What draws me most to BDSM is how in a way it unlocks areas in yourself that would otherwise remain hidden and secluded. I like a mixture of lust and pain, but i am not a 100% masochist (although some might argue that? :P) To me a D/s is about challenge, confronting your limits and where possible overcome them. It is about the intense contact between Dominant and sub. To inspire each other and develop yourself. And before i get all too serious....it's about fun too! I am mostly just your regular girl next door, not too fancy, although my body has a few (ok,LOL, actually a lot) of limitations of its own accord that can't be worked on:) I am a bit shy, but when you get to know me better can be quite spontaneous and impulsive! Besides BDSM i like to enjoy all other aspects of life. Travel, nature and performance~arts are just to name a few. A 24/7 thing is not my cup of tea, but i do consider BDSM to be an essential part of my life, and to be able to surrender by and by to a Dominant an ultimately most beautiful thing to do. (Haven't been on here for a while, moved most of my activities to FL)