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Hetero Female Submissive, 68,  Greenville, North Carolina
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Are you an alpha male? Do you like to be obeyed? Do you want to grab some hair and do as you wish? Are you seeking real time with a girl sub slave? One must be true and honest. When there is trust, the only limit is His imagination.

Fun loving intelligent submissive slave for the right man. Seeking a relationship in this lifestyle. This is not just fun and games, although fun it is, but a way of life and living on a daily basis. I seek one who will share with me a journey.

FYI. I answer all notes. If I dont answer yours its because you are in the Bulk Mail which means you are outside of what I seek

Please, if you contact me, tell me something other than good morning, Hi or how are you?. Give me something to make me want to answer you. Then IF I go to your profile and there is nothing there, it makes me think you dont have the time to fill it out! If you dont have time to fill it out, you dont have time!


please if you are bi or submissive, move on. If you are still interested... start you note with your favorite color.












 Submissive Female


 North Carolina

 5' 2"

 165 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant male


 Art Galleries


 Fine Dining



 Musical Theater




 Anal Play



 Breast Play



 Electrical Play

 Being Massaged

 Hair Pulling


 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play


 Wax Play

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Coffee Shops


 Flea Markets


 Garage Sales

 Going to the Opera

 Renaissance Faires




 Horseback Riding

 Scuba Diving




 Body Worship


 Corner Time


 Local BDSM Community


 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism




 Maid / Butler Service

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Sensory Play




 Vacuum Stimulation


 Board Games

 Card Games

 Historical Shows

 Puzzle Games

 Romance Novels

 Science Fiction

 True Crime



 1950s Lifestyle

 Working Out

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music



 Show Tunes





 Curious About:



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Speech Restrictions


 Bar Hopping




 Horror Movies

 Online Chatrooms



 Sensation Play

 Hard Limits:



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Journal Entries:
10/16/2017 1:57:27 PM
Such a fleeting word. Truth is another one. Someone tells you they are not married I believe they are not. Someone says they are truthful, I believe they are. 

Fact. I believed when they lied. I trusted when they've lied. 
Is it any wonder why I try to get to know someone before I jump to get tied or beaten?
Is it any wonder why I don't jump into bed with someone I've only just met?

He still managed to deceive me! Now I'm glad I held back.

2/12/2017 1:27:25 PM
Why I need a Master.  I always make the wrong choice!

11/6/2016 5:44:26 AM

I realized something this morning as I was talking with someone. For a TPE to work there has to be a tremendous amount of trust given to the Master. Words of wisdom, no doubt about it.
But when talking to someone and trying to get to know them, if they give me any reason to doubt them, to feel insecure, catch a lie no matter how insignificant or (most important) distrust them in any way, how can one hand over their body and mind. A lie, especially a little one, leads to others and then its hard to tell which is truth and which is not.
I, for one, tend to run. I run scared. Sometimes I guess I run for the wrong reason, but for whatever reason I have, mostly its one of distrust, insecurity or insincerity.
if you want trust - tell the truth
if you want her body - offer security
if you want ownership - be sincere

just my thoughts

11/2/2016 5:57:20 PM
I am monogamous, I do not share well and do not wish to be included in a poly group.  This is my hard limit.  Just being up front. 

10/10/2016 1:53:03 PM
I need to ask myself if I am that gullible?  Why do I believe what I am told.
Do men really think that once lies are found out that respect, honor and devotion are still possible?  Or do men think they can keep a lie going.


A mature man.  One with integrity and honor.  One that I can respect and obey. 

please, are you out there?

2/19/2016 5:27:51 AM
And yet again.  I wonder if there is a Master for me.  One that is truthful and honest. One with integrity. You can't build something special if it's based on lies and you can't have anything long term if you aren't willing to put some effort into it.
Alas, square one, I know it well.  Do I want to try again?  Yes.  Without trying, you'll never succeed.  Without looking, you'll never find or be found!  sigh, still looking, still hopeful.

11/24/2014 1:52:58 PM
I must be a magnet for liars.  Either that or just plain too trusting.  Not sure if I should continue or just give up.  Its so disappointing to find out you've been lied to, duped and mislead.  I would think if one wants a relationship, it would not be in one's best interest to start with a lie.  

3/28/2014 9:49:02 PM

He asked for my trust. I trusted.  He asked me for a picture.  I sent it.  He asked me to reveal my thoughts. I did.  My desires, I did  My hopes and my dreams.  I did.  My fantasies, my nightmares and my inner most thoughts.  I did.  He wanted my devotion.  I gave it freely.  He wanted a good girl.  I was.  He wanted it all and I willingly gave it all to him.  

He lied. 

For several months, he lied.  He asked for my mind, my body and my sole and he was unable to accept any of it.


11/8/2013 10:45:55 AM

Back again.  It is with great sadness this time that I write.  I had received a note from a man who turned out to be someone I looked forward to hearing from.  Someone who shared the same wants and needs, who wanted the same level of dominance as I do.  After speaking for several weeks he decided to tell me more about himself with an apology for not saying anything sooner.  No it was not only an apology it was a goodbye.  Was he real in the first place?  I do hope so, but in the end just another tease.

Not a quitter by any means, I keep hoping to find Him or He will find me.

1/13/2013 7:55:49 PM

We say honesty and communication are the keys.  This is not only true but essential.  Just because one answers all the questions truthfully does not mean one is being truthful.  If the right question is not asked the true answer will not be spoken.  Its called lying by omission.  sigh.  I am an optimist and I will keep searching.

11/6/2012 6:18:05 AM

I can't believe the 'gentlemen' that send an email with one word or a 2/3 word phase.  If you want a door mat I suppose that might be OK.  If you want a woman of intelligence, that can communicate with you and learn to trust you, I would think you would start earning her trust with a conversation that piques her interest.  First comes trust and knowledge then comes submission.  I also appreciate a well written letter with attention to spelling and punctuation.

I don't give out pictures so quickly so please don't ask.

10/27/2012 4:46:25 PM

Its interesting when one starts to talk with another and there is something said that the other doesn't care for, he must make up scenarios that are obviously unsafe.  Would they rather scare me off than just be honest and say "don't think this will work".  When you want honesty you must give honesty as well

10/21/2012 2:45:27 PM

Why is it so hard to start a conversation with someone?  Is it unreasonable to think  spelling is important?  Is punctuation really not necessary to make sense of one's words?   A one word note is not going to pique someone's interest.  A four line letter with not one comma, period or capital letter is not going to impress.  A sentence that has obviously not been reread for spelling isn't going to make it either.  How hard is spell check?

I'm not a genius and don't pretend to be, but I do know how to read and write.

10/16/2012 7:43:52 PM

When a relationship ends, one has to learn to be whole again.  To live on their own and do for themselves.  When a M/s relationship ends the world seems to end with it.  Even the very strongest in life has learned to depend on another and that trusted friend is not there.  sigh...  baby steps.  The sun will rise and set and life goes on.

6/30/2009 9:26:43 AM
A very dear friend of mine passed away yesterday.  She was young and vibrant and this was very unexpected.   You never know what the next day or even minute will bring.  We must treasure what we have and not waste one precious minute.  Her friends and the community will miss this gracious lady.

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