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My last entry was in April. Why I've been absent. Too many pretenders. Too many games. The guys responding to my request either turned out to be curious about the life style or just looking for one night of fun.
I don't do one night stands. What I want is what I want and no less unless I decide it's okay.
I am not on this site very often. In fact it's rare that I am. Sometimes I on here to see if anything has changed or if someone sends me a message. |
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WoW! It is quiet on here lately. At least in the Virginia area. Anyone having any fun? Me, I'm enjoying myself with other things but would like like a new toy or two
Ms.CC |
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Hello all. I hope you are thawing out from the winter chill and new life is stirring within you.
Virginia Subs thank you for your supportive notes. It appears that I'm not the only Domme's having dishonesty issues with subs. It is by my own choice that do not want the drama that comes with married men or men that are going through court battles for children, divorce, etc. I have found they don't have the time to put into what I desire. Actually they don't have the time to satisfy their own desires. The ones that have seeked me out that say they don't want a professional really should seek one. That way there are no expectations. Availability is not an issue and neither where you are located. There are no time restraints and no emotional investment. Then you may have the best of both of your worlds. When you approach me do it honestly and let me know what you are seeking. Be real with yourself and me.
I'm ready for fun how about you.
Ms CC |
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Life has daily lessons and I've learned somethings from one of my journeys. And it has caused me to change...totally.
NO Married Men!!
No men in a current relationship
No out of state or online relationships!
I am currently interviewing submissives. Please read my profile. I am still getting too many confused individuals. My life is nutty enough without taking on more craziness. If you don't understand what I'm seeking after you read my ad/message/profile all you have to do is ask. The way I live the lifestyle is different from most.
I'm sorry your wife is going through menopause or some other thing in life but it's not going to be one of my concerns nor special considerations. I hit menopause at a very early age and it didn't effect my drive at all. I also feel if you are so unhappy...do like I did. Get a divorce. Yes I have an attitude. And I don't hide it. I may seem like an evil bitch now. And that may be true but now I'm more concerned about my needs and wants and not someone else. Besides I'm a Domme I'm suppose to have a bitchy attitude.
So don't send me messages asking me to kick your ass. If you need that just drive to the wrong side of town to a neighborhood that you know is rough & dangerous, carrying a fist full of money. I guarantee you someone will kick the shit outta ya.
Only contact me if you fully understand my lifestyle. I don't do needles and injections nor human toilets. Along with some other things that I'm being asked about.
Yes I am interviewing again and with a definite attitude change. I'm not as polite nor gentle. If you have contacted me previously and I felt there was no connection don't look for a response.
If you send me a message and you totally don't fit done of "MY NEEDS". You will get no response.
Ms CC
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I have chatted with a lot of Submissives who have said that they have a hard time meeting a real Mistress. Maybe some of you are having a difficult time because of the dishonest games being played with the Domme's. I'm not stating that all subs are dishonest. I've been on this site for nearly a year. There are some that I've met that if we didn't have a location problem I would be a very happy woman. However I've met too many that have wasted so much of my time stating that they were submissives. Stating that there are so many professionals on this site that they can't meet someone to fit their needs.
One of the reasons I was silent for a while was because of the dishonesty. There are some subs who long to meet a good quality Domme but perhaps their efforts are blocked by the dishonest, mind playing, confused so called submissives. I interview submissives mostly to find out if they are real. My interview time or say probation time can take a long time because I must know if I can trust you are not. A pretender can only pretend for so long before there true colors come out.
My profile states clearly and to the point the type of submissive that I seek. IF YOU can't fulfill that description do not send me a message! Know that the most important thing I expect is honesty. If I can't trust you it will be a waste of my time and that is something I have no desire for. If you simply want to use me to get over a pass love, a disappointing marriage, to work out some sort of curiosity, experiment with a black woman or because you had a bad day. Don't contact me.
