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Male Dominant, 25, Washington DC, Washington D.C.
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Male Dominant, 48, SlaveFarm, Washington D.C.
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Male Dominant, 33
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Dominance does not mean a person is a bitchy a$$hole all the time. When I meet people or talk with them, I can be very nice and pleasant. In public, I tend to be so too - because that is what is expected of us to be able to get along in a complex society. In private: that's a totally different place.
People are full of contrasts-it is what makes us interesting! So on the one hand, I can be sweet and kind, caring, offering loving caresses, while on the other hand, beating the living crap out of your ass or severely punishing an infraction.
To be mean and terrible and always beating another person--verbally and/or physically-- without the other side of the equation is abuse in my mind. It takes both hands to be complete: the pain makes the pleasure all the more pleasurable, while the pleasure gives meaning to the pain. |
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Over the past year that I have been on this site (as various personae) it has been interesting to cruise around and see what people write in their profiles. For example, many women, especially, indicate that they do not appreciate the one-line messages that they often receive. I understand that, of course, having received my fair share of those. I have not noted many men who say this in their profiles, so I guess I assumed that women did not engage in this sort of messaging behavior.
So lately I have been sending messages to women as I seek to explore my bisexuality and give my Domme side a chance to run free a bit. It has been interesting to see that often women send the one-word messages or are unable to string together a sentence or whatever. Clearly, then, both men and women do the "quickie message" thing. This leads me to think that perhaps men like the one-liners? Just kind of curious about this.
From my standpoint: if I want to get to know someone, I find it rather difficult to do so when I can't get a straight answer to a question. Really, you have to have a decent brain in your head or else you are basically an automaton. A robot may be fully functional, but without authentic humanity in its richness and depth, I don't think that a true TPE or D/s relationship can exist.
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