Name: Daddy Tallica, Mr. Kev
Age: 31
D.O.B: 02/03/77
Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
E-Mail/Yahoo Messenger: daddy_tallica@yahoo.ca
Web Site: http://www.thedomdepot.ca
MySpace: http://www.myspace.com/daddy_tallica
Diaper Space: http://www.diaperspace.com/daddy_tallica
About Daddy Tallica
I have been interested in diapers for at least 22 years, and have been into the ab lifestyle for about 17 years now and have had an interest in bdsm for about the same amount of time. I have spent the last 4 years helping people understand ab and the ab lifestyle as well as try to teach other daddies and mommies what it means to be a caregiver within the lifestyle.
I tend to believe in different things then what most people do, both to do with the ab lifestyle as well as other things, so before I go on I'd like to try to explain some of them.
Many of you have heard the term AB/DL I believe this term encompasses everyone that is interested in diapers the single item that appears in both choices, I will break things down and explain things in more detail.
AB ? Adult baby, Adults wanting to act like and be treated as a baby. (I don't use the term tb because its still new and every tb will be ab soon enough anyways, and if im correct in remembering the term tb came about because there were problems with teenagers being in adult chat rooms. Thus tb was created so that teenagers could talk to others in the same age range with the same interests)
DL ? Diaper lover, adults who enjoy wearing diapers and in some cases it's a sexual turn on but DL's do not like to be treated or act like babies.
Kink Ab ? Someone who wears diapers and acts like a "baby" only in the house and only for the sexual gratification. A kink ab has a pasi and may have 1 ab outfit but that's the extent. A kink ab will say the basic ab words. This is what you commonly see in "ab pornography" and more often then not this is a sexual thing to one or both partners
Lifestyle Ab ? Someone who wears diapers a lot more then a kink ab, the lifestyle will always call there daddy/mommy that no matter were they are, the lifestyle ab will say a lot of babyish words and will speak in a baby voice, play with there toys and do things that real baby's would but does not wear diapers 24/7/365. This is not a sexual thing and more often then not the 2 people involved will not have any sexual contact with the little one
24/7 Lifestyle Ab ? a 24/7 lifestyle ab is the same as a lifestyle ab except they will wear diapers 24/7 and in a lot of cases will only talk in a babyish voice using babyish words except in most cases they don't speak or act like this when doing things like at work or around family. This is not a sexual thing and more often then not the 2 people involved will not have any sexual contact with the little one.
Its stands to reason someone who is Ab is also by definition a DL by the simple fact that babies wear diapers, but a DL is by no means an Ab.
If there is one thing that separates an AB from a DL is that an ab will use baby talk in a babyish voice.
If there is one thing that separates a DL from an AB is that a DL will wear diapers but still carry out there everyday life acting their real grown up age.
Those are by no mean the only things that separate the two but I believe that they are 2 major noticeable things.
Furthermore, for a DL their diaper tends to also be a sexual symbol were as an Ab will act and think like a real baby thus separating their diapers from sexual activity thus they will have "grown up" time and "baby" time.
"Grown up" time is when an Ab will do things like going to work or having sex.
"Baby" time is the time they separate from the grown up world and think about things like colouring and playing with their toys
This the first thing I say to other daddies/mommies who want to learn about being a caregiver and I also make sure they know that this is my view on things and that they are allowed to believe or think what thy will and to know that everyone is different and that what is right and good for me and my little one isn't always right and good for another couple.
So you would like to know a little about me eh? Well then.. I had a bed-wetting problem from as early as I could remember and I remember always getting excited when I saw the Tom and Jerry cartoon entitled "Baby Puss".
I remember my parents trying everything to help me stop wetting the bed. I even had a bed wetting alarm that made the most god-awful noise when it got wet but that didn't help, as I would sleep through the alarm. I could never sleep over at friends places because of my wetting problem, one time we were staying with friends of the family (who I hated and still do to this day) and my mother got me some adult diapers to wear to bed at night when staying with them and when she brought the diapers home the first thing I said was "I should try one on tonight to see how thy are" and from that point on I wanted to wear diapers and often enough I would save my money from my paper route so I could buy diapers mostly to reenact "Baby Puss"
I remember being in grade 9, I was becoming more interested in girls and I did a lot of self-play. I remember thinking that it was kinda strange that I liked to wear diapers and replay the tom and jerry cartoon "Baby Puss" I even got caster oil for when I played, keep in mind this was before I knew of the internet. I was 14ish and I thought I was the only person in the world that was into these things and it wasn't until I was in collage that I learned that I was not alone and that it was called Ab.
In early grade 9 I did a lot of self-play I got a hold of a penthouse form magazine published in the 70's and there were a lot of bdsm stories in there and I would pretend that person was me and I would always add the diaper in to the story.