I'm a Loving Domme by nature. I embraced this style because it offered me a way of being both strong/dominate and express my kinky side but also kind, affectionate and passionate side. However, never try to take that kindness for granted because behind that sweet kind nature is a Mistress who can be very dangerous and can be as nasty and evil as I am kind. Never take my kindness for weakness. It takes more strength to nice. It takes a lot to be open minded towards someone even when you know that person is being dishonest. I believe that the dishonest submissive is a worthless person. And the weaker person. He cheats himself out of more than he will ever know.
Signed
Mistress CC
ps..the very pissed off CC right now. |
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A belated Happy New Year. I thought I would just send out one message than answer all the waiting messages. I'm still here and I'm alive. I've been asked a lot about my silence.
I've been very disappointed about the possible or tentative submissives that I've met or interviewed. So you could say I'm taking some time off. At first I was going to drop out of the Lifestyle however I've learned that is not so easy to do. Because it is a part of me.
Sorry for such a brief note but I'm out with my female pals and they are complaining about me being on my Blackberry.
Thanks to all for your concern about my well being.
Mistress CC |
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To those who have tried to connect with me or chat with me, I am sorry for not being very responsive. But I've been very busy doing other things. Assisting good friends and community work. I have not met the submissive that I desire. I still have hope to do so. That would be an excellent holiday gift.
In the past I've interviewed and met and hoped that at least one of the men that I've encountered would be the one. But I find that even in the submissive world there are a lot of fakes an flakes...ha,ha,ha. The same complaint I've heard from some submissives about Dommes. The chatter on CM has tremendously decreased in the last few months. I'm not sure why. I'm an optimist and believe that the submissive/companion I seek is out there. So I will remain for a wee bit longer.
Mistress CC
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I have a question for any Domme's in the Virginia Beach/Tidewater area. How do you feel about the quality of submissives you are meeting and interviewing?
I have plenty of interviews but not too many that have a real clue about the life style.
I would appreciate your feed back. It's funny I'm starting to meet more Vanilla guys that are more interesting that the submissives
Mistress CC
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Are there any straight local submissives who would like to accompany me to the Stockley Gardens Art Show Saturday?
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For those who care. I'm feeling a lot better now. My lungs are nearly clear. I have been assured that in 2 weeks I will be better than new.
At that time I want to start interviewing again for a prospective submissive. One who fits my needs. You must be local. I don't care for web cam submissives. And I'm certainly not going to do it by phone.
If you feel that you are the right one for me. Research what a loving dominant is . THINK LONG AND SERIOUSLY before you hit the send button. I've met a lot of pretenders and I don't have any patience for them.
Mistress CC
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Still fighting the good fight against my cold but starting to feel better. I hope to hear from all of my acquaintances soon. Would luv to hear from and possibly meet others who practice loving dominance.
It's the weekend have fun but be safe
Ms. CC
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I don't know how long I'll be on line. But right now I am connected again. Modem went out. I apologize to anyone waiting on responses from me. I will try to get to them as fast as I can. As life would have it. I have a bad cold and I'm sick in bed. So it maybe a while.
Ms. CC
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I've been offline since Tuesday. My laptop was in the shop until today. Still setting up please be patient while waiting for a response
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Just because I'm a Domme. Doesn't mean that I am dead of all other emotions. First and foremost I am a woman...I am friendly, playful, easy going, curious, intelligent, good listener, I am told I am a good kisser... I plays
well with others at parties (I don't participate in swinging or group sex). I enjoy cooking but that doesn't mean I wanna do it all the time... Enjoys snack time, including afternoon delight... I try to eat
healthy, try stay flexible, I am a serious chocoholic ... I enjoy wines and fruity ales,
quiet thinker, cleans up well, pays attention when I go to the movies, concerts, decorating shows...Will sometimes do show and tell. Encourages
others to share their toys... May need an occasional time out, but always a
pleasure to have in class... Playmates must have a good sense of humor and imagination.
