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About curvaceousdiva
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IF YOU'RE ONLY SEX BASED BDSM DO NOT SEND ME A MESSAGE AS IM NOT INTERESTED.? Stimulate my mind first and the body will definitely follow!!! You should be able to titillate my mind in order to lead and guide me and for my trust to build in You.
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Recently lost over 150 pounds... no longer a BBW at all.? Im a submissive with slave tendencies.. or a slave with sub tendencies cause I do HAVE limits.? Ive realized that Im a bit bratty and a little as well.? Ive been in the life for over 15 years.? I AM NOT POLY?SO IF YOU HAVE?SOMEONE ELSE VANILLA OR OTHERWISE then Im DEFINITELY NOT the one for you and the most we could be is friends.? Im also NOT bi!!!! Although I'm EEO, Ive never played outside?my race or care for race play so african-americans are preferred BUT not opposed to other races either.??? A PICTURE IS A MUST.?
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I am looking for someone who I can worship and serve.? Someone who is strong, focused, and clear about who they are.? Someone who is intelligent, articulate, challenge me, and?able to keep me thinking.? Someone who knows that there is MUCH more to this than just sex so that means stimulating my mind first cause surely if you have my mind, the body will surely follow.? Capture me WHOLLY (emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically).? Someone who will coddle the little and babygirl in me.? Someone who is strict and rigid for that bratty mouthy side of me which DOESNT mean spankings necessarily but a firm stance dominant not domineering.? Someone who is secure in who they are; being that I was a former model, it seems that my confidence and my looks rub some D-types the wrong way so they MUST be secure in themselves.
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Soo I take another version of Myers-Briggs and Im on the ISFJ/INFP curve...
ISFJs place a great deal of importance on their personal relationships. They're generally very giving and loving people, who place the needs of others above their own. They sometimes have a problem with becoming overly emotionally needy, and with keeping their true feelings hidden from others. They take their commitments very seriously, and seek lifelong relationships. ISFJs are extremely dependable, and put forth a lot of energy into keeping things running smoothly. They sometimes have difficulty saying "no" when asked to do something, and therefore may be taken for granted.
ISFJ Strengths
Warm, friendly and affirming by nature Service-oriented, wanting to please others Good listeners Will put forth lots of effort to fulfill their duties and obligations Excellent organizational capabilities Good at taking care of practical matters and daily needs Usually good (albeit conservative) at handling money Take their commitments seriously, and seek lifelong relationships
ISFJ Weaknesses
Don't pay enough attention to their own needs May have difficulty branching out into new territory Extreme dislike of conflict and criticism Unlikely to express their needs, which may cause pent-up frustrations to build inside Have difficulty leaving a bad relationship Have difficulty moving on after the end of a relationship
ISFJs as Lovers
"To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before." -- Rollo May
ISFJs are committed to their relationships. They have very intense feelings, which is not immediately apparent to others because they tend to hold things inside themselves without expressing them, unless they have a strong reason to do so. Their intensity of feeling makes their intimate relationship their first priority in life, with the possible exception of God. They seek monogamous, lifelong commitments, and can be depended upon to be faithful and loyal to their mates once they have made a commitment.
ISFJs have a difficult time leaving a relationship which is bad, or accepting that a relationship is over. They tend to put all of the blame on their own shoulders, and wonder what they should have done to make things work out. If they have been loyal to their vows and have done their duties, they will be at a complete loss as to what went wrong, and will have great difficulty accepting the end. They are "true blue" lovers, and may even remain faithful to their deceased partners.
ISFJs tend to be very selfless, and to put the needs of others well before their own needs. This may backfire on them, if they get into a situation in which they are taken advantage of, and do not have a good outlet for their strong emotions. In this kind of situation, the ISFJ might bottle up their feelings inside them, and form strong resentments against others. The ISFJ should work on recognizing their own needs, and place some importance on meeting them, rather than always putting the needs of others first. After all, if you can't take care of yourself, how can take care of someone else?
Sexually, the ISFJ sees intimacy as a tangible way of strengthening their relationship bonds. They also see as something of a duty, and are likely to be more interested in serving their partner than in their own personal satisfaction. Although the ISFJ is not likely to be very wordy about expressing their love and affection, they're likely to do so through their deeds, and will deeply value their partner's responding affirmations.
The ISFJ is very warm and selfless. They'll put forth tremendous amounts of energy and time into doing what they feel is ther duty. What makes them feel best about themselves is when others show them their appreciation of the ISFJ. Consequently, the best gift that the partner of an ISFJ can give them is the expression of their love and appreciation.
In general, the ISFJ is usually a traditional, family-minded individual who places the comfort of their mates and families as their first priority in life. They're great for providing for everyday basic needs, and have a depth of caring which is very unusual, and not found in most types. They highly invested in the health of their relationships, and will work very hard to make things run smoothly. They are dependable and affectionate lovers.
Any other questions please feel free to email me.
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again a picture is a MUST!!!
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