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Daddy4Dresser

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Female Submissive, 23, RESEDA CA SFV 818, California
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Daddy4Dresser - Male Dominant, Salem New Hampshire | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About Daddy4Dresser

Married seeking discreet relationship with a woman or select CD/TV.



I'm attracted to women who dress and prepare themselves exactly the way their dom likes. I like directive-dress, bimbos and body modification subs. Passive submission isn't enough for me. I seek willful clear-eyed debasement and self degradation. In particular, I enjoy the "slut" or fetish looks, but also the business/professional look. Getting dressed, doing your makeup and preparing yourself should be an erotic form of submissive foreplay. Looking exactly how I want you is a tacit act of your submission and desire to please me.

I'm verbal, can be rough, and I enjoy rough/forced deepthroat with drooling, gagging and tears. I'm the bedroom kind of dominant, not the lifestyle kind - meaning I don't want to "own" you, in a BDSM sense - I just enjoy playing the role. I have many fetishes for you to exploit, and I'm extremely kinky and open minded.


I am 31 y/o MWM 6'1" 240 lbs 8"+ cut, thick. Brown/green. Masculine, married, discreet, intelligent, funny, safe and sane. I'm well educated, liberal and I've been accused of being charming when it suits me. I'm a big guy, but I'm not a fat slob. I prefer to think of it as a teddy bear sort of thing (or perhaps I could blame gravity...I'll rationalize it, somehow). Hopefully you're smaller than me, and enjoy the thought of being physically outmatched by a man. I'm drug and disease free, a non-smoker and I'm very communicative. I am seeking someone who is similar.



I won't come on "strong" right away with anybody until I've figured out their needs. I have little respect for those "doms" who lead off with bluster, aggression and demands before earning the respect and trust of their partner. They're frequently misogynists, sociopaths and other assorted nitwits - and the dominant is nothing without the consent and trust of a sub, don't you think?


Say hello. I like mail, and I generally respond to everybody. Although I'm very communicative, assertive and confident, I'm often reluctant to make the first contact because I recognize that many people find "cheaters" offensive and would not like to be contacted by one.

I can do what you need, and train and mold you in to the perfect sissy fuckdoll bitch. But I'm a very serious person and I have almost no tolerance for bullshit, flakes and people who waste my time. With that said, I actually am a pretty good guy and I'm an excellent dominant. If this is something that's a real desire of yours, and you're 100% committed to making it happen, then I am absolutely the right person for you. But if you're anything else, it would be best if you skipped me and moved to another ad.

 

Because the root of this is mental and emotional, we will need to include some behavioral conditioning in order to bring your feelings all the way to the surface and to begin training your body to respond physiologically to feminization. For example, it's a basic pattern of operant conditioning that you can take a stimulating reward response (in this case, orgasm) and pair it with something other than its present pairing.

You have orgasms in response to stimulation - but generally the physical stimulation isn't enough: You need to pair it with a thought, fantasy or visual secondary stimulus to achieve orgasm.

 

So your natural condition is that stimulus plus physical stimulation equals orgasm. What your natural stimulus is (men or women) isn't relevant. We can retrain your mind to accept a different stimulus by working the formula backwards. When you're about to have an orgasm, you switch from the natural stimulus to the desired one, and your mind and body will come to associate the reward of orgasm with the new stimulus.

This then becomes your homework, and the basis of your sissy training.

I'm starting to understand why most of the profiles on this site are inactive.  I think you either find who you're looking for, or you run out of prospects pretty quickly.  Geographic limitations give you a pretty tight pool of individuals, and if you don't connect with any of them you end up stymied rather quickly.

Enjoying talking to hollyd and exploring a possible relationship

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