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Why is it so quiet on CM lately? Has everyone gone on vacation
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Curiosity question for Dominants but especially Submissives
If your Mistress/Domme' is a non professional.
And does not charge you
for the pleasures that you so much enjoy.
How do you show your appreciation?
Do you feel that tributes or gifts should
be done to show your gratitude?
I am asking this question because of some of the profiles I've read on some of the submissives here. And from some of the special request made to me to invest in certain toys without mention of reimbursing me.
I have found it amusing in a way that some submissives think that I have lots of cash because I'm a Domme'. Truth is I work a full time job like everyone else. Being a Domme has not increased my income. I work in an office 5 days a week, 8 hours a day.
Mistress CC
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There is so much mistrust between everyone. There are some who trust no one and there are some who consistently trust the wrong ones.
Distrust but more so unrealistic expections. We must make sure of what we want and if it's obtainable. If not we need to adjust. No one will ever say 100% of what you think they should say. No one will 95% of the time do what you expect them. Sometimes that can be a good thing.
Be sure of what you want; what you ask for before you ask. Make sure it's humanly possible. So many times we have knocked on the door, had it open to find out it's really not what we wanted at all.
Be safe everyone...to many people are being hurt needlessly...
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I had read other blogs and received emails that it's very difficult to meet who you seek on here and I am finding it to be so true. Nearly each person that I've chatted, emailed or spoken to has had an agenda much different than mine. Most have fantasies that would almost make it impossible for any Domme in my lifestyle to live up to.
I'm going to give this just a little bit longer before I with draw and try a different venue. Please if you read my profile, read it carefully. I am not a Domme who is going to tie you up and beat you till you bleed or other extreme tortures. I DO NOT SEEK A SLAVE---I SEEK A SUBMISSIVE. Yes there is a difference. Grab your dictionary.
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My,my I am still seeking my match. He doesn't have to be the perfect submissive just one that is knowledgeable of the lifestyle.
Can someone explain to me why I'm attracting more dominant males than I am submissives?
Mistress CC
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Hello everyone! Did everyone have an exciting 4th..if so share it with the rest of us please
I did something I'd never done before...I went fishing and it was fun. I even caught some fish
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Hello everyone,
Yes I am still on my mission to find a submissive to match my needs. I've met a few of you and I feel I need to mention a few things.
If you arrange to meet me:
Please do not compare to your last Domme. No two Domme's function alike. There are a lot of things we share in common but our methods will differ.
It will be in a public place an not my home.
Yes I know I've spoken to you on the phone but I still don't know you. And I have had one or two guys arrange to meet me and they were Dom's in Submissive clothing. Which could be dangerous.
It will be a normal man - woman meeting.
Our meeting is like an interview.
Why? Because trust is earned by both parties not because you have an sexual urge that needs to be taken care of. And I refuse to give command performances. I am not a "paid" professional. And I am concerned about my safety. In the pass this method has worked for me. And I will continue to use this method for my own protection.
I really want to meet a submissive in my local area. A non smoker that has time to spend with me. I am a very honest and up front person. And will answer at least 95% of whatever you ask me.
Mistress Curveaceouscandy
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To all those sending messages thank you so much. Most of them are really great and appreciated.
But I hate responding to messages to those with out profiles. And it's not fair to the rest of us who have taken the time to post a profile.
If you can't post a profile please include some information about yourself to the person you are messaging.
We want to hear from you...we just want to know who you are so we can respond accordingly
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Hello everyone,
I hope that you are having a wonderful weekend. I am still seeking that special submissive to have fun with. But you have to have a profile and live in the Tidewater area
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I finally caught up with all my emails. Thank goodness.
Now for the important news.
I am seeking a submissive male
that is familiar with the
lifestyle that I practice.
Age 40 to 60
Non Smoker
living in the Tidewater area
of Virginia
There is more but will discuss
privately
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There are so many things in life I don't understand. And maybe there are things we just are not suppose too.
