| |
|
|
Home |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Live |
|
|
|
|
Join |
|
Collarspace |
|
|
|
|
Dating |
|
|
|
|
News |
|
|
|
|
Glossary |
|
|
|
|
Mobile |
|
|
|
|
Alt |
|
|
|
|
Safety |
|
|
|
|
Toys |
|
|
|
|
Live BDSM |
|
|
|
|
Resources |
|
|
|
|
Welcome |
|
| |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Login |
|
|
 |
|
 |
|
|
|
|
Male Submissive, 43, Edina, Minnesota
|
Male Submissive, 27, Miami, Florida
|
Male Submissive, 32, London
| | |
|
| Back |
| KPM |
| Directory |
| Interests |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
About DasUbermensch
GONE TO ITALY. TALK TO YA WHEN I'M BACK!
Hi! Welcome my profile!
If you are a young lady around my age (18-24), relatively smart, relatively good-looking, with a lively sense of humour; if, in addition to these qualities, you are a nasty, submissive skank and wish to be treated as one -- then please read on! ;)
I'm young, bright, ambitious, and -- so people tell me -- hilarious. Physically, I'm 6'1", brown-haired, greenish-eyed, with a toned, muscular body, or at least the beginnings of a toned, muscular body.
I'm a contradiction.
On the one hand, I respect women to the point that I consider myself a feminist. I respect the average woman more than the average male. Any woman I have a relationship with -- whether it's a friendship, casual dating, or something serious -- would have to be my equal in smarts, charm, etc. I want to be able to laugh with you and enjoy your company, whether we're f*cking or not, and for you enjoy mine.
On the other hand, my sexual side wants a nasty little skank to dominate completely. ;) For the duration of our "sport," you are my whore, and you will do whatever I want. In fact, I'd totally get off on dominating you outside the bedroom as well, by which I mean even when we're not fucking, even in seemingly non-sexual matters (but I'm ambivalent about this: I don't want a doormat; I want a living person, an equal, who could introduce me to new interests.). Whatever the case, sex will happen whenever I feel like it, whether or not you feel like it; call it "r*pe" if you like. ;)
Here I'll give my reasonable, practical side a chance to speak. Here I'll say that, if we ever decide to play together, I do NOT expect you to, for example, take me all the way down your throat immediately. We'll start with a darkish vanilla; we'll work from that.
In fact, I admit that, if I don't immediately expect from you the more "advanced" gifts of submission, it's partly because, so far, I'm not experienced enough to take them from you safely. I do have SOME experience from previous relationships, and I've done a lot of reading on technique, but, no, I'm not yet the uberdom I will eventually be. The only way for me to move from fantasy to reality -- the only way to avoid being DANGEROUS to my sub -- is to admit my inexperience and build on it patiently. |
|
|
|
|
I guess I sound pretty negative here, with all the judgements I've seen fit to issue here in my "journal" on this website. But when I get an opinion, it's as if I had Tourette's syndrome: I NEED to express it.
Still, there are certain people I take pleasure in offending. If you're a "pro-Domme" -- i.e., a prostitute who thinks she's not -- or if you're a "dominant" male who views his dominance as a licence to take advance of newbie female subs, then I don't like you and I sincerely hope I've offended you. |
| |
| |
|
|
A number of subs list themselves as ?under consideration? to a potential dom. Is this what I think it is? The sub has agreed to become his; but the dom, for his part, hasn?t yet made up his mind ? and he expects his would-be sub to remove herself from the ?market,? and to WAIT until he has????!!!
Girls, if a man expects you to give him this privilege which he won?t give to you, even BEFORE any relationship has begun, then that man is an ABUSIVE LOSER. He isn?t worth your time. Would you tolerate this from a man who offered you a vanilla relationship? No? Then don?t tolerate it from a would-be ?dom.? |
| |
| |
|
|
In profile after profile, people are using the phrase "at this time." This irritates me. Why not say instead: "right now"? "At this time" is management speak, and sounds like something out of a public relations release; i.e., it's a phrase which the spokesperson of a corporation or a conservative government might use in response to a question from the media. Is it just me for whom "at this time" reeks of a public relations release?
Well, in any case, to me a public relations release is the most impersonal form of communication. The spokesperson who issues it is not talking WITH his/her audience, but AT its audience. It's irritating enough when a corporation or conservative government issues such a release, but it's more irritating when individuals, in the most personal of their relations -- their sexual relations, which is what we're concerned with here -- adopt the same language.
Another example of this is the use of the passive voice, which is a weaselly way of deemphasing the agent who is responsible for the action which a sentence describes. For example: "Dominant men are the only ones who will receive a response. All others will be blocked." This deemphasises the person who is doing the blocking, and hides the fact that there is a person who has made the decision to block certain people. It makes the blocking a decree issued from on high, not a decision made by a fallible individual who is open to criticism. |
| |
| |
|
|
I see profiles of "mistresses" looking for men to "serve financially," i.e., give them money. Are there really men who go in for this? Do such men really exist? I hope not. I hope that this money-making scheme of certain silly bitches, who expect that men will give them money because they get off on the humiliation of it, is completely delusional.
On the other hand, if dupes do exist who get off on giving their money away to complete strangers with no expectation of receiving any satisfaction from these strangers -- would any of these dupes like to be MY "financial slave"? Anyone wanna give me some $$$? |
| |
| |
|
|
?Professional.? A certain number of women on this site and others, who want to appear successful, call themselves young ?professionals,? and require of any would-be love-interest that he be a ?professional? as well. I?m not certain what ?professional? is supposed to mean. I get the sense that for these women a ?professional? is someone something like this: commutes to work every morning at 6 am and returns home every evening at 5 pm; sits at a desk with a card on it displaying name and position; and ? most importantly of all ? wears a suit. A ?professional,? then, is a climber of the corporate ladder. Well, ladies, it?s a good thing for you this is the sort of man you seek, because the pond has no lack of these fish. They?re nothing exceptional.
Sour grapes? Yeah, I know ? this sounds like sour grapes. But I really do feel that, if I don?t share my society?s high esteem for business suits, it?s not entirely self-indulgent. I feel I do have some justification. My justification is this: if success consists in wearing a business suit, then neither Pablo Picasso, whose amazing art has been influential; nor John Lennon, whose music has been influential; nor Ernest Hemingway, who wrote damn good fiction; nor Friedrich Nietzsche, who wrote damn good philosophy; nor Fidel Castro, who continues to make a damn good attempt at a just society; nor even Bill Gates, who has certainly achieved what our society values most ($$$) ? none of these men could be considered successful (and none of them worthy of these women who want ?professional? men). So many men wear business suits and sell financial services; but how many of these office monkeys and widget-peddlers ?change the world??
Now I feel better. I needed to vent. |
| |
| |
|
|
| |
|
Dominant Couple, 45, New Britain, Connecticut
|
Female Submissive, 18, Sydney
|
Male Dominant, 51, Berwyn, Pennsylvania
|
Male Submissive, 38, Leeds
| | |
Male Dominant, 38, Barcelona
|
Male Dominant, 40, Westchester, New York
|
Female Dominant, 26, Springfield, Missouri
|
Female Submissive, 50
| | |
Female Submissive, 33
|
Female Dominant, 53
|
Male Switch, 28, Portland, Oregon
|
Female Dominant, 36, North West
| | |
|
|
|
|