I remember I was around 17 and dating this girl named Kim I told her about my interest in bdsm and that I wanted to be her slave and she my mistress, I remember always topping from the bottom and giving her ideas like telling me to wear diapers but she loved dressing me up in her clothes and more then once I was told to wear her bra and panties both to school and to see her and more then a few times I was told to wear diapers when I was at her place but she never babied me and more then once she told me to put a diaper on and then I could stay in one place to massage her or to clean her parents place but still it wasn't often and never enough for me at that time other then that she agreed to be my mistress because she loved me and me her.
As the years passed before I went to collage I remember hiding my interest from the girls I dated, keep in mind I still didn't know ab excised, but when I got to collage and spent some time in a computer lab learning html (not related to any of my classes) I found images of woman in diapers on bondage.com which opened up my eyes to the fact that there were other people like me I still didn't know it was called ab but from this I started looking for more images and trying to find out more about it I came across a few websites and found out that it was called Ab that's when I started learning as much about the lifestyle as I could at this point I still wanted to be a "baby slave" but I loved looking at pics of woman wearing diapers. I also learned a lot about the basic's of bdsm and realized that I was infact topping from the bottom with Kim helped me to realize I also wanted to be a daddy to an ab girl.
It was also at this point that in my reading of different websites I found dpf.com (back when it was still ok) and ordered my first ab pasi and plastic panties. I also found a web site to order a case of diapers from for cheep so I also ordered diapers. I also found a store near were I lived that sold costumes one of those party stores that have all sorts of things for different kinds of parties as well as some Halloween costumes I saw and I bought a blue bib and bonnet set and a set of baby socks in blue and pink. Once my order of diapers, plastic panties and new adult sized pasi arrived I did even more self play, as well as some online play from my room mates computer when he was off at work wearing a diaper my new plastic panties and sucking on my pasi, when I was alone at night in my room I'd wear my bonnet and bib and have a baba of milk wile watching TV
I was dating a girl named Kristy at this point. I found out she had a pasi of her own so I started asking questions and dropping hints that I was ok with her being ab and that I liked it when she would suck on her pasi, but she had no idea about ab or dl at all . I later started wearing diapers more around her and I told her I liked to wear them and she was ok with it at first and she even tried one on but quickly didn't like wearing. She would feed me a bottle now and then and I would give her one too but that was the extent of it. She often made fun of me for wearing when ever we would fight and often during sex she would tell me she would put me into one because it took me so long to cum during sex. Shortly after that she started hating the fact that I was wearing a lot and she also didn't like wearing. We broke up not long after. We just never fully got along and it was for the best.
After collage I was working at my first job. I saved my money to buy my first computer and after I got it I continued my research into the ab lifestyle. Shortly after I was dating a girl named Donna and she too had a pasi of her own so again I was dropping hints that it I was ok with her being ab and that I liked it when she would suck on her pasi. But again she had no idea about ab or dl at all. I showed her my pasi (which had a large adult nipple bigger then a nuk 5) I told her that I was ab and I explained what it was and she became my first and only mommy.
It was also at this point I bought my first onesie, new plastic panties and cloth pull-ups and I also got Donna the same things but in girl colours. And again because she loved me she was mommy to me most days I was the baby but I also didn't need to top from the bottom. We had talked a lot and I explained what it was I wanted and she had at first liked the idea and was happy to be my mommy, it became more and more till we were pretty much lifestyle, but after a few months of that we broke she never understood what it all meant and how at that time I really wanted a mommy full time she even said "you don't love me you love mommy" but she didn't see that to me thy were one and the same and she realized that that's what I wanted and I needed that more then a vanilla girlfriend.
There were times that I was daddy to her, and she would often put on one of the pull-ups when we were making out and one time she even had me eat baby food off of her. Being daddy to her once again re-sparked my interest in being a daddy to an ab girl and when we broke up I started my search to find my first full time ab girl.
I spent the next 5 years in my life looking for my first ab girl. During this time, I was taken in by a mistress who taught me how to safely use floggers, paddles, canes and crops. I also started doing online absitting and at 26/27 met a girl named Dani who later became my first real time ab girl and at 28 we met for the first time.
We met in Windsor Ontario just after Halloween and before the U.S.A. thanksgiving. It was a weekend visit where I was to be her daddy the entire time. After we got to the motel were we were going to stay, we talked about the rules for the weekend. Just simple rules regarding bathroom usage and behavior and once that was done I undressed her a put her into a pull-up cloth diaper, plastic panties, onesie and a skirt. We then talked about what we had to do, as we needed diapers, a new pasi for her and something to eat for dinner. We took a short walk to the near by Wal-mart to buy diapers and a new pasi. She was so embarrassed to pay for the 2 things at the same time. Of corse I had a laugh at this. But before we picked up the diapers we stopped to look at the toys, something caught her eye and she went off to look with out telling me. I knew were she was but that wasn't the point. I walked up behind her grabbed her wrist and gave her a good swat on her behind and told her how naughty she was for walking away from me and that she was going to receive a spanking when we went back to the motel. We grabbed the diapers and pasi left heading back to the motel, she received her spanking. The weekend continued without any more incidents. We stopped at a park at one point so she could play on the swings and jungle gym.
