DaddysSoftVoice


DaddyforHer Male Dominant, 50	daddyb Male Dominant, 48	DADDYLILSUBGRL Female Submissive, 23, RESEDA CA SFV 818, California

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	About DaddysSoftVoice � Ok, after much ribbing and teasing about My profile I am updating it finally after all these years. I am a loving caring Daddy Dom who seeks a true hearted baby girl/ submissive. I seek the soft touch of your hand in Mine, the warmth of your body cuddled in My lap, the desires of your heart within the palm of My hand. Do not think because I am a Daddy Dom that I do not have strict, and sometimes sadistic tendencies. Nothing to extreme, but a girl gets what she needs. I am tired of the fakes, posers and bullshitters I seem to run into. I DO NOT seek a girl with a chip on her shoulder, or a girl that has 3 pages of restrictions for what she wants. If you cannot be honest right up front, do not bother to message Me. If you are not willing to relocate in time, then don't bother either. I have no desire to have a long distance relationship. If you don't talk offline, forget it I am not here to type messages al day. I drive truck so I am on the road a lot, and don't always have internet access, talking offline is essential. I am romantic, protective and affectionate. There is much to Me to much to put in a small box here. Come chat with Me and learn about Me, see where it may go. Come lil one, come to Daddy. Daddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. In my relationship my Dom is not my father, he is nothing like my father, and I have no need for him to replace my father. He is however my Daddy. We do not engage in age play specifically ( beyond the occasional school girl fantasy s) and our relationship is not based on any need to have sex with children. I am always all woman, and always a very independent woman. He does have the ability to make me feel like a little girl, however, a very cherished and sometimes needy little girl. It is a feeling that I revel in, it is the safest place I have ever been, and it allows me the freedom to be all that I am without fear of reprisals. Daddy Dom is a feeling, an environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides. So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom? A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created. To achieve these goals he relies on a combination of love, respect, and discipline. His love for his little girl goes without saying. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. She is his prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the room and he takes great pride in her successes. After all, he helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of his heart and has the greatest power to hurt him. This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his little girl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase it�s value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with him. He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the little girl to really trust, she must know he means what he says. If his little girl is going to be the best she can possibly be he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises. If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect. This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to his needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined. A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to his submissive...acceptance. She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her, and he still loves her. When she goes to him she knows that this man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn�t matter. To him she is beautiful. Daddy Dom and sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their submissive's masochism. This balance is necessary to many little girls because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an incredibly fulfilling relationship. I think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of male authority figure in the submissive�s life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it�s participants crave. There is something infinitely magical about a Daddy Dom. Perhaps it is something only a little girl can understand.

Lets start a journal where we can post the fake hacker spammer profile names. What do ya think?

so what happened to chat? it says I need some flash thing from chat.darkgrove? any help?

Another spammers fake local profile reported gotta love it

Amazing, the first 25 submissives that popped up on My front page, all but 2 of the profiles are totally fake and a waste of time. I wonder what W/we need to do to clean up OUR site and get rid of all the bullshit profiles from so many fakes.

I have just had the misfortune to get a goodbye nessage from a new submissive who was lied to, humilated , taken advantage of. Sadly, the so called dom involved made sure her name was trashed and that all blame was given to her. So without anyone finding out both sides of the story, this new girl, eager to learn of her acceptance of submission has turned her back, and has run away to hide from it all due to this one doms misuse and mishandling of her. Isnt it funny how one well known dom can manipulate a whole room, when no one really knows whats going on behind all there backs. I have seen this happen far to many times, and it makes Me sick to know he is still so well respected in the rooms. In a few short weeks, he broke this poor girls new found desires, stripped her of any respect and drove her into hiding. I guess thats all part of being an online dom, since there is no way he would get away with this in the community. Taking a girl of course from another state, and wrecking her. sad just sad. I thought this site was better then that, and I felt more of the friends I have met here were better then that. But I see I was wrong. This must stop.

Training is not just about teaching the submissive to follow rules and assume positions. Training is the opportunity for the Master and the submissive to get to know one another. The trust given to a dominant by a submissive is a gift; the training the submissive receives is the process of the dominant unwrapping his gift. The two use the process to "discuss, to amend and develop, to grow and to find mutually desirable ways of expressing needs and exploring desires. To develop together what erotic power exchange will mean for them." In other words, training is the process of communication, of honesty between two people, of a combination of experiences that bind the two together. The end result of the process is such a deepening of the bond that the submissive will inherently know that the decisions her master makes are for her highest good.
The whole process of learning and applying these lessons creates a personal transformation through increased awareness, a way to refine and improve oneself, a method of getting to know oneself. Instead of changing a person's behaviour, training creates a head-space that allows a submissive to serve with the thoughts and wishes of her Dominant first, foremost, and ever present. The key lesson? "There is only one way to serve and that is the way required by the one we are serving.
Sexual training: increasing arousal, becoming sexual in new ways, overcoming sexual blocks, erotic movement, dance, striptease, pole dance, controlling masturbation, orgasm restriction, overcoming shame about body and sexuality

