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I am not looking for a hookup or scenes; I am looking for a girl to keep. I am married and polyamorous. I am an intelligent, kinky, honest, quiet, dominant man. I love dogs, and my bed tends to have one or two in it at all times. I’m an old-school gamer with a dry sense of humor. Rather than being straight or bi, I self-identify as heteroflexible. I am drug and disease free. I like geeky things, but honestly haven't kept pace with a lot of what my cohort is into these days. I don't object to them, but I've just not paid that much attention. I know older movies and older pop culture, but not too much that is more recent. I'm willing, however, to investigate something new and nerdy if they are your passion and we were dating. I like playing RPG and RTS video games, but honestly I’m not very good at them. I also enjoy traditional role-playing, both online and in person. My favorite game is Werewolf: the Apocalypse. I don’t play MMOs for a number of reasons, even though a lot of my friends are into them. While I’m not as big of a sports fan as many guys, I do like (American) football; specifically am a Green Bay Packers fan. I enjoy going to and exhibiting at dog shows.
I am searching for a submissive female to be a friend, a lover, and a slave.

Looks and location aren’t terribly important to me. I am happy to sustain a LDR for some time; I’ve done it before. And I am much more concerned with personality than appearance.
I would, most of all, like a girl who shares some interests with me. A geek or nerd, or especially a gamer would be ideal. While I am happy to interact with either an ebullient extrovert or a shy, demure introvert; a partner who can hold her own an intelligent conversation and has a basic grasp of grammar and spelling will make me very pleased. Smoking is a huge turn-off for me. Our household is child-free.

I am interested primarily in a service-oriented submissive. I am not a sadist, and don't have the desire to beat on a girl, so a bratty masochist isn't really the type for me. I am particularly interested in humiliation and objectification.

I welcome respectful messages and inquiries. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I’m happy to send other pictures if you’re interested.

I see so many submissives looking for daddy doms, sometimes I wonder if that phrase means the same thing to them as it does to me. Because if you’re looking for someone who will be nice, protective, take care of you, and generally be loving and caring, that I can do. That’s not what daddy/daughter sounds like in my mind.

What makes me most sad about this site is when a new submissive signs up, she’s overwhelmed by the jackasses and fakers, and then cancels her account shortly thereafter, never to be seen again. Do the morons with their stupid messages not realize they are driving people away from kink?

Here's a little story / fantasy I wrote a while back, reflecting my own desires:


It's been a long day; not bad, just long, and you're glad to be home finally, even if there are a few chores to do.

 

Once you step inside, you glance over to see Master reading the newspaper. Before a greeting even passes your lips, however, he speaks: "Go upstairs to my bedroom, get in position, and wait for me there." He doesn't even look up.

 

Your heart skips a beat, and you find yourself almost running up the stairs, shedding clothes as you go. You don't toss them aside; as Master has taught you to either place your clothes in a neat pile, or in the hamper when disrobing. This time, you choose the hamper.

 

Once you are comfortably naked, you kneel at the foot of Master's bed, your knees slightly parted, your rear on your ankles, your back straight and your arms behind you, crossed gently at the wrists. You cast your eyes downward, take a deep breath, relax and wait. This is your 'position;' you've been practicing it since you started your training and it's almost become instinctive. You've learned unconsciously to associate it with your submission, and just being put there fills you with anticipation and excitement.

 

It always seems longer than it actually is when you have to wait, but after just a few cleansing breaths keep you from getting too excited, you hear Master's foot falls coming up the stairs. In a moment, He's behind you, over you and around you. He runs His hands down your bare skin, wordlessly, before dipping his hand down between your thighs. Cupping your moist, bare mound, He dips a finger inside of you for a sample of your juices. You gasp and shiver as he touches each of your firm nipples, leaving a dab of your sexual fluid on each, cold with the evaporation.

 

Master smiles and kisses the top of your head, then sits down in His chair. He pulls His feet up and rests them on your shoulder, using you as a footrest while he checks his e-mail. You know better than to do anything but wait, and try your best not to make any noise or move while under his feet, though a few little grunts and gasps escape your lips.


After what seems like another long bit of silence, broken only by the sounds of the computer, He sets it aside and stands again. He approaches your kneeling form and audibly sniffs in your direction, "Smells like some one's gotten herself all worked up."


You flush red in embarrassment, and reply, "I can't help it, Master."

 

He smiles in return: "I know," he says, simply, as he grabs a handful of your hair. He pulls, hard, moving you up and out of position and then tugs you down, face-first, onto the His bed. You cry out at the tug, and then whimper softly as you are pushed against the soft sheets. Behind you, you hear Master pulling down His pants as he grumbles, "Get comfy. Time to get fucked."

 

You adjust yourself slightly getting more comfortable as instructed, and raising your ass in the air in an eager and wanton display for Master. He swipes a hand across your displayed sex, brushing lightly against puffy lips, and he parts them, before pushing his hard, turgid shaft into your needy folds. He leans down over you and whispers into your ear, "Mine."


Another shiver washes through you and more small noises come from your mouth. He wraps some of your hair around His hand and murmurs fiercely, "Don't forget, girl. I know your secret. I know you're not like regular people. You're a whore, a slut, an object of my possession. A thing I own."

 

And then He begins to thrust, even as you reply with an acknowledgement of the truth of His statement, and groan of thanks for His member inside of you.

 

He holds you tight, one hand against your head and the other against your naked flesh as Master uses you. It's obvious by the way He grunts out his pleasure, and slams himself hard into you that He's only seeking His own pleasure today. You clench inside, flush with pleasure, as you attempt to help Him reach His peak. Master pushes into you again and again. You may orgasm yourself, or you may not, He doesn't seem to care, His pants and grunts reaching your ear. Finally, He explodes into you, crying out, howling even in His triumph, proclaiming the girl underneath Him as His own.

 

He holds himself inside of you as he comes down from that orgasm, smiling and stroking your bare back, enjoying the feeling of being inside, until the erection subsides and He slips out. Master wipes his shaft on your leg, and then stands up. "Go on and get your chores done now. You can wear an apron, but no other cleaning up. Need to show off what a whore you are." Again you feel that deep blush cover your cheeks, as you thank Master for the fucking, and quickly make your way off to your other duties.


I find people throughout the world fascinating. I’m willing to find a partner anywhere, if they are willing and able to relocate.


I also seem to find a number of people with great fantasies which I am not sure would really work in the real world. At least for me. I'm sorry, I'm just too much of a softy who loves his slaves.

I wish that if someone was not interested or no longer interested, they would send you a note indicating so, especially if they have previously responded. I think it’s polite.


Yes, I understand that women get a ton of e-mails. And yes, I understand some guys don’t take rejection well. But a man can dream, can’t he?

I wish that there was a way to weed out the bad guys who weren’t serious about relationships as much as you do, ladies. :)

To truly enslave someone, you must intimately know them. So, I’m not going to send you a message demanding that you “Kneel Before Zod.” Instead, I’m going to ask to know more about who you really are, in and outside of kink. After all, I’m not looking for someone to play with, I’m looking for someone to keep.