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About DespoenaCalypso
♥My friends call me DC.♥
I also prefer Miss to Ma’am and Domina to Domme. But, see those are just my preferences and a title only denotes respect if one is committed to living up to the label.
Family:
I am a dominant member of the http://.com/users/383464 Leather Household along with http://.com/users/374446, http://.com/users/16641,and http://.com/users/103719d. We are a group of like minded friends that come together with the intent of learning and love. Without my family I would have given up long ago on myself. I am so thankful for their support which makes much of what I do in the community possible.
On most weekends you can find me at http://.com/groups/853
Relationships:
I'm single, childless, never been married. I'm slowly entering the dating arena and looking to date a strong, smart, interesting DOMINANT man to form a power couple relationship.
About Me:
I am a 27 year old Female Dominant. I am happily bisexual and currently single. I have a full time job and enjoy reading, playing piano, and some virtual games during my down time. I'm a bit of an OCD neat freak and tend to keep a routine. I own two Dogs, a Hedgehog, and some fish. I enjoy gardening, painting, sewing, and all sort sof other arts and crafty things. My main fetishes involve Rope or letting my inner Sadist out. There, now you know more about me!
Some Quotes:
Not every soul I touch is mine to keep... but each one I touch is mine to shape and mold. I strive to better each one, and in doing so, better myself.- Goddess DC
If I acted like you do... would you be proud? - Goddess DC
I ♥ ROPE it makes me ☺. |
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Ohhh, I remember why I stopped checking this profile.. this place is a meat market.. *runs back to her other prefered site.* |
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www. jacksonvilletng. com
Munch every 4th Saturday 2-4 at The Metro.
Ages 18-40
WE Would LOVE to see you there!
Message me for more info. |
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It's that time again!
Jackonville Then Next Generation Munch
(TNG 18-40)
Saturday August 22nd at 2pm.
Location
Times Grill
10915 Baymeadows Rd. Suite 135
Jacksonville, FL 32256.
For more information, please feel free to visit the Jacksonville TNG website. |
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Guess what.. Next weekend.. VIPER.
TNG munch is taking a field trip to support the Christmas in July Charity Event.
Can't wait to see everyone there!
xoxoxoxo |
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Heading down to the Orlando Munch and Wood Shed Saturday.. can't wait! |
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ROPE BONDAGE DEMO class for the j.s.d.s.c. (Jax Sub Dom Social Circle) the beginning of March. The j.s.d.s.c. is for younger kinksters 18-39 and is a small group for people that want meet for more than just Kink related stuff. The Rope Demo is going to be a fairly small group (10 couples). Check out the j.s.d.s.c. website for more information.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/JaxSubDomSocialCircle/
If you want to join in the fun you'll need to visit the website. |
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I've taken a new approach to meeting people. Someone new will turn 18 every day. So if today doesn't have what I'm looking for... perhaps tomorrow. |
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Heading to Jamaica on Tuesday. I'm really looking forward to getting away from work and family and just focusing on the sun and doc for a few days.
I mananged to sunburn myself yesterday so that's been not so fun.
But, I'm all packed, the dogs are packed up to go to the kennel, and Tribble (my hedgehog) is ready for her first overnight stay somewhere else.
I'm sure everything will be fine..I just have this nagging feeling I'm forgetting something! |
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Found out Friday morning I can fly.
Wait, my definition of flying and your definition probably isn't the same thing.
I "fall with style" I don't "soar through the air".
Well, anyways I fell with style up a flight of stairs... my landing gear didn't function properly and now I've got a bloodblister on the bottom front of my big toe. How I did that I'm not sure... but either way I found out I can fly. Yay for the little things! |
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I must of done something to piss off my Microwave. He is acting like a complete ass.
The other day, he burnt my corn chex and chocolate.. tonight: he burnt my pizza.
I set the timer for 3 mins and walked away about 10 mins later realized I was still waiting on pizza. *SIGH* there was still another 20 minutes left for it to cook.
What a waste of a good pizza. Good news is: I had a spare! =) woot woot!