We dated for almost a year in a 24/7 ab lifestyle relationship. We broke up for different reasons, one of which was distance and she didn't want to move to Canada.
But in the corse of that year I met another girl who lived about 3 hours away from me in Niagara Falls Ontario named Marry-Ann, she was an older woman who was still very new to ab.
We started talking a lot and I even baby sat her a few times we had a play date with Marry-Ann one time that Dani came up to visit. It didn't work out though, the girls didn't really click as they were both 2 different from each other and both very shy. I don't think thy said 2 words to each other not even in baby talk. But it was another good experience for me, Marry-Ann and I came up with some great ideas that I'll tell you about in a different section.
Shortly after Dani I met a local girl who lived 5 mins away from me named Ginger. It wasn't her real name but it was the name she went by.
Ginger was another different kind of ab as well. When you ask her how old she was she would say 5 yet she very rarely used baby talk or babyish words or for that matter any words at all when she was in "baby mode". She acted very much like an infant in that she would make noises, grunt and so forth. If she wanted a bottle for example, she would point at it and grunt. This made things very hard on me as a Daddy. I had to learn sounds where as up until this point, between real time abs and online ab's I was learning "baby talk" and speech where as now I had to learn what grunt or noise meant what.
Ginger and I lasted just over a month when I found that she was lying to me about talking to another daddy, funny enough though we ended it on my 30th birthday.
Prior to babying Ginger I met Crystal. Crystal and I only had a few things in common when we met. She was not an ab in any way so I opted to go after Ginger. In the end I should have stayed with Crystal as Crystal is now fully ab and my precious little princess.
Crystal knew from the first time we talked that I was looking for an ab girl and at the time she said, "I will never wear a diaper that's kinda strange"
After Ginger I waited a few days to talk to Crystal and tell her that I was sorry for being a jerk and not talking to her for a month. We out for coffee, but at this point she was still very adamant about not wanting to try diapers at all. About a week after that she came to me one time when she was here and said she wanted to try a diaper on, of corse I jumped on the chance and diapered her up nice and snug.
I swear I have never seen some one who is wearing a diaper for the first time and not have any prior interest in diapers become so comfortable and being able to wet with in 5 mins of being diapered.
It took a few months of hard work and a lot of patients to turn her from someone who smoked a lot of pot, thinking that ab was strange and a grown up, to a 2 year old little ab girl who wants and needs her diapers, pasi, stuffie and of course her Daddy.
I sometimes need to remind baby Crystal to use her baby talk and baby voice but she tries hard and most times she's good. Even when out in public she still calls me daddy and use's her baby talk/voice unless were out with people who don't know about our lifestyle.
And for the most part she follows her rules pretty well and remembers the words on her curse would list. Its all the words she's not allowed to say (mostly curse words but a few others) The fact she works an evening shift and is in the middle of moving does make it hard to follow her rules completely.
She even likes different baby foods mostly the deserts but it's a start. She likes the Gerber ? 2nd Foods - Vanilla Custard Pudding, Plums with Apples, Fruit Medley Desert, and Pears. We have even made our own baby food like spaghetti. We took it and put it in the blender on purée and spooned it out into her bowl, she didn't like that so much but I think it was the mood she was in that night
We have also met another ab couple John and Steph (daddy/baby girl) who we have had play dates with. I also have been trying to help her daddy learn more about the ab lifestyle. They are in the process of moving in together at daddy John's place which is 4 hours away from were baby Crystal and I live.
But both baby Crystal and I are for the most part looking for other ab couples in the area, preferably another ab girl and preferably someone with a daddy or mommy or even a nanny/babysitter. If you do not have a daddy or mommy or even a nanny/babysitter then as long as you can change your own diapers and feed your self then that's ok too only because I don't want to have to get into changing/feeding/caring for another ab girl other then my own little one, to do things like having a play date or going to the park to play, slumber parties, outings or what have you.
We would like to met other couples as well ab boys are welcome too as long as thy have a "partner" be it a daddy or mommy or nanny. We are not so much interested in meeting single ab boys for obvious reasons (I know that there are some really good and polite ab boys, but unfortunately the bad eggs have ruined it for the others)
We would like to get to know you first and then do coffee and maybe hang out at the park, but ultimately were looking for other play mates not sex partners not another baby just friends who are interested in play dates and outings.
Keep in mind that this is the gist of what has happened. If I put every detail and every aspect, reading this would take a lot longer then it already has :P
