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heavenlei

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Hi! I would describe myself as honest, kind, non judgmental, down to earth, possess a sense of humour and I do like to play (sports and indoor recreational activities.) Although I have been keenly interested in the lifestyle for a number of years, that elusive "One" hasn't found me....yet. I have had some 'play dates' and love the kink side of D/s. What I crave is the mental aspects which are missing from strictly playing. If you're interested in more than just kinky sex, please shoot me a message. I'm somewhat relocatable within Canada. No desire to move south to the US. Witty, funny, kinky and submissive!! and the downside is??? :) My goal for the next half of my life is pretty simple: Be happy! Turn ons in a partner: Single!! Please, if you're married, pass me by. thanks :) And near to my age!! If you're under 50-ish, again, please pass me by. I have no interest in men half my age. I love the outgoing, smart, witty, cup is always full type of Man, who doesn't take things, including himself, too seriously. A very self assured, motivated, knows what he wants and goes for it. Definitely I'm looking for a Type A! Mmm...the type of guy that will sweep a girl off of her feet and take her to be his. A man that likes spending most of his time in jeans, yet able to put on a suit too and look just as good! I used to have a recent picture on my profile, until someone recognized me, and then passively aggressively threatened me, asking if my work knew about my CM profile (wtf?). So all facial pictures have been removed. You can ask me for one, I can't promise I'll send you one, but you can ask. I don't need that kind of BS. sigh. If you don't have a profile picture, I would expect you to send me a recent picture. (Not one twenty years old! Yes, I had a Dom send me a twenty year old picture. unreal. lol) If the chemistry isn't there on a physical level, then I wouldn't be able to submit to you (it works both ways). It's just how I'm hard wired. If you're not willing to send me a picture, then please pass me by. Please feel free to message me if you feel we may have somethings in common. I prefer to have a meet-up sooner rather than later to see if there's any chemistry. Life's too short, dontchya think??!!! WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

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10/7/2016 6:31:37 PM

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Rope bunny
98% Submissive
79% Degradee
78% Primal (Prey)
77% Slave
71% Masochist
69% Experimentalist
68% Girl/Boy
65% Brat
60% Pet
49% Voyeur
42% Exhibitionist
29% Vanilla
16% Non-monogamist
15% Switch
8% Ageplayer
1% Sadist
1% Owner
1% Master/Mistress
1% Dominant
1% Degrader
1% Daddy/Mommy
1% Primal (Hunter)
0% Rigger
0% Brat tamer


9/18/2015 3:27:14 PM
After 3 years away, I reactivated (unhidden...if that's the right term) my profile. Hopefully the drama llamas from 2012 have drifted away. I would like to say in the past few days, I have received very nice messages. Thank you Gentleman for restoring my faith in you. :)  

6/20/2012 9:37:04 AM

I'm a "live and let live" type of person. I've recently been faced with those who are not. It's very sad that I may not be able to stay on CollarMe because of two individuals.  One who knows where I work and threatened me with that knowledge. The other I was open and honest with (as I am with any potential partners where we have a connection). For whatever their twisted reasons they feel it's ok not to let me have my peace online. All I can say to them, one word "Kharma". She'll find you and bite you in the ass....hard!!!   I'm still not sure whether I will leave or not because of these cyber bullies. I complained to support regarding the latest maliciousness against me. Time will tell if CM support does anything. And I'm one of the few real subs here. Go figure!  I wish E/everyone Peace and Love. Especially the bullies :)

lei


8/2/2011 8:17:09 PM

I just read this on another profile and have heard it once or twice before.   "Do not make someone a priority when they have made you optional."


11/11/2010 11:05:44 AM

ok...i had to laugh at this one.  I asked a "Dom" if he knew what SSC stood for (and only because his nick is "lovesexx" or something like that).  This is the response he gave me:

NO but if you like to know any thing you may sak me   

(needless to say, i told him i wasn't interested.  ~smiles~)


11/11/2010 10:29:34 AM

Recently, a dominant told me a D/s relationship is much like a 3 legged stool.  Care must be taken not only on the physical welfare of the sub, but also on the emotional and spiritual care. Too much time spent on the physical (i.e sex!), will leave your stool unbalanced, and you, the Dom, may fall on your ass and do harm to your sub. 

So, if you are only seeking a sexual relationship, please pass this sub by.  My submission will be given to a Dom who will provide balance in all areas. 


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 Age: 24
 India