Note to self.. read the directions and follow the directions! |
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Last night my foot met a stiletto. My silver heels became jealous at the strange yet beautiful stiletto flirting with my foot. In vengeance, the silver heels moved my feet away from the hussy Stiletto. Not to be put off the stiletto attacked my poor left foot. A fight ensued.
Thus, today in the morning light, the Silver heels are sound asleep in their box and the foot that rebuffed the Stiletto is bandaged, bruised, and broken.
Well, I don't know if it's actually broken but, it looks horrible!
Said all that to say this... someone stepped on my foot with the back of their shoe last night (full weight) and today it HURTS! Heel lovers please be careful with those pointy things |
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Learned something new today.
Apparently, microwaving Chex Corn Cereal... can start a fire.
Also, My new favorite snack:
Chex Corn Cereal with hot melted chocolate.. eaten with chopstick so my hands stay clean.
I'm not pregnant I swear. LOL.
(Edited to fix- eated wtf, whoops.) |
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I frequently receive e-mails with pictures in them. Pictures are great? someone once said ?A picture is worth a thousand words? more often than not, unfortunately, the pictures are of male genitalia. I?m not certain if people send these to get their jollies by in essence exposing themselves to an unwilling audience, or if they are just trying to impress me. Either way it?s unfitting and gross to introduce yourself in any situation with your dick in My face. I block every person that e-mails Me with a picture of genitalia that I haven?t asked for.
I also frequently receive e-mails from people that have not read my entire profile. I set specific instructions in my profile regarding how to start contact and what I want to know about a possible submissive. It astounds me how many people ignore my very simple requests.
Sure, you can decide to not answer my questions and hey, you may even interest me with your message if it is witty. But, I will then request you to fill out the questions. They have two purposes. One, for me to determine if my interests will be compatible with yours, I always read your entire profile when I am deciding that. Two, you have to answer for yourself tough questions about your needs and wants, consider it a few moments of getting in touch with you.
I really hope that everyone out there finds what they are looking for. I just wish they would read the directions.
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Resolutions I've had for a while but am looking forward to completing in this new year:
-Healthy life
-Mind:read more
-Body:workout and eat healthy
-Soul:learn more music
-Take more pictures
-Kink:of My Shibari practice
-Vanilla: of My day to day celebrations
I want peace and happiness. |
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Had ice come clean the condo for me today since I'm sick. It was really nice to have a submissive show up on time and do all that I needed and then leave. ice is a good guy and fairly loyal. Wish there were more like him out there.
Had a lot of time this week (since I'm sick) to do some heart searching... at what point is loving someone not enough? Anyone have an answer? |
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Though I have recently updated my profile I suppose I should clarify the new "THINGS I WON'T DO" Category. Although I know I don't need a reason to have limits I think it's fair that I explain these in particular.
assplay- this one's pretty easy.. no scat. That and I'm not into fucking someone up the butt I barely know.
enemas- no scat... enemas just aren't fun to me.. just smelly and gross.
sissy play- I am not turned on in the least by dressing a guy up in my panties and making him curtsy around the house. Some people love it.. I can respect that.. but it's not going to excite me.
sex of any kind including oral service- I am not interested in sensual Kink. I have a boyfriend that meets all my needs I am not looking for oral servitude/worship or anything else that involves part of your mouth or genitals on me or in me.
permanent marks- I have not found a person that deserves a permanent mark from me. I do not do 'forever' things with someone that is not forever.
any play with a person in a serious relationship in which the partner doesn?t know- if you are married or dating or living with someone and they are not aware of your kink tendencies, if you hide your fetishes from your significant other, if you hide me from your partner... I will not meet with you and I will not play with you. Any lying to a spouse is wrong it is in some forms emotional cheating and I believe that if you are that unhappy in a relationship with that person perhaps you should re-evaluate that relationship. That being said, IF I have verbal and signed written permission from your spouse to carry on a training/BDSM 'relationship' with you... I may take you under consideration.. but I will always default to your spouse out of respect.
scene with a fully nude male-I don't do this. I have no desire to see a man nude in front of me. Out of respect for my mate I've firmly stood my ground on this rule. The one time I didn't he was sitting there with me. It felt cheap and wrong and is something I will never do again. |
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The following is a message I received from a seattle domme:
Her:"whoa! you're a big one"
Me: "A big what?"
