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I chose the name Aquinas as he was a caring Master ( or so they say ) and I've been told that's me, so let me blow my own trumpet :).
ok maybe it's a crappy name but you can't just call your self "Sir" here can you ?

I'm an ex-pat Brit who has been living in the Netherlands for quite some time now. I can read and speak Dutch but I prefer to play in English or I'm just not being myself. if you're looking for a new full one on one partner I'm not your guy.
I am however looking for subs that want to play for real.
I would prefer someone young and, or very new to BDSM who is trying to find out what they want, like or need. I love to help people in general so why not combine my passions.
Yeah go on say it "you dirty old man" ! Yeah I'm old and yeah my MIND is disgusting but consenting adults means EXACTLY THAT.
I also love to laugh, socialize and have fun
(which is what the word “PLAY” is supposed to mean)!
Bi would be a nice touch, but straight is fine . For me in BDSM the bottom line ( no pun intend ) is this :-
Caring, sharing, trust, honesty, safety and fun.
I have my own likes and dislikes but it's about giving the sub what they want or need which appeals the most.
Quite a challenge ! What if there is a "click" via email ? We meet somewhere safe for both of us.
Even then there is no guarantee it will all work out the way we both want but as they say “nothing ventured, nothing gained”. Aquinas oh one small detail I'm ( unusually ) Dyslectic in both languages so if you found something wrong and think It's lack of attention to detail think again.
I wont be handing out memo's during play!

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10/8/2015 1:57:13 PM
3 years today !!!!! Well that went fast......
What started out as a "next step from caming " became a lot more then either of us expected. 
Ups and downs ( not just talking about my knob ) with multiple ins and outs ( explaining that in detail could take a while, lets just say it's a fist fully of moments ) and a whole mountain of "life events" all around us.....
Well my dear little sublet we are still here and still going strong despite your levels of cheeky growing a little to big for their own boots...........  
I guess it just makes you irritatingly fun to be with ...hang on who's the masochist here..?



7/25/2015 2:28:48 PM

Today it is one year since I gave my sublet her collar.
Instead of ranting about how obedient a submissive she is, I'm going to talk about me instead.
Being a Dom is not about having the almighty power over another to use and abuse as and when you chose. It is about sharing and caring for someone who has the same desires.
What ever the subs needs are, it is the task of the Dom to learn, understand and for-fill them.
This is not an easy task, even if you're on top form and “in the zone”.
In the past year I have failed countless times to be all I needed to be for a list of reasons as long as your arm. I have been unable to play and know that my sub has suffered badly because of this.
I don't make excuses or apologies for this as I am just a human being who is far from perfect.
However she is still my sub and stands by me regardless. Call it love, call it respect, call it stupidity in fact call it what ever you like.
It is a gift that I have the honor of receiving.
Thank you sublet for all you gave this past year.

And for those of you who think she needs to be trained to be a slave, I suggest you think about this one.
I told her to change from a slave to a sub because I don't want that. She has complied 100% with my instructions.
I wonder if your slaves are that obedient ?


6/13/2014 8:46:35 AM

Why do some people believe that by showing their face in public proves they are not fake.

It doesn't prove a thing.
Many people in the lifestyle either wish to or need to keep the're private lives out of their public life's.
Personally, I rather people didn't show their face publicly as it can become a link back to me which is not something I either wish or can accept.
Ok it is personal choice and I respect this but the other side deserves the same respect.  


6/7/2014 1:51:11 PM

Life goes on and new doors open ....I wonder who will walk in next ?


 


5/14/2014 5:47:19 PM

Has every one read 50 shades yet ? Seems like the made rush to join CM has slowed down again...
Now where the hell are the real female subs of this world ????
I mean If anyone wants to have a holiday in the Netherlands and would like to try a temp poly effect while here then why not say Hi .....
 Come on I can at least try ! 


3/17/2014 6:20:46 PM

Why is it fashionable to make accounts with bugger all detail in the profile ??
No wonder people complain about the amount of bullshit mails they get!
I would much rather read something about how some one sees them self as a sub or slave and not in the slightest but troubled by reading what people want or don't want, but an empty space ?

How does anyone find anyone any more if we all expect to send mail after mail to find out anything ?

 


12/8/2013 4:00:31 AM

It's surprising how much the realization of a misunderstanding can have such wide and deep effect on a persona.
I suppose it's good to be reminded of how fragile a Dom's soul can be and that being focused only on a subs well being is a very real danger.
Got to keep yourself in check with the same focus or you may well loose yourself the confusion which results in your inability to be there for anyone.
And some people vanilla life is complex !
Well it's all in the hands of the Lords of time in the end....
I wonder where we will materialise next ? 
Bound to be quite an adventure :)
 
 


12/6/2013 8:19:45 AM

Sometimes it's scary how one over looked detail can have a profound effect on everything you think and do.


Consenting adults does not automatically mean your perception is the same.

Now thats a lesson I won't forget in a hurry!


