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Bisexual Male Dominant, 54,  Cassopolis, Michigan
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 Dominant Male



 5' 6"

 195 lbs



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Sub/Sub Couples

Friends Only

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Bicycling  (Expert)

 Collars  (Expert)


 Mental Bondage  (Expert)

 Obedience Training  (Expert)

 Orgasm Control  (Expert)

 Chess  (Expert)

 Cooking  (Expert)

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I have Relocated to Michigan WOW I am amazed at how many men and women think that submission is only sexual. People people wake up a true Submissive is Submissive all the time and a true Dom is Dominate all the time just because you have pictures showing your boobs does not make you submissive and why are so many afraid to show themselves. Never be ashamed of who you are that is one quick way to prove who is real and who is fake. I am looking for a SubSlave that truly understands you will submit to me as for couples both will serve not one and the other just watches and please no one that has read 50 shades of greyand thinks this is a way to save their Marriage or that this would be something they can tell all of their friend they tried it Again Please no one that has read 50 shades of Grey my Life is about more than sex i want mind body and soul The power of submission lies not in the ability to kneel before another, to give over ones body or in the wearing of a collar.The power of submission can be found only in the heart of one who gives their love to another freely knowing what joy and pain will come from it I am finding out a lot of so called Doms are just people that enjoy kinky sex with out the commitment needed in a true Dom subslave relationship a Dom is suppose to be there in and out of the bed room and yes there are Subslaves that cant be 247 kept but as a Dom you are still required to lead until the next time you are together not treat them as someone you only think about when you get drunk a true Dom will always lead either long distance or in person

if you Claim to be submissive................. The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for Being a SubSlave comes from within you. Is not something that someone can teach you. Is just like talent, you either have it or not. There are people, who, deep inside, they desire to be commanded. They desire to be ruled over, they desire to be submissive, to have someone they can obey, to have someone in front of whom they can kneel. There are people, who need to be tide up in order to feel free. Those people are slaves. Search yourself. Question yourself. Look deep inside you. If you feel these needs, if you feel as if you could serve someone from the deepest reaches of your heart, if you feel you could stand down on your knees in front of a man and not feel ashamed, yet feel extremely proud of it, than you are a Sub Slave. Sub Slaves are humble people, yet they are very powerful. They are beautiful girls and boys, who are not arrogant. Slaves desire to be free by belonging to someone. They want someone they can worship, someone who would adore them and who they can adore back. Someone who can mean the world to them. A slave that doesnt have a Master feels empty, they feel as if there is something big missing from their life, they feel incomplete. Being a Subslave doesnt necessary means to be a masochist who enjoys pain. It means to be a person who desire to serve someone, who desires to please. SubSlaves find their happiness in making others happy.


And to All of these so called Pro DomDommes there is no such thing when a person pays for a service they expect to be served to me you sound like a SUB? SLAVE? Are you a hungry submissive eager to show what you can do? Are you a slave who is empty without pleasing Then you are who I seek

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6/21/2016 10:59:31 AM
I have been asked why do I cut and paste the same message to new user and do I figure that new users are gullible.  here is the answer to those questions. I use the same message to new users because I feel that by providing information about my lifestyle will help new people to better understand this lifestyle. And also provide users with someone that knows this is not 50 Shades of gray nor a lifestyle that to a lot of users on Collarspace truly do not understand.  I offer inexperienced and so called experienced users the information that is helpful.  I offer mentoring users so that they can have information to avoid the flood of so called Dom/Dommes that are out there.  

 What does a mentor provide.

The other day, I was talking to someone who asked me about mentoring. They could see that I have several mentees listed in my d/s relationships, and they had a genuine question. They been approached by another "mentor" (and I use that word lightly for that person acting as the mentor), and once the dynamic began, the mentor began giving orders, setting tasks, asking for photos, and other self serving things. If you have a mentor, and that mentor even remotely hints that they want to engage in a dynamic that does anything but provide you with platonic advice and guidance, then let that raise a fucking huge red flag. If that occurs, simply run like fuck. Mentoring is about guiding you. Not ordering you. If someone wants to order you to do debauched things, then that is a very different dynamic indeed. Fair enough if in a sexual or kink dynamic, as your Master, Dom, Domme or even trainer. But not as a Mentor. The mentor role is an advisory one. A role of trust.

In kink, a mentor is essentially an experienced person that you obtain unbiased and impartial advice from. Someone that has knowledge and/or experience, and is truly willing to share that knowledge with you, without agenda. Someone that you learn from. Someone that gives you suggestions that are unbiased. Answers to questions that are impartial, clear and concise. Presented to you in a blunt and honest way. Honesty that can be down to earth, brutal and very straightforward. Not sugar coated. No bias. No sexual connotations. A mentor does not allow personal emotions cloud the answer provided. And no embarrassment occurs, as the dynamic is platonic, and thus does not allow emotions to get involved, that can often cloud the judgment when discussing taboo based items).

A mentor does not train the mentee. The mentor does not have an intimate sexual or physical relationship with the mentee. As a mentor, you act impartially. No interest in personal gain, and no personal agenda. Totally unbiased. The role is to teach and to guide. To walk the mentee through that massive maze of kink information that batters and confuses them. To offer advice. Suggestions. Answers. Guidance.

Mentoring is a relaxing thing for me. I do it to guide and empower others, but also to allow me to endure and allow it to teach me patience and humility. There is no sexual innuendo or contact. Their is no pressure of a standard dynamic. And it is truly fun to watch a person grow from (often) a state of naivety (innocence) and confusion, into a strong independent and empowered individual, who often in turn ends up mentoring and guiding others.

Its a selfless act. You don't gain sexual satisfaction, you don't get a physical prize, you don't often get recognition. But it's not about getting any of that. It allows you to learn about, and understand, true humility. The fact that someone asks you for guidance, and you provide the guidance, with an impartial, unbiased and transparent view on things, which in turn allow them to make a better informed choice, based upon the information you provide. The choice that allows them to absorb that information, then grow and evolve. Safely. And it is for this reason and this reason only that I do it



11/12/2015 7:38:22 AM
Last night I met Makemeufem a prospect that is looking for a home to become MaryAnn. After talking to him for a period of time I just may take him into my fold he is aware that I am not in this just for sex and he understands so I will probably meet with him again to begin his transformation into MaryAnn. This journal entry will be updated to reflect progress / or setbacks which ever it may be

10/26/2015 9:14:46 PM
Due to job requirements I have turned over my sub family to a good friend of mine. In the Warren Hills Michigan area. Sorry to see them go but my mind is at peace knowing that they are in great hands I will Visit.

10/12/2015 11:08:21 PM
Yesterday I have had the pleasure of meeting and talking to the most enlightened Sub and from this moment on I will always be her friend and I bestowed this to her unconditionally with that said I will always inform and enlighten her to the best of my Abilities so she knowingly I do so without a hidden agenda

7/27/2015 8:31:50 AM
Today is the day my Submissive female will step into the world of Sluthood. It has been a long time coming she went from a 35yr vanilla Marriage to finding her submissive side within a yrs time now she wants to dive deeper and honestly I truly feel she is ready will keep you posted on her progress

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