Her: "a big woman, of course.
Me:"Well, no actually I am not. Whatever made you think that comment was appropriate?"
Her:"165? c'mon...be serious. "
seattle slew you are a cowardly bully.
And to anyone that thinks I'm fat.. check out my profile main picture. It's me. I'm curvy and athletic definately not a BBW.
What a jerk. |
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Life has been a flurry of activity.. recently had my birthday.. happy f-in b-day to me. I'm 24 now.
doc and I are in the midst of negotiating a contract for a new relationship together. Not 100% on that.. waiting to see where this rabbit trail leads.
I've been missing the companionship of a woman for a while now. Perhaps I'm ready for a next step in that sort of relationship as well.
Work is ok.. just busy. Dogs are ok.. just keep me busy. Life in general is just stress... wish I had someone to help me through it all. I'm sure that person is out there... somewhere. |
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There was once a small flame that flickered brightly in the night sky. The flame spent many nights by Herself; waiting. Until, one night, a gentle wind found Her all alone; he asked Her to dance. Together, dancing in the midnight sky, their passion grew strong, and the flame's soul burned brighter and brighter for him. Soon she was a blazing fire, he became entangled in her flames; together they where one. The wind loved to be in the fire's warm arms, but the fire knew that he had to blow away. The wind left the fire, dancing alone in the night sky. Once again by Herself, the fire burned down into a small bright flame; waiting in the night....
Found this and knew it was a great description of this past month's occurances... |
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Which is More?
"Sweethear, I love you," he whispered low,
As the twilight faded into night,
And the gorgeous crimson sunset glow
Melted away from their wondering sight.
"Love is fickle," the maid replied;
"Like the crimson yonder it fades away."
Then lightly, half in jest, she cried,
"Prove me your love for a year and a day."
"Sweetheart, I love you," once more he cried,
As he clasped her hand in the morning light;
"Sweetheart, I trust you..." - He stood by her side
And over the twain the sun shone bright.
But a light filled her eys that was not from above,
As archly she smiled at his pause, and said,
"Is it more to trust than it is to love?"
For the year and the day of the proving were sped.
(Leon Edgar Truesdell, Early Poems) |
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FETISH CON!
Well, doc and I went to fetish con and had a nice time seeing everyone we had planned on seeing.
I was sorely disappointed by the abundance of "fetish models" and "photographer/directors" I was really looking for more of the lifestyle crowd. The paparazi was almost unbearable at times and made it hard to have fun at the nightly parties due to the attention I had to spend making people delete pictures of Myself and My household.
Unfortunately, the weekend photography jerks turned doc off to the fetish community so I am redirecting My engery at this time to focus on doc and the submissives I already have.
I don't think I'd make the attempt to go to another fetish con as it just wasn't O/our crowd. I loved seeing My friends and wearing the corsets and such but, hated all the cameras...
Well at least W/we know for the future that modeling, cameras, and wannabes aren't O/our scene.
A Big Happy Birthday to Lady Stryder! |
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Since I ask that submissives fill out these questions... I thought it would be nice for Me to do the same:
-what type of relationship you are looking for
*submissives or slaves that are loyal and honest
-do you have a significant other
Yes, I have a boyfriend.. he goes by Doc
-do they know about your kink?
*Yes he knows My kinks, doc has decided to stay mainly vanilla, we have decided he is an bottom switch
-do you have any pets
*Yes, 3 dogs: 2 boxers and a minpin and fish
-what type of job do you work
*I work M-F 8-5 Office Manager Job, High stress environment.
-what kind of training have you received or desired
* I have recieved trophy slave training.. but, that was a long time ago. I enjoy learning more shibari, fireplay, blade play and other edge kinks. I enjoy giving training in CBT/chasity, mind fucks, cleaning, cooking, absolute obedience, puppy play and much more.
-what tools/toys have do you already have
*I have ALOT of floggers, single tails, rope, bondage toys ect... see My pictures.
-what is your availability schedule
*I am avaliable by preplanning only. I expect e-mails weekly from My submissives telling Me what time they have availiable to serve Me.. I make My schedule from there.
