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Dominant Couple, 49
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Male Dominant, 53, Warren, Michigan
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Male Submissive, 22, Los Angeles, California
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About DeSadesEncore
I will find another YOU ( love remains the same )
It's really over, you made your stand
You got me crying, as was your plan
But when my loneliness is through, I'm gonna find another you
You take your sweaters
You take your time
You might have your reasons but you will never have my rhymes
I'm gonna sing my way away from blue
I'm gonna find another you
When I was your lover
No one else would do
If I'm forced to find another, I hope he looks like you
Yeah and he's nicer too
So go on baby
Make your little get away
My pride will keep me company
And you just gave yours all away
Now I'm gonna dress myself for two
Once for me and once for someone new
I'm gonna do somethings you wouldn't let me do
Oh I'm gonna find another you !!
I have found another...."You".............
she is perfection, HIS perfection *smile
This is what she seeks in a Master:
To be able to talk to Him, not only online chat or text message, but to hear His voice and know what He says or means by the tone of it.
To be able to see Him, be with Him, eventually work towards a 24/7 relationship.
To have clear instructions and expectations of what He desires from her, so that she can serve Him as He wishes.
For each of U/us to be able to come to each O/other with problems and work out a solution, relying that His decision is the best for both of U/us.
This is what she is seeking, if You cannot be any of these these, You are not the Master for me.
Welcome to my world. Should you decided to enter, approach with the knowledge that I am who I say I am, I am secure within the knowledge that I am real, and the willingness to know you better does not mean that I am broken and need fixing because I stand by the honor and respect of whom I am and the world I have embraced.
I do not play in my world with the mind set that this is a past time or a means of instant gratification. More importantly there is a difference between enjoying the BDSM aspects and actually opening your heart to the family of beliefs and ways of a style of life that says who and what you are.
For most, this way of mind set, and life is simply about how to fit your BDSM activities into your present life practices and to take it to another level of understanding takes first the desire to learn more and second, actually be willing to see with different eyes.
I have always said I am a woman, nothing more, nothing less. As a woman, I understand the freedom and wonderment of offering my submission to someone who understands their Dominance so that the dance between the two can become the dance of O/one.
What is your intent? Is it to learn more? Is it simply to interact with another through the desire to play? Is it to learn more about you, because this is where it all begins. It begins with you.
Intent is the key to the honest of whom we are and what we seek. The most common response I get from others regarding myself is "wow, you are real". The most common second response is "I am not equipped with the knowledge to meet you on your level." The third response is, "I will walk away rather than learn with an open mind and heart and make a choice of rather this is really me or not."
It is your intent that leads others to question your sincerity. It is your intent that allows others to validate what you think you are or wish to be, because you fail to validate yourself.
I welcome questions as always. I will answer them as I know the answers to be relative to myself and my beliefs. I make no excuses for whom I am and the path I walk. It is right for me, not right for others.
Too many un experienced Dom's depend only upon their Dominant nature to get them by and call themselves Masters or Dominants without taking the time or the initiate to learn what that means under the protocols and rituals of this lifestyle. They think they do not need to learn them to walk in the shoes of the Masters who have. Too many subs and slaves think they need to submit all they are and wish to be simply because they feel they have to enjoy and live their submissive selves.
Nothing should be given, expected, or required so quickly, but rather with time and understanding of the intent of both people.
Set your boundaries. Stand by your convictions. Be what you say you are and find peace with your findings. Often the brokenness we see in others is really only a mirror of the brokenness within ourselves.
This lifestyle is not the place for broken people although it is filled with it. It is for the people who have acquired strength from the lessons of life that have been presented to us.
Just thoughts to consider as you seek and search. A Master validates the slave. The slave validates the Master. The relationship between the two compliment each other and allows for growth of both people.
Be honest with yourself first in what you are seeking and more importantly, why you are seeking. |
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Reason says-- i will win You with my eloquence...
Love says-- i will win You with my silence...
Soul says-- how can i win You when all i have is already Yours?
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Perhaps I need to add this, I am not interested in couples, Domme's or play sessions. I am not interested in being your toy, pet, fuck meat or however you put it.
I seek real time only, ONE Dominant Male/Master.
I am real and honest, so be you. |
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Beautiful
You can take the pain. Because its beautiful. The look of suffering, the fear, the torment, the terror. There is no sunrise nor view of an early morning valley that can compare to the beauty of women in the will of a Sadist.To watch her eyes widen in wait of his tools. The gasp and tear of pain. The wet flow of pleasure they take from their own suffering, like a women who squirms and trembles as her body screams for it to stop. You see her. Her mind slipped to another place. her eyes locked, dialated. Her breathing nothing more than gasps between the shots of pain. The table drenched in her own juices as each wave brings another out of her. She trembles, shakes, gasps, sobs, begs, and cums. There is nothing under heaven, more beautiful than this... |
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I am MY Masters bitch...
"LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM AND NOT FOR WHAT YOU THINK I SHOULD BE." BITCHOLOGY When I stand up for
myself and my beliefs,
they call me a
bitch.
When I stand up for
those I love,
they call me a
bitch.
When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts
or do things my own way, they call me a
bitch.
Being a bitch
means I won't
compromise what's
in my heart.
It means I live my life MY way.
It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.
When I refuse to
tolerate injustice and
speak against it, I am
defined as a
bitch. |
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From darkest day had come, most shining night and on this longest night..of my longest year-- the promise of ever-brightening days, waiting to rise above my horizon.
Happy Solstice everyone ! |
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"Truth titillates the imagination far less than fiction." |
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