For any of my acquaintances or anyone who reads my journal. Please stop assuming you know what I will or will not do. Don't assume because I'm polite that I can't be aggressive or that I will not administer punishment when needed or provoked. Yes I am polite. I will die being polite. I am a southern lady and that is breed into us from birth. But in a way it's an advantage because everyone under estimates me....ha,ha,ha.
There are things that I will not do. There are things that I will not do to my submissive.
There is a big factor that a lot of people forget, especially in this
life style. They forget that we are all human. We all have emotions. We
all feel hurt, joy and pain. No one escapes this. No matter how smart,
rich, handsome, cute or beautiful they are. It doesn't matter if you are
Domme or Submissive.
I am a loving dominate. I'm tough and can be rough. But the difference
in me an other Domme's is that I care about the welfare, health and
happiness of my submissive. There are some who have (and they have never met nor talked to me), judged me to be weak. That is a trait that no one who has met me or that knows me has ever accused me of.
A few of my friends have suggested that I write a book about loving
dominance from a Dommes/woman's point of view. I'm strongly considering
it because so many guys I've chatted with assume that I can not be
aggressive. That I can not administer punishments. Oh but I can. And I
have. And I will.
If you do not like the way "you think" that I practice. Then don't message me. But if you are interested at least it is a good start. I look at it this way. The lifestyle and the way it is practiced is just like the different ways of saying tomato or pecan. Southerns say it different from the north, east and west. Who is to say who is wrong and who is right. The same holds true for the life style
By the way. I have too many emails to catch up with so i will be responding only to those posted after June 1st.
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Really behind in my emails. I will catch up with all email on Monday. Thank you
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Take me
or leave me
Right now as every end of the month work has never overwhelmed me. And due to being a little down about my friends death I've
been somewhat depressed. It's like operating with a portion of your
protective shield being down.
I met two guys from Collar Me during this time because I naively
believed that they understood what I was going through. One of them
helped me out Sunday when I locked myself outta the house.He was nice enough to help me out but I have not heard from him again since Sunday. Because I am more than sure he believes that I'm a weak person. And not Domme material.
He
discovered I'm flawed . Since that discovery I've not heard from him. It is a shame because I really did like him.
There are some guys ( can't use the word men right now), who seem to be
under the false impression that Domme's or Dominates are not humans.
That we don't cry. Feel pain, and bump into things in the dark. That we
have control over everything and every circumstance. The fool that
believes that should be locked up until they have some semblance of
intelligence.
Both guys because they experience normal me. Human me. Not role play me.
Not evil bitch me. But just me. Doubt that I can be the type of Domme
they need. And perhaps that is true. I don't believe in torture to the
point of bleeding & beating. So because they think that I'm weak. I
will not hear from them again.
I joined this site less than a month ago. I have received a lot of abuse
from other Dominates (mostly males), challenging me because of the way I
practice the lifestyle. Some how wanting me to prove that I'm a Domme.
From Submissives that are not use to being treated as a human or with
respect, not really been any better.
For the first time in years I am wondering if I really want to do this
any longer. It was an enjoyable playtime at one time in my life. And now
the characters that I am meeting sort of gives me a sour taste. Some of
the guys do not treat me with respect. I am treated like I am a
prostitute. Almost like a sub human. Their are some guys that I have
chatted with or met that their communications with me have been so
poisonous to my spirit that I have cried. I had to threaten him with the
police because he harassed me so badly I was afraid of him.
I sort of decided to stay on this site maybe another month after that I
am leaving. Leaving before my entire spirit is annihilated. If you are
truly interested in me. Then you will continue to stay in contact with
me. If you are disappointed because I am a human and have flaws as well
as weakness.
By nature I a kind an polite. Sweet, very considerate, supportive. And I apply all those as a Domme because I want my Submissive to feel comfortable and safe. But who ever thinks this is a sign of weakness has never been my submissive and should not under estimate me.
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