-what are your hard limits
*No Kids, Scat, Animals, or Topping from the bottom. I play by RACK rules unless asked specifically for SSC.
-what will you do to make Me a happier Goddess
*flowers, shoes, chocolate.. My favorite wine, cleaning quickly... it all makes Me happy.
-what do you hope I can do to make your life happier
*I hope I can bring your fantasies to life and can give you the training and structure you need/want. |
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"A man once carved a poem into the walls of the Temple, but, he returned and scratched the poem out... leaving only the title: Lost. You cannot see loss, Only feel it."
Disobedience:
| lack of obedience or refusal to comply; disregard or transgression. |
Dishonor:
| 1. |
lack or loss of honor; disgraceful or dishonest character or conduct. |
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disgrace; ignominy; shame: His arrest brought dishonor to his family. |
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an indignity; insult: to do someone a dishonor. |
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a cause of shame or disgrace: He is a dishonor to his family. |
Disappointed:
depressed or discouraged by the failure of one's hopes or expectations
At a certain point when I am training a submissive, issues tend to arise. I set commands that are hard emotionally and mentally to follow.
I give an ultimatum; do this, and continue training, or don't do this, and have a nice life.. without Me. Normally, these ultimatums are for the good of the training relationship. It shows the submissive is truely serious about wanting/needing to serve Me. It keeps the submissive from doing somthing detremental to O/our training. It makes Me happy when the submissive complies.
On the rare occasion, a submissive gets far enough into My training, and deep enough into My feelings, that I have a great need to test loyalty if only to guard My feelings and find what the true colors of the submissive are.
I gave such a test this week for My tyler.. My joy. I gave tyler a choice... it was his to make. he chose to terminate O/our training agreement rather than tell another dominant (a past mistress) "No you can't see me, we've already said goodbye, I have plans with my Goddess tonight." Any normal kink friend would have understood that or would have called Me to ask permission if the last goodbye was really neccessary to them... a normal protocol.
To say the least I am EXTREMELY DISAPPOINTED in what I thought would be a for life collaring going awry. I cannot and will not take him back as he decided to make the break public within hours of his leaving My household. An embarassment not only for Myself, but for mainly him. My peers have expressed T/their condolences, which I greatly appreciate.
I'm not sure I want to care so much about a submissive again. I've lost both My marked submissives; bb & myty. I am past angry, sad, and frustrated.
I am disappointed in you. |
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Crawling to me on all fours
Offering himself to me
Desiring to be used
Wanting nothing but to please
A good obedient pet
Kneeling at my feet
Needing to serve
Naked save a leather collar
Flesh and mind craving abuse
Such a willing pet
Bound to me for life
Giving up everything he has
Accepting pain and pleasure as one
Fearing nothing but release
I love my owned pet
My tyler has agreed to training towards a permenant collar. I look forward to testing his limits and one day to locking a collar on him forever. Today is a day of happiness. Today tyler truely is My joy.
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With myty back from his his other mistress (the Ocean) I am enjoying the free time a submissive affords Me.
I've offered myty the chance to work towards a much more permenant collar. Due to some unforseen personal issues on his part, W/we are at a stand still as he makes decisions that will best support the path in life he wishes to travel.
I can't say I'm not disappointed that I didn't have the 6'4" subbie jumping up and down with delight, and I won't pretend that My initial feelings weren't hurt. But, I need a well balanced slave, not a half willing one.
Hopefully he will be able to work through his stuff quickly and choose to move forward to collar training.
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Toys I Currently Own:
Floggers
-- cow hide: mop and regular size
-- bull hide: heavy mop
-- deer hide: small, and large mop
-- rope: medium size mop
-- metal: chain
Single Tail
-- devil's tail
-- crops: stiff, medium, light
Paddles
-- wooden: x4 (I'd rather use them than explain)
--leather: different belts and straps x3
"Edge Toys"
--Violet Wand: includes various attachments
--Fire Play materials: I enjoy being firegroomed
-- Candles and Wax
Bondage
-- plenty of rope
-- spreader bar
-- ball gags
-- blindfolds
-- clamps
-- clothes pins
-- leather cuffs
-- hog tie
-- collars (male and female) waiting on the right submissives
This list was off the top of my head I know there is more.. I just don't remember at this point
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WOW! doc and I had a wonderful time at the classes W/we were able to take. Got My first set of evil sticks... hehe I like them. And they will match My whip from Mr. Victor Tella, which should be here any day.
