you want more info once you read this!
hope for a good participation this month!

4/26/2009 4:41:24 AM
Wowza! had our local munch here today. what a great turn out! even lil' podunk towns can bring in good people too!!!!
its always great to have good conversation.

4/23/2009 3:04:22 AM
ok so not sure how to do the audio/visual stuff yet. thank heavans the rest of the week should be cooler. hate summer. why da heck am i in N. CA LOL!

4/6/2009 1:17:19 AM
ah the sweet feel of sun on your face. its nice to have some warmth, then again that means summer is on her way. i'd rather it be cooler than hotter. i'm more of a winter person. I wonder if that has to do with being born in a blizzard hehe.
as the wind whips her tendrils around the trees, and moves the branches to and fro, i spell the pungent fresh smell that is given off. i love just listening to her sounds as ere she go. almost like she's saying, "shhhhh, be quiet to hear."

2/21/2009 5:15:35 AM
it sure is hard to trust people now a days? you talk to them, listen, and them wham. oops they're married or forgot to ask their sub about finding/talking to another... or they're really a scammer.
then the True Dominants wonder why we ask so many questions, are leery, want to wait, make sure, and take longer to get to know you.
getting to the point where i'm going to take my emotions, put them in a box, and keep it closed for awhile.
ok back  to your regularly scheduled programs...

2/16/2009 3:49:25 AM

please check out sierraflowr profile also. it stopped working right so i had to create this one.

2/8/2009 11:35:41 PM
it is interesting to talk to people. i find it amusing to see what is thought of as too kinky or different to someone.
i would hope that, at least here, people wouldn't be judged as much. oh well, people are people it seems regardless of what one is or does there will always be the ones that say its wrong.

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