DaddyDesade

Male Dominant, 50

Male Dominant, 48

Female Submissive, 23, RESEDA CA SFV 818, California

Women?s Top Ten Favorite Conversation Topics 1. Hopes and aspirations: I aspire to have hopes. I hope to get one of my scripts picked up and actually see it on the screen. I hope to get custody of my kids. I hope to learn how to consistently choose happiness 2. Hobbies/interests in general: I write, I read, I like to take porn comics and color them with colored pencils. Non-porn comics too sometimes. I'm interested in the film industry. I like that show on the food network that shows how different candies are made. I like the candy making industry in general. 3. Music: I love music. I love Emerald Rose (my favorite obscure band) I love anti-folk (especially moldy peaches, Go Kimya! and Kimya Dawson, Go Kimya x2!!), hippy music, and country, alternative, some hip hop, most everything at least a bit. 4. Dreams: I've had a dream a couple times that I had a human dog. Just a person who wore mittens and a body stocking and lived as a dog. My youngest was visiting and he wanted to play dog too and we dressed him up and he played with the dog. But even he knew that he was playing and the dog wasn't. He understood that somehow. 5. Romance: I like to be romantic. Little cards and flowers, and little gifts to say I'm thinking of you. While I like it when a girl is romantic, I'm always like "What are you doing this for?" 6. Friends: I've been in New Zealand for five years then was in America for 18 months so I am just getting back in touch with some old friends and meeting some new ones. 7. Travel: I've never been a big fan of travel. Living overseas cured that though. I love Mexico and Canada, America's lovely neighbors. I love Neuevo Zealand. I really want to go to europe and australia. 8. Vacations: Vacation is such a management word. "When I look at your workspace, peon, it is vacant." I much prefer "Going on Holiday" Because any day away from work is holy by it's very nature. 9. Movies:I LOVE Movies. LOVE, Love, love!! Love them so much It's almost like I have no taste. I'll watch anything. But I have taken enough media studies that I can break them down and comb through their symbolism with the best of them. Favorites: Fucking Amal (a.k.a. Show Me Love), Willy Wonka (original), Juno, Saved! 10. Entertainment: I love movies, tv sometimes doesn't suck. Love to shoot pool, and am willing to bowl or play miniature golf. I will play any sport you want to play, badly, but I do like activity. But I have not watched a sporting event from beginning to end since childhood. Women?s Top Ten Least Favorite Conversation Topics 1. Politics: HARDCORE liberal socially, fiscally libertarian. And am perfectly happy to discuss The Revolution for hours. 2. Other dates: don't date much, but enough that I have someone to silently compare you to. (Kidding Miss Sensitive-pants) 3. Past relationships: married my high school sweetheart and best friend. So of course I am not a big believer in high school romances lasting for life.. 4. Science fiction: I love science fiction. The only thing I love more is fantasy. Ooooh robots and unicorns, Hurrah! 5. Religion: my degree is in Theology, so I have strong opinions (which I nearly always keep to myself). Have twenty years practice as pagan clergy. I am ordained by the Anglican Church. I'm ethnically Jewish and most of what I have studied of mystical Judaism I agree with. I believe in magic and fairy tales (and the magic of some faerie tail)I believe that life is solely for the experience. I recommend Illusions, the adventures of a reluctant messiah by Richard Bach, and the entire catalog of Miguel Ruiz. 6. Celebrities: I love celebrities, I find them fascinating. Because they do the same things our neighbors do. But we find those same acts unusual and fascinating when done by celebrities.I think it's great that Jamie Lynn Spears got pregnant. She's got the money to support it and biologically she's in her prime baby makin years. 7. Science: I find quantum theory more interesting and relevant than religion. 8. Antiques: I like big heavy old furniture and I like old cars. 9. Money: I like money, both for the possessions it acquires and the power it conveys. 10. History: Those who refuse to remember the past are condemned to repeat it.

I find Orthodox Jewish women and Amish women hot. I used to think I had a lurking conservatism, but it turns out I just love costumes. Which is not to say I am looking for cosplay. The idea of costumes and bdsm don't mix to me.I just like to dress up and go out. Being stared at by Norms.

Played seriously for the first time in months yesterday. At the last second she wanted to bring her friend 'to watch'. I explained that it's not a spectator sport, but if he can follow simple instructions, I was willing to let him help. In the course of play it was totally obvious the poor guy was totally in love with her, so now I am trying to play matchmaker. Daddy strikes again! The play itself was semi-decent. She was a total bondage slut who never really thought about S/M who has been after me to tie her up almost as long as I've known her. So of course I end up doing a scene that was a lot of light to medium play and very little bondage. I explained to her repeatedly as long as I've known her that bondage isn't really my thing. I usually use cuffs and chains because my knotting skills are poor and I? lack the interest to improve. I do A LOT of plastic wrap bondage because it is easy to get on and off. So if Miss Ropeslut insists that she wants to try what I do, she needs to expect a different experience. She seemed to like it, but she didn't say. Her boyfriend loved seeing it, but he was under the impression that she wasn't expecting all the sensation play, so who knows.

I was just looking at my interests and noticed I have a huge list in my loves and in my likes boxes. I felt a little like one of those folks who just marked everything trying to cast his net as wide as possible to be able to say, 'we have interests in common'. But apparently I am just that sort of fellow, who likes things. I went through just to make sure that I really felt that way about each interest. The only thing I can think of that I misled at all on is polyamory. Which I like and support as a lifestyle choice, but since I do not personally want that in my life I checked 'no opinion'.

I am not here because I am bored by or tired of vanilla relationships. I want everything a vanilla relationship has. I just want more than that.

hope everyone had a fun holiday. I was in bed with a stomach bug for four days, so that was less than entirely fun. feeling good now though, just so no one worries.

Why are there so many subs on here who have pictures of their feet on their profile. I don't know any Doms with foot fetishes, and I would suspect there aren't that many. Oh well whatever anybody wants to do, I say enjoy yourselves. If you want to video tape yourself walking in a giant pan of baked beans, please don't let me discourage you.

Have a fairly active social life but would like someone special in my life. Which does imply that everyone currently in my life isn't special. Unless you mean in a special ed. way. (because no one can deny my friends need goggles when they eat so they don't fork themselves in the eye). I've been told an evening with me is like a combination of a night of stand-up comedy and being grilled by the feds for suspicion of treason.

There are two kinds of freedom. Freedom to... and Freedom from... Freedom to do what you wish is Dom freedom and Freedom from decisions is sub freedom. I am a 'freedom to' guy. And any time I am in less than total control it annoys the crap out of me.

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