Curious

Hi! I'm quite normal - friendly, healthy, smart, attractive, D&D-free, and unfortunately not disturbed in any way that would be interesting - but eager to explore the world of BDSM which I find myself more and more fascinated by, perhaps in part as a reaction to a marriage which, although loving, has become utterly sexless. I am intrigued by pictures I have seen on the internet of people subjecting themselves to pain - their bodies tied and pulled and pinched and pierced - to heighten sexual stimulation, and actually came across this site in a so-far-unsuccessful quest to find where I might acquire a supply of fine needles to experiment with temporary nipple or skin piercing as a means to heighten sexual pleasure. (If you know where or how I might obtain such needles, please let me know.) If you would like to get together with a very open-minded man with whom to explore a similar interest, or any other kinky pursuit that intrigues or excites you, I would love to hear from you.