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About DdorothyinVA
If you're in a 1 sided monogamous relationship & looking for "discreet" meetings, a 1 night tour of the dark side, some 1 to fulfill you're 1 handed typing cyber or "cam" fantasies, are a LEO by birth, need a house keeper, cook or nanny, want to dominate a dishrag, are a bigamist, an axe murderer, looking for Kate Moss in a corset, or live in OUTER MONGOLIA, I'm NOT your gal.
I hold close certain beliefs. Among them; submissive & stupid aren't synonymous, treat me like the intelligent being that I am. Preceding your name with Lord, Master, Sir, or Grand High Pubah doesn't actually make you one. There is no one true way. Someone has to be in control. If you can't take control, I will. I enjoy being treated like a lady in public, even if I'm wearing some hidden reminder that I'm not. Respect is earned by following a 2 way street. Not everyone is nice. Don't expect me to fall to my knees or into your bed the first time we meet.
I'm a nurse. I've seen plenty of dicks. I've been married to one, collared to another and dated several. If you're inspired to contact me and include a picture of yourself, please send me a picture of something other than your dick. In spite of this wordy profile, I'm not the best conversationalist with people I've not yet met. Please help me carry on the conversation by writing more than one sentence for me to build from.
I live in CENTRAL VA, USA and I'm interested in meeting others who share BOTH my kinky and vanilla interests for real time friendship and play. If you're the one doing the traveling, then you're not too far.
That being said,
In the scene, in my head, for as long as I can remember, and for 7+ years in reality, I'm a strong, independent, educated, rubenesque bi switch (or maybe just
schizophrenic?). For you astology buffs (not the kind in the daily paper) I'm a Cancer born on the cusp of Gemini. For those of you not into astrology, that means that I am schizophrenic, anal/retentive, obsessive/compulsive and my mood changes with the phases of the moon. I've got some good traits too. Being a Certified Massage Therapist is one of them. Having multiple permanent piercings is another. I come with my own attachment points.
The kinky lifestyle is very much a part of my life, but, it isn't my entire life. My preference, when possible, is a balanced merger of the two. I enjoy, photography, bowling, billiards, darts, dancing, bar hopping, singing, walking, swimming, the ocean, fresh water fishing, target shooting, motorcycle riding, NASCAR and many other things. I assimilate well; I can be the perfect tomboy, eitome of formal elegance, black hearted Mistress of your darkest desires, stunt bottom to help you master your techniques, or, with the right person, humble submissive, existing only to serve you.
I'm the proud submissive to 2 mongrel cats and a Conure parrot. They come with the package (and they only play from the top).
I work 60+ hours a week. Time is precious. My first priority when at home is NOT running the vacuum. In the kitchen, I can make you a palatable meal, but I'm not Julia Child. If you're looking for Donna Reed in leather, you won't find her here. I'm looking for her, (or her male counterpart), too.
While I switch, my heart lies in submission. Submission doesn't come easily to me. It's not a conscious decision I make, as is bottoming or topping, but my natural response to innate dominance (not manipulative, controling arrogance). I'm an edge player, with the right person. It would be nice if ,along the way, I find DOM RIGHT and the intimacy and depth that can only come from that kind of relationship and that's needed in order to go where we want to go; beyond where either of us has ever been.
I'm told that I'm attractive, by those who appreciate a woman with some meat on her bones (think Kirsty Allie) and look younger than my chronological years. I have a strong submissive weakness (Is that an oxymoron?) for HONESTm educated, articulate, take-charge men in (any kind of) uniform with a high and tight or shaved head. Not fitting that description, or not being interested in switching isn't a deal breaker. Don't let it stop you from contacting me.
What's in your heart and mind and generosity of your time is far more important to me than appearance, age, gender, role, material possessions, experience or income (though I prefer you be at least self sufficient in that area).
I try not to take myself or life too seriously. I like to have fun in and out of scene and hope that you do too. I'm D/D free and you should be also. Safe sex practices, if that's where we should go, are not optional.
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I wanted to post a link to a speech given by Laura Antoniou this past Februrary 27, in Dallas Texas, but the "rules" say no urls. Well, here it is anyway. www.iron-rose.com/marketplace/keynote.htm
All they can do is not let me post it.
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