Davidspanks

A bit about me.
I'm a big believer in being well rounded, living life with curiosity about people & the world, paying attention, and then learning along the way. Levity and fun are important companions as well. I love a good conversation and strive to be good to people. My day to day priorities include getting out into nature, staying active, learning something new, connecting with depth and beauty, travel, being of service, and getting naked. I consider myself a confident well rounded adult who checks a lot of conventional boxes but is very intentional about my values and influences. It's funny how in the larger sense, I don't like being told what to do or how to be, unless I'm being obedient for my partner as an ultimate expression of our connection and care. Even that moment where you're being told to do something you don't want to do but you obey anyway because it's how you honor your partner and show love.. somehow even the inter conflict, but ultimate resolution, just feels right. Which is where kink comes in..
My Kinky Origin Story!
I've moved it to the writing section since it got too long. The short of it is I've been into spanking and discipline for ever and I'm expanding on my submissive expression. I'm leaning more towards finding a stern mommy/nurturing type but open to a wider range of D/s play and very versatile because a little bit of mean can feel right too. Currently I'm curious about flr components but otherwise very independent. No matter how well I function in life independently, giving up authority and having to ask permission to a woman I love hits a deep seeded cord for me. Having kink interwoven into the daily functioning of life is truly beautiful and it's amazing how much it promotes connection by constantly reinforcing the dynamic and the shared priorities you have in place with your partner. When firing on all cylinders it truly is incredible. I was 16 when I first started exploring kink with a partner and I believe you can never know enough regarding any kink topic so it's important to stay humble, curious, and continue to learn.
The question often asked "What are you looking for on here?"
I'm currently looking for a partner to share life with in it's entirety. Yes kink is integral but so is the exuberance of our connection and how we maintain the foundations of our relationship.
In the meantime, I'm open to shorter term kinky connections with people that include any of the following (after we at least have some coffee or a drink to connect as people first and then decide to move forward with the rest):
-Discipline "play" (Think an accountability buddy with consent to punish you if you failed a goal for the week)(Happy to Switch with this approach. It's incredibly effective as way to reinforce your goals and share in your success when you follow through)
-D/s (Scene based with a focus established by a negotiation and then freedom)
-Spanking "play" (Happy to switch - I give an incredible spanking)
-Obedience Training (Falls under D/s)
-Bondage
-Includes interests below