12/2/2013 7:52:35 AM

Have heard a new tittle to give my sublet.
"Super sub" .......

Guess that kind of sums her up :)


 


9/8/2013 11:00:58 AM

My dear subby euroluv ....... your quite right I haven't read your last couple of journal entries but as you know I'm up to my neck in vanilla poo at the moment....

I think you need to write a new journal anyway :)

OH BTW I think I'm going to dust of that book again.....I believe it has some unfinished bussiness in it and as soon as my birthday is here I may well be able to correct some things !


9/8/2013 10:53:20 AM

Well the hell are my audio entries ???????
Only one left !!! 
WTF CM ????????

hold it take that back there are two now but they just don't work :(

 


8/19/2013 12:13:09 PM

WTF is going on........no matter how incomplete or over complete my profile is no one seems to be able to be normal out there !!!

Are all the subs in a summer sleep ????

I just want to find some people that are really into BDSM, like to play and above all like to have fun!      

AND NO NUT CASES !!!!!


8/5/2013 6:22:49 AM

WTF has this heat done.......people keep looking at my profile !!! 

OK I'm not looking for Bi or guy male subs so thx's guys appreciate it just not my thing.

Oh and same goes for TG ....just can't get my head around it ....sorry.

As for Dom's ........please lets not go there or it will be a long long discussion hahahahaha.

 
 As for you female subs/switches ....why just look and not say hi ? Am I that scary :S

Ok where are all these beginners that want to find find out what it's all about ???

Girls / Ladies I am here to lead your way :)


6/16/2013 4:55:45 AM

Well it's here, been tested and it works.

THE CAGE !

Must admit I think there are going to be a lot of modifications to it as I have had a lot of good ideas while using it.


Big thank you to MstrLuke for the cage and euroluv for being my test subject.


5/3/2013 1:16:12 PM

Ok something new to say ?????????? nope lost for words......
Still don't understand why people from UK and the states keep looking at my profile and not say anything ??????

Looking to kick out a crap lodger this month so I think the play room is getting closer and closer :)  
Now where are those dam new subs I asked Santa for last Christmas ???? 


Aquinas 


4/19/2013 2:11:52 PM

OK it's an email kul .......marked check ....delete bye bye bollocks.
Where the hell are all the new female bi subs that what to be trained grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....
 
Will except them from ANYWHERE !!!!! 


4/7/2013 7:50:54 AM

Ok subbys ...if you have revived a personally hand written email from me but not yet read it this is your final chance to do so before I delete you......hummmm I sound like a Cyber-man ( that's what the Borg are based on :P ).

Having said that I am fully aware that this posting is a complete waist of time and no one gives a shit, especially 18 year old Bi blonds that have have just discovered there sub side and want to learn everything!!!!!!!

Who the hell was I kidding !!!!!!!!!!! 

OK lets see if this works ....

Old fat grey wanker with false teeth wants to mentally physically and sexually abuse barely legal women for his own perverted pleasure.......

I wonder if I have more success this way ?   
 


3/18/2013 8:42:40 PM
User zeeuwseprinses

in Having spent quite a few hours chatting with what I thought to be was a 19 year old inexperienced sub I started to notice some cracks in her story.
After switching from FL to msn due to the chat not working ( a known problem ) I asked if she had a web cam to which she replied yes. Since she has her face all over FL I decided to ask for a new photo showing 3 fingers on her left hand in front of her using her web cam and use it as her profile picture in msn. This she was unable to do she said due to the format issue.
I then asked if she would send the photo she claimed to have made to my hot-mail account. I had to leave at this point and said I would be back later.
Nothing arrived and there has been no communication since.
There are many more reasons why I think she is fake but I think this shows quite clearly something is not right.

Please make your own opinion but thought I would warn people of my experience.
My concern is that the person in the photo's in not this person and they are being spread all over the Internet as a kinkster when they are not.

All the best Aquinas

3/16/2013 5:53:13 AM

Ok updated my profile again and copied it to where I am called Aquinasmaster

So there you go.


3/13/2013 2:57:10 PM

Just found out that one of my subs wants to fist fuck one of my other subs !!!!!
And she calls me a WHORE ??????
I think the order or sub fisting has just changed !!!!!!!!!!

Any new subs out there want to help me fist my sub ?????


3/8/2013 4:32:55 AM

OMG 6 months already ........is that your fault ????

Well I think you should be spanked for not bring me breakfast in bed !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Not my fault you don't live here or not have a key to the house!!!! errrr hang on that is my fault well wheres my BACON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

oh BTW xx sublet
 


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3/3/2013 5:12:22 AM

Well never really been into 

Kinbaku .........Shibari ( yes there is a difference )

but after getting evolved the other day for the first time with full suspension I decided it was time to get my old boy scout badges out. 
Two reef knots and granny not later it's youtube and photo's 3 and 4 are made :)

Must admit her back didn't look quite the same a few hours later but after what started out as a practice session became a rather long scene and a whole bunch of fun :)

Thx Sublet 


3/1/2013 4:40:40 AM

OK profile updated again .....humm quite a fast change over the last 6 months ......COOL!
feel like I'm getting my Dom feet back again only this time with a much wiser head.

