Daddy4ULilGirl

It's funny how crazy people never think they're crazy!  It's always EVERYONE ELSE who have the problems, or are crazy.

I think some people need to recognize that they are the common denominator in their problems and stop blaming other people... Oh wait, that would be something a sane person would figure out.

Sorry about that Crazy people, (one in particular -- you know who you are).  I made the mistake of trying to talk with you as one sane person to another.  My mistake.  What was I thinking?  I must be crazy!  DOAH! hahaha...

This site is nothing but fun...

I'd love to get thoughts from subs/slaves about this topic:

I was discussing the idea of how being a submissive is actually liberating and frees one in life when they turn themselves over to someone else.  Sort of a freedom in being controlled thing.

I think for a sub/slave to really fulfill their nature, they need to be open to the full-spectrum of life experiences and accepting them all equally, both good and bad.  Only when you can do that and maintain an open-mind and heart as you approach each new experience for what it is without prejudice from your previous experiences, can you really experience freedom in submission. 

And of course, if you have a Dom/Master, to turn yourself over completely to his control (or whatever level everyone is comfortable with) you liberate yourself from the moral weight of decision making.  He takes on that burden with joy and loves to see his sub/slave act with a certain freedom of guilt, responsibility or consequence because they are the doer and only following what was thought out and determined by their Dom/Master.

Not that a sub/slave doesn't have feelings or thoughts, but that to truly fulfill their nature they need to be very open and receptive to doing as they're told and relish that freedom from not having to make the decisions.

Of course, this is why it's so important for a sub/slave to find a Dom/Master with whom they can implicitly trust and love, knowing he has their best interest at heart.  Without that, you are turning your life, fate, happiness and freedom over to someone who has no connection or care invested in you.

Geez, you'd think with all the porn that's available on the web these low-life scammers would be a little more creative and maybe NOT use the pictures of like the same three girls for all their fake profiles!  I mean I'm no connoisseur by any means but what's with all the supposedly female profiles that all seem to be 11 miles away from me, have nothing but a single sentence in their profile and use one of the same 3 or so web slut pics.

All you fake-ass spammers suck but being Lazy Spammers is really disgusting.  Come on guys, put a little effort and pride in your work.  We're not all as dumb as you so you better step up your game a bit.

I'm surprisingly amazed at times at the total lack of any real moral fiber and/or logic so many in this "lifestyle" or at least on this website possess.

I like D/s because I feel it's got a structure and philosophy that makes sense in this world of idiots, morons and self-entitled shit-heads.  D/s gives the people involved a starting point.  Vanilla relationships are just shots in the dark with absolutely nothing logical behind them except maybe common interests, physical attraction and of course the ever convenient geographical location.  All good things but trying to sort out who is the Alpha when a Dominant man meets a "liberated" woman is just going to lead to some messy head-butting. 

And, all the other elements that seem so clearly defined in a good D/s relationship like, sexual fetishes, kinks, and even hard limits, as well as potentially having a philosophy of life you both agree upon, like Head of Household, or (I can't believe I am even saying this), Gorean living, should give us such an advantage over those random vanilla relationships.

Notice I said, "Should".  So as a serious Dom, (not the world's greatest, most experienced or knowledgeable, but at least a real, genuine Dom who has lived it, studied, explored and practiced it for over a decade), I feel like I understand what I want and why and how to get it.  And on this site I read well-written profiles by so many subs/slaves where they clearly lay-out what they want, why/how they came about these decisions, and of course the list of requirements a Dom must possess before even contacting them.  You know the type who say things like, "What is so hard about understanding I said 'no one under 30?'  That means you 'Mr. blah blah random Dom' who happens to be 29!!!"  Charming isn't it?

Yet for all the things these, (I'm going to say girls/women even though if you have read any of my other entries this is probably more often than not inaccurate, even though they are listed as female), with all their rules and requirements, constantly don't respond, or break their own rules, even when you fit perfectly within their narrow requirements.

A perfect example is, today, a certain "blah blah young miss sub" (who just joined Collarme.com today), very admittedly wrote in her profile she's "very inexperienced and young"...  "I am not ready to be owned at this time..." so she's just looking for an older Dom to help teach her about the lifestyle and just be friends.  I'm always open to getting to know people, and know how difficult it can be to get good info, so I wrote to her just to say hello and offer a hand.  She read my message and before she responded I saw her profile had changed.  I looked at it and within that 5 minutes since I sent, and she read my message, she is now "Under consideration... I am no longer looking..." REALLY?!

Now, before you all start yapping that whining about people and complaining is not doing me any good and makes me look bad, just realize I'm writing this for the sake of humor, and it's not an emotional response from me, like some baby, it's a response based in logic.  Now either the "Master" who got her to consent being under consideration within the first couple hours of her joining, and after her clear statement of being too young and inexperienced to do any such thing is truly some Jedi mind-fuck expert, (in which case I humbly bow to him and would pay for lessons), or more likely, she, "the sub," is just another mindless, moron who claims to have certain standards and beliefs, but really has no such thing. 

So again, for all the asshole guys out there that the women of this site can't stand because, as so many women claim, we, "the guys" on this site just don't listen... maybe it's time for you, "the women" to look at why so many guys here don't listen to you.  So many of you say one thing, vehemently argue and snipe at us about not being smart enough to read or pay attention, but then 5 minutes later you have completely undermined everything you claimed and go do the exact opposite.  Why would we bother to read what you say, or care, when you don't live by what you claim?  It's a two-way street.  You can't have it just your way and not accept the other side as well.  That's just ignorance.

So ladies, if you want me to respect you and what you say, (and I do want to do that), live by what you say and don't be the typical wishy-washy vanilla girls we all have dealt with in life before.  We are on this site, (supposedly like you), to find people that actually live by the philosophy of this lifestyle, have put some thought into it, and want something that abides by the rules.  If we want to just take shots in the dark and accept whatever the hell we hit without any real meaningful connection and value, we don't need to come here and neither do you.  Walk the talk or just shut up already!