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ddoben - Male Dominant, Montreal Quebec | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About ddoben

I am an experienced Dom looking fora sweet and gentlesubslave woman for play. Please understand what you want. I do.



You can probably get a better idea about me on Fetlife. I am Masterflog.
This is what I find so unsettling about this site.  You message people with the purest of intentions to ask a question or make a comment and 90% of the women here just ignore you or send back a rude comment.  When did this happen?  I thought people drawn to this lifestyle had something in common a point of departure, a point of trust.  If you can't be polite enough to answer civil questions you're not a submissive, you're not a slave you're most likely just a jerk the same as you are in your other life.

DD
I have been on this site for a number of years and come back to it occasionally and nothing has changed.  Most women I meet are defensive to the point of fetishism.  Why not try to be positive, be polite, and have a sincere interest in people?  You might find that humour is the sexiest thing you own. 

There is nobody out there in CM land.  I imagine that there is one 15 year old boy who is charged with answering all messages and that is why they all sound so immature.  I think we would all be better served if they at least hire a 17 year old.

Okay this has to be said.  You can not be a Dominant if you are under 30 years old.  I really wanted to say 40 but there could be some rare exceptions so all you little girls or boys playing grownup should wait until you have some really extensive experience.  Just saying you are a Dom/Domme just doesn't make it so. 
This is also long overdue.  I will not talk to anyone from New Jersey.  The entire state is humourless.  Bruce Springsteen, lol, I rest my case.
This should have been said a long time ago.  No profile should be accepted without a thourough standardized humour test.  If you got none, you got nuttin to offer.
I have been on and off on this site for some time now and have come to the reluctant conclusion that the people on this site do not really want to get together.  Damn if I can explain it but the women here seem to have a need to reject you before they are first rejected. 

Regardless of what their profiles profess they seem to not really want the things they say they do.

Perhaps it is because they consider this nothing more than a dating service rather than a lifestyle site.

I can not understand how we have achieved this level of incivility.  Things your mother should have taught you:

 - if someone contacts you in a polite manner then please answer the message, if for no other reason, than it is the right thing to do.

 - If you are not interested then say so with a polite reply.

 - if you are old enough to be on this site then you should be old enough not to allow things to shock you.  So if you are a blushing virgin, then perhaps this is not the site for you.

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