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Male Dominant, 49, fT. lAUDERDALE, Florida
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Female Submissive, 24, Lansdale, Pennsylvania
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Male Dominant, 54, Perth
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About earnmysubmission
To be the submissive I am inside, I need guidance, love, protection and a firm hand. I need to feel cared for, safe, respected and adored.
You must be patient, kind, loving, strong, a real Man who knows how to take my hand and guide me (kicking and screaming if it comes to that *wink*). He should probably be older than I am as well (I tend to do best with late thirties and early forties but can be a bit flexible if you catch my attention). I also have an appreciation for true gentlemen.
Can you hold me accountable for my actions with creative consequences? Can you help me adhere to my own goals? I've been trying to make some changes in my life and without someone to hold me accountable (and hold me up), I can’t seem to accomplish them. Am I a failure? No. Do I appear the type to need this kind of thing? No. Am I hopeless or dependant? Not even close. Do I get through every day and accomplish what must be done? Yes, of course.
I am obviously no doormat. I am quite the capable young woman, but oh so tired. I am not looking for a free ride (nor should you be) or a one-sided situation. I have owned and operated two businesses since the age of 18, I hold a degree, unrelated to either business, I have friends of all races, backgrounds, social status, ages, etc. I consider myself somewhat of a "social chameleon". Meaning, I can slide into almost any social situation without "sticking out". I will admit though, that "high society" is something I have the least experience with (even though I come from a middle-upper class family).
When I find what I seek, he will receive (to say the least) my loyalty, devotion, a strong desire to please him (with creativity and attention to his particular desires/interests), and much more then I could ever type down here. When given the right setting, I am a proactive submissive. Meaning I will pay attention to you and your desires in the hopes of fulfilling them before you even get the chance to ask me to.
I believe that when I find my One, he will show me all the other things I never knew I wanted. He will also bring out more in me then I have ever known I'm capable of. Under his guidance, I will find all of myself.
The Dom I seek:
He will desire a life partner first, a submissive second.
(I desire a realistic relationship with D/s as the undertone)
He will have integrity, be easily respected and admired, have his life together and know the value of what I have to give.
He will know that D/s starts in the mind.
He will know anything worked for is worth more.
He will be intelligent, strong, loving, humorous and kind.
He will be patient, tolerant, understanding and have a strong sense of who He is.
(but, He won’t be so rigid, there is no room to grow together).
He will know when to allow me to lead and when to shut it down.
He will enjoy a challenge and realize it’s natural for me to fight the desire to submit.
He will think it’s cute when I’m playful because I’m not disrespectful.
He will enjoy seeing me smile.
He will want it to be obvious (just by looking at me) I am well cared for.
He will respect and admire that being a good Mother is my first priority.
He will not be allergic to dogs or cats.
He will be mature and want a monogamous relationship.
He will like all of my curves. ;-)
He will not desire someone he must micromanage.
He will not ask me to move away from my family and friends.
Hard limits: Anal play (yes, that says no anal play, sorry), bathroom play of any kind, humiliation, degradation, blood, needles, extreme vaginal or nipple stretching and the other standard "no"s.
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Hmmm, my move is looking better and better every day. Found some very interesting people. |
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Just a note that I'm moving to the Bellingham area soon. Found an INCREDIBLE house up there and I'm super excited. Anyone have information on the BDSM community up there? It's semi-conservative so I'm not sure there is anything too "visible". |
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Awhile back I met a guy off this site. He scared the bejeezes out of me (not in a good way). There is definately something to be said for meeting in public (no matter how much information you have about a person). Curious as to what happened? Ask. Especially if you are a female submissive seeking on this site. |
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Just an update: My broken leg is finally healed and I'm working my tail off to catch up on life after being imobile for so long. If I take awhile to respond or you haven't heard from me lately, please don't be offended. It's not personal at all. Just taking this opportunity to take care of me. *smiles* |
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Whew! Another Birthday come and gone. Thank you to my loved ones for making it a good one. I'm so lucky to have all of you! OH and a big Happy Birthday to one of my best friends. Stay young and live well SockMasterD!! |
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Enjoy the new pics. I found a better pic of the "death shoes". Before I broke my leg on the damn things I actually enjoyed wearing them. LOL |
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*does happy dance* Tonight was fun! My girlie is so HOT!! Smooches Baby Girl. |
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FYI: If your picture is you posing up against a car (or any other high ticket item), you give the impression that you need it to make up for your short-comings. ;-) |
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Cabin Fever is setting in.  AAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!! Thank goodness I have my friends to keep me company! |
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The most unbelievable thing happened to me on Thursday evening. On the walk from the car to the front door of the WetSpot, I stepped into a pothole, broke my leg in three places and landed on the pavement. I'm still in complete shock that this actually happened. But I want to say thank you, thank you, thank you to my girlie for taking such wonderful care of me and keeping me laughing while we spent the night in the ER together. You are truly wonderful sweetheart and no one else could have treated me as well as you did. I had a wonderful time regardless of circumstances because you were with me. Kisses and hugs honey. I'm so lucky to have you in my life.
