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	About Dom2Die4 Vampire seeks the friendship of mermaids and unicorns. Leprechauns and trolls need not apply.? Want to disappear? Presently accepting applications for the position of Ashley, aka: "basement girl". No previous experience required.

The slab has been poured, the power has been run, and the new jacuzzi is hot.

I've had the antique pool table taken apart to make room for the indoor gym.

This living room is getting a goth makeover.

90 days until it's party time at My place.

Now, to what I intended to post. It was about walking the talk, trueness, and community.

First, I want to address the idea of "community". Over the decades, I have seen so many people with a true interest in BDSM get both physically and emotionally abused by those they initially hooked up with.

They wind up getting burned and leave the lifestyle feeling disillusioned. I've seen this happen to people in all "roles".?

Frankly, I'm tired of seeing people let go of their dreams because some poser or sociopath has dashed those desires. I want to see our lifestyle grow and thrive.

It seems that My last post is an example of what is called a "Red Flag" profile. Things don't add up.

It's late and My time is short. I'll post more on this theme later.

Here is an actual quote from a self-proclaimed Domant's profile. Submissive wanted..."for slavery, humiliation, and abuse. you must be very obedient and ready to please My every desire or do not bother contacting Me.

All emails must include at least one self photo for consideration. This is not about you. It is all about Me"

Oh, let Me count the ways can I tear this appart! However, I won't bore you. I'll just hit on a couple of points.

First of all, by attitude alone, this person screams insecure poser. To Me it appears that this person doesn't have a clue regarding living the real day to day D/s lifestyle.

Real Dominants don't need to "act" dominant. They are genuinely loving and caring people. Their Dominance is natural and their control is never administered arbitrarily.

Second, BDSM is a power exchange. It is an exchange of a certain type of service for a particular type of attention.

Third, any demands made upon or demeaning of a submissive without their prior agreement is abuse.

Finally, "abuse" by definition, is any nonconsensual act. Therefore, such activities are outside of the realm of BDSM.

It's just My not so humble opinion.

I?ve been thinking again. (I know?that?s always a dangerous thing ;-)

I figure that when it comes to the pan-sexual, gay, lesbian, trans-gender, BDSM, and leather community lifestyles, that the vanilla concepts of gender are obsolete to the point of absurdity. When it comes to these lifestyles, the traditional societal roles of male and female have been supplanted with a whole spectrum of tastes, desires, and personality characteristics.

It makes more sense to Me that a person?s gender role be redefined as their desire, (sadistic, masochistic, or sensual) their character, (Top, bottom, or Switch) combined with their sexual preference. (male, female, or bi-sexual) For example, I would define Myself as a ?straight male, sadistic, Top?.

Therefore, I have concluded that within these lifestyles, a person's character role is significantly more important than their actual biological gender. Now isn?t that better or does anyone know what the frick I am babbling on about?

I just trolled some of the other local "Dominants" on this site. All I can say is, GEEZ! So many of them take themselves waaay too seriously. Some even making presumptuous demands as if they owned you kind of stuff. Look, it's been My experience that almost universally, the biggest and baddest Doms around will exude the feeling that They would give you the shirt off of Their backs just for the asking. They would never assume control before your submission is given willingly. I mean, it's not about abuse. In My book, if somebody ain't getting their yahyas out, let's try Disneyland.

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