DarkCompassion

I believe it's time I clarified a couple of things:

In the real of what I want from subs -
A smart woman who either knows what she wants or is happy to explore and become complete with her Master.
They must understand that with proper submission comes the rewards of a pleased Dom, and being treated to the joys that come with it (quality often results in a home cooked gormet meal or other  smaller perks that can add up).
Finally, a mind of her own is a necessity- one does't have to fight every decision --but I am TIRED of subs who go against thier true wishes- - it can be amusing at times but on the average you are to be happy as well.

In the realm of slaves:
Being able to at least speak capably when needed is a must (see a trend here?).
This is considerably more one sided in the 'who's opinions and wants matter' department for obvious reasons - but that doesn't change that Severe treatment or flat abuse in the name of BDSM is excused.  Some things are permitted of course - but I resent the connection some make between abusers and strict Doms (there is more to it than 'consent').
Once the title of slave is given the specifics of the relationship and it's rules are determined at that time.

Finally - switches:
First off I'll be honest - the side of me that likes to be sure a worthy partner is enjoying herself lets me slip into a potential 'switch' mode myself -- I am just mostly a Dom in my dealings.
That being said switches are allowed to message me as well - although an interesting blend of traits is mandatory. . .it takes a little bit more to get my honest consideration from one.



There we go, that should help answer a few of the questions I've been getting (overview at the very least).  Thank you all for th e-mails I've been getting - - I'll look foreward to more of the same.