To everyone else who has sent kind wishes and hopes for a quick recovery, thank you, your thoughts are much appreciated!
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Yay!!! I'm about to make my first trip to the WetSpot. Can't wait, I'm so excited. *happy dance* |
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Neither a Top nor a bottom can be either without eachother. |
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I am on a search for the One man that can make me behave. Not out of force, but out of character. |
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Are you smart enough to understand that when someone is as protective of what they have to give as I am, it's one hell of a gift to give? I know (without doubt) that someday, the One that is right for me will exclaim "Damn, you were a pain in the beginning but MY GOD were you worth it!!!!!" |
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Patiently waits for her One. Are you out there? |
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I keep seeing this on profiles and it blows me away......."I want a woman that will submit to me without question"? How can any Dominant say that?!?!? Ok, look, I can see how after trust and confidence in Him has been established, then great. But other then that, you are asking a woman to put herself in the most dangerous position imaginable. And, if she actually agrees to that, she isn't ok in her head. That is crazy to just pick some guy from the internet (or anywhere else for that matter) and immediately say "yes Sir, anything you desire" PLEEEAAASSE!!!!! Might as well say "I'm a victim, rape me, abuse me, show me all the reasons people are afraid of BDSM".
If you do not understand that you must FIRST make her feel safe, loved, cared for, adored, and secure in your arms, well then, you are an idiot.
Here's a tip, it's much easier to be vulnerable with someone who has proven they won't take advantage of it. Someone who has proven to respect your limits (even if they push them). But all of that takes time to develop. Be patient and you'll get what you want. |
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I am the sweetest angel you will ever meet. And thank god for that halo! It hides my horns perfectly! ;-) |
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Please, please, please do not lie about your level of experience. If you are new, tell me so. I won't use it against you. In fact, I may be able to help you discover just how wonderful you can be.
For those of you who still choose to lie, I can and will "call your hand", don't make me embarrass you. |
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The right kind of pain, in the right way, gives me the most wonderful feeling of calm. God, I miss that. |
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It recently has been brought to my attention that I need to make something clear.
FYI: It goes without saying that the type of man I seek will have his choice of subs. Therefore I will also have to be worthy of and earn his Dominance. I am more then willing and definately eager to do so. My profile is "stiff" because I am sick of men that seem to think just saying "I'm a Dom" should cause me to fall at their feet. |
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I found this wonderful description of a "brat" and had to post it.
Thanks to MTslave for finding it somewhere and letting me steal it.
Brats are fun! Brats are fun to be around. Brats have that evil twinkle in their eye, as they very innocently pinch their loved ones? butts as they walk by. Brats know all the tricks to earn themselves fun spankings. Who could resist a brat who sticks their tongue out at them across the room at a fancy party? All in fun when no one is looking of course! They know exactly what to say to earn that ?zing?! Come on you all know the zing, the perfect come back. The zing that makes your spouses eyes widen in complete amazement that you actually had the nerve to say what you said! It makes them speechless it was so perfectly timed! Then the fun comes in chasing you around the room to give you the perfect spanking your earned!
If you are a brat or love one there is nothing to be ashamed of! Brats are lovable! Brats make the head of their household glad to be alive. They make them smile at all the right times, even if the smile is there especially because they get to do what they love to do? spank their brats! Brats shake their bottoms at their Doms and dare them to do something about it! And speaking of dares, brats cannot resist them. The ?look? is of course just an invitation, a dare, to try something again. The look means you are on the right track if you are trying to ?earn? a spanking. The look means, ?I dare you sweetie to try that again!? Any self respecting brat must of course try it again! Please, someone might think we had lost our touch if we didn?t!
Brats are never mean or do things in bad spirit. Everything is meant in fun, in the spirit of a good time. Do we sometimes judge wrong and make a foul blunder? Of course, just like a comedian can misjudge her audience! But we take our lumps if we cross the line and all things are righted again, ready for another fun day! So if you are a brat, stand up unashamed and be counted. There are those of us who strive to be better brats and there are those out there who love the challenge of handling a good brat! Can you handle one? I dare you to try... :-)
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