It seems to me that there are a lot of Dominants looking for slaves, not as Many looking for a submissive. Also, there seems to be some confusion as to the difference between a slave and a submissive, with some Dominants. i find this rather surprising, as one would think that a Dominant would be well versed on the roles of the lifestyle.

One thing i have also found while browsing profiles is that S/some only talk about the sexual aspect of BDSM. The D/s part is just as important... if not more so. It's not just about the sex. There is nothing more wonderful than kneeling between my Master's legs with my head on His lap, and His fingers in my hair as Wwe talk about Oour respective days... plans for the future... or whatever else it is Wwe wish to discuss. i can't begin to describe how i feel upon seeing my Master crook His finger at me... beckoning me to come to Him... or the look in His eyes... as He speaks the word "come". There is so much to this lifestyle that i can't even begin to put it all down. Just because One likes kinky sex, that doesn't make Him a Dom.... that just makes Him a great fuck.

These are just the thoughts and feelings of a girl.... a girl born with a submissive heart.