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Happily Taken, Collared, and Married. My name is Misty. I have been married to my Dom(Sir2lilsub) for eight years now. I realized 4 or so years ago that i was submissive, I thought it was purely a sexual thing, but recently realized that Its all or nothing for me. It is now our lifestyle and we have much to learn. We do stay closer to the HOH and Domestic Discipline side of things but D/s is a very important part of who we are as well. I have permission to look for friends and mentors and that is my goal. ;)
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Joined MAsT on Saturday! We had a great time. We left feeling excited and hopeful. This does happen to be our first step into the local BDSM community. I strongly recommend it to anybody who feels isolated or curious. We hope to be attending 'Fourth Friday' and look forward to meeting all the other kinksters! ;0)
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Why are most of the Doms on CM so short? As in under 6' ? I need for My Dom to be at least 1/2' taller than me. I instinctually see height and size as strength and capability; ie.. the taller you are the more capable you are and the more likely you are to have the strength needed to make me submit. There is something about looking up at your Dom when you are in heels that just does it for me. That no matter how big I try to be, he will always be bigger.....I am 5'7" and my Sir is 6'3". I know that if you are a good Dom that your presence is felt way beyond your size, but If you add that same commanding presence to a large man, Imagine how fragile you would feel....I also Love that even though my Sir is so Big, he can also be one of the most gentle loving men I know. Kind of like a gentle giant if you will....This of course is just my preference. I find it hard to submit to a man that is physically smaller than me. To each his/her own.......
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So, I found a solution to my aforementioned problem. Attitude adjustments. Seems so obvious right? We are kinda new to this and learning new things everyday. Though he would tell me to watch my tone and had some issues with my attitude at times, we always paid more attention to specific rules being broken. I got the idea from spanking stories. A lot of the spankings in them were not for any one infraction but for an attitude problem that was inclusive of tone,cursing,stomping feet,slamming doors, etc..
It kinda clicked and i thought 'DUH!!!!' Being a brat could be handled with an attitude adjustment. Unfortunately I informed my Sir of my great epiphany, who seems to have embraced the idea wholeheartedly. I seem to be constantly kicking and congratulating myself simultaneously. What did I get myself into??!!!
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Totally having a hard time getting my Sir to discipline me more often. The thing is.. I hate disappointing him. I am a brat at heart and my Sir loves that part of me, but I tend to be a good girl more often than not... For me discipline has to be real, otherwise it isn't worth it..... so just asking for a random spanking doesn't feel right to me.
So.... How do I get real spankings without disappointing my Sir?....
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My husband and I make custom paddles. There are a few examples in my photos. We are known for paying close attention to the comfort of the handles. Very important for long sessions...These are unfinished because the stain is buyer's preference. Wood options are Red Oak, Douglas Fir, Cedar, Pine, and Birch paneling(for slappers). We also make paddles and slappers from various types of plastic. I hope to post pictures of some finished paddles soon. Email me if you have any questions...
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The difficult thing about domestic discipline is public places and family gatherings. You cant really practice it in these instances without much embarrassment and/or accusations of abuse.
My Sir and I have come up with an ingenious (in my opinion) way of giving a very clear warning of boundaries being crossed, even when others are present.
We use black bracelets (my idea). Kinda like rubber bangles,you know, the ones that are very in with the teen crowd. Very easy to find at Walmart.
Anyways, he keeps them in his pocket and hands them to me throughout the day for disobedience in public. I am required to wear them all day to remind me, and help keep me in line. Kind of like a constant warning to be good.
They have to be cashed in at bed time. Usually one represents 10-20 swats or more depending on the seriousness of the infraction.
He never tells me the number he has decided on before the spanking, he just makes me count them until he is done. Losing count means that we start over at #1.
I lost count two nights ago. I had received 2 bracelets and was apparently receiving
40 swats as a result. Well stupid me lost count in the late 30's and his response was "What number does that mean you start at?" Unfortunately my response had to be "1 Sir" though i briefly thought about saying something like "35 Sir"....Briefly.
Im not that stupid. As it was I was looking at almost twice the amount of the original spanking. I really didnt need to add to that number.
The bracelets are a thing that i have come to loath and respect. I want to be angry at myself for even suggesting it, but I have to admit that they are extremely effective.
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Well tonight was an interesting night. Daddy and i talked for a while first when we went to bed and we were talking about last night's spanking. I mentioned that it wasn't as bad as some I've seen because he didn't bruise me. He thought that was funny because apparently there were 2 quarter sized bruises from the edge of the paddle that i hadn't noticed on my butt. Not that i look at my butt every morning when i wake up or any thing. Anyways, this had me worried because though i thought they were erotic, i wasn't sure what he would think about them. Apparently i had nothing to worry about, they turned him on.... He has always loved leaving hickeys on me, and he calls it marking me. or Leaving his mark...and he considers the bruises on my ass just another of his marks. And that turned me on. But since i had said they were tiny, apparently those were fighting words cuz man did he set out to prove a point... on my Ass! lets just say the sex was great! Not sure if I'll have more bruises tomorrow but i hope i do. I love to have his marks on me. Which got me thinking. I would love to have a permanent mark on me, somewhere of his choosing. Not necessarily his name but definitely something that signifies me as HIS... Needless to say , he loved the idea. maybe I'll have pictures sometime soon.... Cant wait..
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Last night i was brought to tears for the first time from a spanking. I had thought that since I was the one that brought this into our marriage that he would be put off if i cried from something he did to me. He had mentioned in the past that it was going to take some time for him to get over the whole "never hit your wife" thing. Apparently he's over it because all he said was ' Have you learned your lesson?" I think i learned a bigger lesson than he intended.. I now know that crying wont deter him if i deserve a spanking....
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| Age: 28 |
| WALES,
United Kingdom |
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