LOVE IT :)


2/21/2013 2:03:59 AM

I would to thank every one that has viewed my profile, discovered the font I used was unreadable and told me absolutely nothing about it.!

Hum isn't it the idea that we gather as a community here to help each other and exchange ideas etc ....??

OH well it's fixed so read away. 
  


2/19/2013 4:06:57 PM

For some unknown reason Male Doms are looking at me ???

Any clues ?????
 


2/14/2013 8:20:57 AM

It's Valentine's day today.

Why shouldn't you show all your for your sub(s) and be their valentine ? 

After all there are 364 days left to treat them like the filthy sluts they are ! 
 


2/10/2013 11:58:12 AM

Added a photo of  the famous black book today.. 
Whats started as a but of a joke has become a nice little tool in my play box :)


1/29/2013 11:20:55 AM

Well there you go I add some pics !!!!


1/28/2013 4:38:44 AM

Well that was a a good weekend.

Got some lessons in needle play  and Japanese bondage.......nice

MstrLuke

 thanks for your knowledge, facility's and good company.
  euroluv

 Thank you for your mind,body and soul.

 

I think we all had a lot of fun but the photo's of euroluv afterwards say it all :)


 


  


1/23/2013 4:11:46 PM

I use Linux Mint LMDE 32 bit and 64 on 4 different PC's with 4 different web cams.
They all work fine with Skype, Facebook chat,Google hangouts, tinychat, tango and any other webcam software you can think of.


I can't not get the collarme video chat to work on any of the systems. I know it uses flash but so do other web based programs and they work.

To get technical help is very easy within Linux community you just have to ask.


However I don't think that many of the “geeks” are into the BDSM lifestyle so I would like to know what software the collarme classic videochat uses. Then I can find another chat room as a reference which is completely non sexual so I can ask for help!

Please do not ask which cam I used or have I selected the correct video source in the settings because that is not the problem!

I can't not believe that I have been asking this question for weeks and weeks and no one can answer it!!!! 


1/12/2013 4:13:08 PM

Wow I can't believe how many how many profiles I have looked at today and the best bit is 90% are now blocked !
REPLY OR DIE SUBBYS


1/9/2013 2:50:11 PM

Ok changed my profile to just a few lines in the hope that someone actually reacts too it.

 

Yep 2 seconds after I up load the "viewing your profile is in" .......


1/9/2013 1:00:59 PM

Why the hell don't subs react to mails when you ask "normal" serious questions ....are they all fake or have no understanding of respect.......in which case please find a vanilla dating site to wank around in.

I must admit every single sub I have met in real life would never ever do this and all are nice normal people who are HONEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


1/7/2013 3:27:42 PM

Can't believe I lost weight over Christmas .....now that has to be a first..



12/23/2012 11:27:32 AM

Got an early Christmas pressy  from my subby..........................................................Black book..............................a HUGE ONE !!!!!!

What do you think?
Has she has got to know herself a lot better or is it just wishful thinking ?????


11/21/2012 5:34:35 PM

Well seems my last update din't :(

So I hope now it's done and the world can read about my wonder sub :)

Thx subby :X


11/16/2012 2:27:25 AM

Ok updated my profile as it was time again.
Need to inform the world about my wonderful "full time subby"


11/14/2012 3:41:01 AM

Why isn't there an easy way to tell your vanilla I need to be whipped ????


10/23/2012 6:46:31 AM

My sub asked me to do something which benefits her health.

I told her "Your wish is my command" .

I think it sounds better this way round.
 


10/22/2012 1:02:44 PM

 

My Sub just gave me an amazingly good wank.

The amazing part is, she wasn't even there!

If your sub can do that then you have the best there is.

If you don't understand then ask me.

If you think I'm a wanker and full of bullshit then ask yourself how will my sub feel after she reads this?

I'm 100% sure she will do anything for me because she wants to and not just because told her to.

That's what submision means to me!


10/12/2012 5:26:47 PM

Well there I was having an few nice email exchanges and then nothing :(

Did I say something wrong ?
Did I do something wrong ?
I mean Dom's have feelings

And it was quite fun ........
Dam it!


10/11/2012 2:52:15 AM

Filled in all the interests last night ....is all this stuff relevant ?
Oh well I guess if you Live for watching paint dry then there will be lost of play cos it will bore the crap out of me!

hummmmmmmmmmmmm am I ready there profiles wrong ?
Should I in fact reverse every thing because the sub is trying to get attention ?
All so confusing.


10/6/2012 5:47:13 AM

Ok joined a couple of days ago. Started to nose around a bit.
So far found out that the likes/loves/hates list is not very helpful and worse then that you don't know if it's a "done it and love it" or " would like to try" :( ....



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