Curvynewsub

Hi so i took some time to think about what this entry would be on. I have decided to talk about some ideas for Dom.s to do the 24/7 thing with their sub. who can't let others know about what is going on. Me for example. I am a single mom with 2 children. I can't let everyone know about what i like to do for the fact that no one wants "that woman" on the PTA or at scout meetings. Now for the ways to keep it under wraps while still having fun. One idea i had was to use a regular necklace as a collar. It is just a way to keep things under wraps but the Dom will know what it means and so will the sub. Too who doesn't like to get jewelry as a gift lol? Another way i was thinking about was maybe the Dom could tell the sub to do something as simple as walk across the room and back just so the Dom could look at the sub. What person doesn't like to admire the human body and to do so openly is that much better. As a sub it gives me a chill to have my Dom tell me i did a good job (he says 'good girl' or 'you are Daddy's lil whore' kind of my own personal kink if you will lol) so to have him lean over and tell me that at dinner would be amazing for me. There will be more have to cut this short. 

Being in a D/s relationship isn't just about just pleasuring one or the other. It is a true relationship that demands that of a vanilla relationship with so much more. I am talking about trust and respect. When one is in a D/s relationship trust and respect is everything. One part must trust the other to do as told for what ever reason or to trust that one will not do anything to really hurt the other. Trust is so much more than allowing them to know your darkest places or being around your most precious possessions. It is knowing that no matter what that their behind you one hundreds percent and knowing that they care enough about you that what ever they decide is going to be best for both parties. As far as respect goes, respect plays a major role in D/s relationships. As we all know a sub must respect their Dom to ensure that no lies are crossed that they do not allow, but on the other hand a Dom must respect their subs to ensure that no lines are crossed that may really hurt their subs. A Dom holds more than just physical well being in his hand. A Dom holds everything be it mental physical or emotional well being in their hand. If a Dom misuses that trust and disrespects a sub it can ruin that person not only as a sub but as a functioning part of society. In all aspects in order to take respect or trust one has to give. A sub can't expect her Dom to respect her wishes or trust her if she cannot respect his wishes and trust him. In the small amount of time i have been here if i have learned nothing else, i have learned that in this lifestyle trust and respect are the only things that make this work for everyone and allows both Doms and subs to enjoy a loving and giving relationship.