Emotional training: overcoming unhelpful emotions, control over emotional expression, openness, journal keeping, overcoming fear, guilt, shame, dishonesty, possessiveness, materialism, stubbornness, resistance, surliness, egotism. Accepting humiliation, overcoming expectations, entitlement feelings, resentment at unfairness.
Discipline and punishment: accept punishment in the way Dom requires, acceptance of pain, maintaining stillness, being unobtrusive, accepting restrictions on movement, posture, no-go-areas, being restrained, delaying gratification

Orgasms,
What causes a girl to have a difficult time achieving an orgasm? I have a theroy but would like to hear from you girls. If you have a difficult time reaching one, or are slow to orgasm, send Me an email and we can chat. I am curious if My thery is correct and can be fixed.

Is this just a dream? A fantasy land I wish to live in? Will it ever become reality again? As we go through the pains of searching, weeding out all the fakes, players and posers, this comes to mind alot. This journey is not a quick find, and it takes years sometimes to find that one who steals your heart. Some are seeking someone younger, older, bigger smaller. Does this special preference make them shallow because they know what they like and want? I dont think so, simply because of this reason. If a woman likes cum, is she shallow because she wants it? If someone likes spanked, and wont be with someone else cause they wont spank they, is she shallow? To Me its the same principle. We know what we like, and want what we like. Attraction and chemestry are vital. At least those wanting a certain thing, should be honest about it and say up front thats what they seek. I had someone say they felt incomplete if they were not collared , or with a Dom. I have to disagree with that. I am complete with someone or without. A girl is ot going to complete Me, she will complement Me when together, but she wont complete Me. If you are not complete and feel you need someone else to complete you, then you have work to do. I am not here to complete someone, I am here to complement there natural abilities and help them grow in there submissive nature. YOU ARE A COMPLETE PERSON< YOU DONT NEED ANYONE TO COMPLETE YOU. Enjoy your days peoples, and dont give up. One day, without even knowing it, you will be swept away by someone, who knows they might already be talking to you, but you are not hearing or seeing them.

Ok lets get a few things stright.

1, I am not here to have an onliine cyber relationship. I have a life and a job, I cannot sit online all the time.
2. You must be willing to talk OFFLINE on the phone or away from CM. I travel for work and cannot again sit online.
3. you must be local or willing to relocate when the time is right.
4. I will not send you money to get you out of a foreign country until I know who you are, trust you and know you are committed.
is this understood? I am tired of the online fakes that play games here, fake local girls like slavetopain and heidi1988a. posers and bullshitters. Play elswhere, I am here for real life commitments

Daddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. In my relationship my Dom is not my father, he is nothing like my father, and I have no need for him to replace my father. He is however my Daddy. We do not engage in age play specifically ( beyond the occasional school girl fantasy *s*) and our relationship is not based on any need to have sex with children. I am always all woman, and always a very independent woman.

He does have the ability to make me feel like a little girl, however, a very cherished and sometimes needy little girl. It is a feeling that I revel in, it is the safest place I have ever been, and it allows me the freedom to be all that I am without fear of reprisals. Daddy Dom is a feeling, an environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides.

So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom?

A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created. To achieve these goals he relies on a combination of love, respect, and discipline.

His love for his little girl goes without saying. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. She is his prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the room and he takes great pride in her successes. After all, he helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of his heart and has the greatest power to hurt him.

This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his little girl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase it?s value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with him.

He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the little girl to really trust, she must know he means what he says. If his little girl is going to be the best she can possibly be he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.

If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect.

This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to his needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.

A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to his submissive...acceptance. She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her, and he still loves her. When she goes to him she knows that this man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn?t matter. To him she is beautiful.

Daddy Dom and sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their submissive's masochism. This balance is necessary to many little girls because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an incredibly fulfilling relationship.

I think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of male authority figure in the submissive?s life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it?s participants crave.

There is something infinitely magical about a Daddy Dom. Perhaps it is something only a little girl can understand.

another wonderful day, and time spent with an adorable girl, I just hope she opens her eyes and see's what could be.

I want to feel the softness of her hand in Mine, feel her warmth against My chest as she cuddles with Me. The way her kiss lingers on My lips.
Come sit, talk, get to know My heart, My desires. I seek a real life commitment, not just some online playtime. If you are honest, sincere, and are not just playing a game, take time to know Me.

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