I'm off to St. Louis, Orlando, and then Key West in the next 2 weeks so I'll be very busy. I'm looking forward to doing some traveling and not working. |
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I'm Going down to the Wood Shed in Orlando this weekend... 
KINKY WEEKEND!!!
Friday, June 20th
6:00-7:00pm Ropework
Sir Jaye is scheduled to do a wonderful hands-on Roepwork demo. Bring rope and a partner (or find one there!) so you can follow along as he shows us the ropes.
7:00-? Suspension
The Woodshed?s own Master Cecil will work with anyone that would like to try Suspension. Foxy from www.nativeamericanexotics.com will also be doing more advanced rope suspensions and there will be two winches available.
8:00pm - Open Dungeon Play
Saturday, June 21st
3:00-4:00pm Massage
Two licensed massage therapists, extra tables, feel good! Miss Kayo and Cecil?s serving wench are going to teach the basics of massage. Bring a partner and make sure they?re massaging!
3:00-4:00pm Waxplay
Waxplay with a twist by Sir David! Waxplay for pleasure! Subs get ready to learn how to spoil your Dom/me with this special spa-like treatment. Dom/mes, this is a great thing to do to reward your sub.
4:00-5:00pm Cupping
Kindheartsadist will demonstrate various techniques for cupping ? great for massage and for those with a lil sadistic streak in them. He?ll give pointers on fire cupping too!
6:00-7:00pm Knifeplay
Sir Rapacious has agreed to do a Knifeplay demo. Be prepared to be blown away! He?s as good with knives as he is with whips! Bring a knife, bring a friend!
8:00pm - Open Dungeon Play
More information can be found at www.thewoodshedorlando.com |
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Yes people it's happened again I'm going to need to copyright my profile at this rate.
To: miss cruel blonde
I do understand that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.. but, to not change the font, type, or wording of MY PROFILE... well that's just stupidity.Are you seriously so incapable of knowing yourself? In the future try to be original.. otherwise.. you're just a lame imitation of ME.
Again, Deepest Disgust towards plagiarism. |
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NOW ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS FOR:
A housekeeper.
You will not live with me.
I need someone to keep my house up to my standards. You must gain my trust and have the ability to work without prompting.
One or two lucky people will be allowed access into the special little realm of my household.
Good luck, Make sure to answer all questions on my profile. |
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With a heavy heart I write that I have lost my bb. Due to financial circumstances he has decided that he cannot drive from Tampa to serve me at this time. It hurts to get so far in training and trust with somone only for him to decide that this isn't in the best for him at this point in his life. I wish him good luck and hope he keeps in touch. |
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Just thought I'd share in the good news... TWO of My subs have made it through the consideration period, served Me in r/t for extended sessions, and added to the rich drama that is My life. I am so proud of both of them as they continue on in their training to enrich Mine and their lives.
Both have had a specific mark choosen for them and both have been named. I am so proud of you bb and myty. I know both of you will make Me proud and happy for a long time.
If anyone doubts the validity of My statements or wishes to ask questions regarding My methods feel free to speak with: entomophage or makeyourownslave. They are marked, named and MINE. |
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 FOR THE RECORD:
to that sunny "lady"
I do understand that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.. but, to not change the font, type, or color of MY list... well that's just stupidity. In the future try to be original.. otherwise.. you're just a lame imitation of ME.
Deepest Disgust |
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Well, I was worried this would happen, and it has... I am taking "applications" for new subs. Very few of you little worms will make it through the elimination process. I am a R/T Goddess so if you will not meet Me... I will not waste My time on you. |
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I have met all the subs I wish to meet for now. I have hand selected a lucky few that will serve Me at My convenience. I am very happy with how smoothly this process has gone. I believe I have found some very loyal dogs.
A new revelation has come to Me regarding this site. I didn't realize collarme could be used for dating. Thank you to all the Sirs out there that have expressed interest in a Dom/Domme relationship. I am flattered to say the least.  |
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