Why do men think that calling a submissive a dirty little slut when they just meet you is OK? It's damn presumptuous not to mention, not all subs are into humiliation play in that regard.

Tired of men messaging me that think that because I am a sub I am willing to be abused. Submission is a gift...the one true gift that I can give freely and without reservation to the right man. Because you like blow jobs or because you like rough sex, does not make you a Dom. Being a Dom means that you care for and appreciate your sub and you want to see her grow, to become more of a woman than she was when she came to you. She wants to pushe her limits for you and to please you, but she deserves a caring and respectful relationship even though some of the things she does may not necessarily be "lady-like"