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Male Dominant, 43, Nutley, New Jersey
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About DeSadeSpawn242
I'm a young man with liberal interests and an intellectual bent who is seeking an introduction to the "S&M" lifestyle that has been the subject of curiosity for a long while but never an activity I've participated in. I'm 5 10, 155 pounds as the adjacent information indicates, with brown hair, brown eyes, and a slender but fit build.
My interests are electronic music composition, books, video games, theology, and many academic topics (even though my career aspiration of audio engineer does not require any such knowledge). I'm pretty physicaly active when I don't think I'll drown in my own sweat (I HATE TEXAS). I have the sort of quirky personality cultivated by too many teenage years spent in my bedroom wishing I had a girlfriend. At my core, however, the central quality of my self not usually apparent to others is a supreme confidence in my values and goals, and an intense passion and desire to fashion my dreams into achievement and thus craft a fulfilling youth I will be content to leave when mother nature decrees that it must end.
I'm looking for a young lady (yes, lady) who has everything together, so to speak, as well as the obviously prerequisite interest in the world of handcuffs, rope, and whatever other weird paraphernalia is required. I'm not a big fan of full body suits of leather (i have better things to spend my money on than something that only complements the anatomy of at most 7% of the human population), but the idea of either being restrained or restraining someone else is an idea that both fascinates me and gives me reason to believe I could profit from an experience pertaining to it. I'm intensely curious about this lifestyle, and want someone to help me aquaint myself with it.
With a sub culture so friendly to the extremes this one is, I expect there to be enough weird people within it to merit proof that I am not one of them; the fact that the weirdest members of ANYTHING tend to be male also causes me to feel that a disclaimer is necessary. So, here we go.
I'm not a desperate sex addict, nor a freak, nor a psycho. Most would-be responders to this ad will no doubt require verification of some sort that these statements are valid, however, and I will have no problem with obliging them in whatever manner I am capable of. Suffice it for now that I won't try to command you to supply me with felatio at any point before it's obvious that such a suggestion would be approved of, won't try to tie you up on the first date unless you suggest it, etc. But, I suppose that my "switch" status already conveys that I'm not a control freak? I simply want to make these things clear.
Now for the limits that everyone has but nobody seems to want to discuss lest the Total Submission Mood be dampened:
-No permanent markings (at least on me). If you really really want a marking, I suppose I could oblige, but it isn't something I'm very enthusiastic about.
-Nothing involving excrement. Period. I can't even talk about it without getting vaguely nauseous, so you can imagine my disgust at the thought of incorporating bodily waste into sex.
-That's all I can think of, anything besides this I'll almost certainly be fine with.
I'm not sure what else to say, so I'll leave you for now and resolve to update later...be warned though, my lazy personality only requires me to PLAN to update, not actually do anything. |
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