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Male Switch, 46, Orange County, California
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Female Dominant, 40, ont
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Male Submissive, 32, san diego, California
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About curiosone
I recently moved so I've decided to try again.
there has to be more than just a physical attraction between me and any Dom I am with. a mental connection must be present as well. it must be someone who knows what I need and want without my having to verbalize every detail, who understands what I should become.
I've met several people through this site, and learned a lot about myself in the process. I may be sexually submissive, but in everyday life I am an intelligent person with my own life and own opinions. Many say they are Dominant, but they don't have dominant personalities. My submissiveness is there, but on the surface I am confident, driving force, the kind of person a woman must be to succeed in the modern world.
I am looking for the same characteristics in any partner, but more. Stronger where it matters, successful, and caring (no women-hating losers). Because this isn't going to be all about you. Those looking for a mindless slave girl can move along, because I am about as far from that deion as you can get.
However, if you are looking for an equal in everyday life, but are sexually Dominant, you should try messaging me. I am an intelligent person, so if you message me acting like i am a dumb bitch, a doormat, or an eager slut, i can tell you right now that you won't be getting a response. i am looking for someone local that i can have a real relationship with. i am not interested in anything online so if you live in Canada, Spain, Egypt, etc. please don't bother.
Please Note: If you are 15+ years older than me then I am not interested
the best way to get a reply is by having a picture or attaching one. i like to know that the person i am talking to is real. stealing a picture off the web and sticking it in your profile doesn't count.
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So I'm not sure which it is: either I'm too old, or I have been on this site long enough for the scammers and fakes know that it is useless to try and message me (maybe there are better message filters now?). Either way, the number of messages I recieve has decreased a substantial amount from what I got when I was 21.
Doms, I don't think you want me to comment on what that says about your values, because I know for a fact that you are getting older too. |
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wow, looking over past entries is interesting. My annoyance with everyone is beyond obvious. Hopefully I have grown since then, no longer a complete brat (only when I'm feeling playful) but a more mature individual who has learned some things about who she is.
One thing I realize that I've never made clear is I'm not just looking to be used. I want to learn, I want to be taught what to do, how to please, how to beg...
My experiences with this site have been mixed. I've met some interesting individuals over the years, but none have been right. Maybe it's time to try again.
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Yes, I am a brat. Yes, I probably do need a spanking. But guess what? You have to manage to get your hands on me first... |
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After a long hiatus I am back. Why? No clue, guess I'm just bored and looking to be entertained. Not currently signing up to be anyones whipping post, so if thats what you're looking for then move along please. On the other hand, if you're really really hot and know your way around a girl's body then I may consider it....
Let the games begin. |
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Getting older sucks. Oh well, happy birthday to me.
P.S. no messages saying "Happy Birthday!!1!!1!" please... no need to rub it in. Or use rubbish punctuation for that matter. |
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Here's a little hint: if I have talked to you and said "no thanks" it really means "you're creepy now get the fuck away from me" or some variation of that sentiment.
I have decided there are no real Doms on here, just a bunch of wannabes. Anyone who wants to prove otherwise, good luck with that. Going out and buying a beginners BDSM kit doesn't count either. I want someone who knows what the hell they are doing and not trying to improvise. It's quite obvious when you don't know what the hell you are doing, I promise.
In other words you'd better have a lot of EXPERIENCE. Something everyone on here completely lacks.
Locking someone in a closet doesn't count as experience either. |
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You want honest? Well here's honest for you. I don't want someone who just takes what they want without any concern for my needs or feelings.
I want someone who knows their way around a girl's body, who can control my pleasure in such a way that leaves me begging, leaves me knowing that he holds the power, not always using pain to get what he wants. Who can work me up and then be patient enough to wait for me to submit and come to him, not the other way around. Who can tease and torture in equal measure. Someone who wants me at his feet for no other reason than just to have me there and know that i'm close by.
Someone who isn't scared off by the fact that he might come to care for me too much. |
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okay, i'm going to try and keep an open mind. i know everyone's sexual preferences differ, the same way i know that everyone has had different experiences that have led them to develop said preferences. what i really don't appreciate however, is when people try to argue that their way is the best way, the right way, or the only way to have a bdsm relationship. thats the same as someone saying that the only correct sexual relations occur in a missionary position... i'm sure everyone on this website disagrees with that statement, otherwise you wouldnt be here.
if youre going to try and argue the point then we might as well drag other issues in as well... how about gay marriage? or maybe prostitution? a relationship occurs between two people and they are the only ones who should have any say about the arrangement of that relationship. everyone else just butt out already. |
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do i sound angry? well i'm not.
sarcastic? yes. angry? no. frustrated? sometimes. but then again with the number of messed up people on here everyone is going to be frustrated at some point.
i guess my mistake has been venting through my journal entries. that and sarcasm isnt always well conveyed in this medium...
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eeeep!
yup, thats the word of the day definitely. what does it mean exactly? beats the hell out of me. since i am totally freaking out at the moment it somehow seems appropriate so i'm sticking with it.
eeeep indeed |
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okay shut up about the look-alike-or-not photos already, otherwise i'm taking the second one down, seriously. i really don't care what you're opinion is on the subject. i'm sure they must be fun to oggle and then message me saying my second pic makes me look like a bombshell or goth or whatever in comparrison (no i don't know what they were talking about either) but you can keep such comments to yourself. I really don't need to know what goes on in that creepy internet-stalker head of yours.
in fact, about 90% of the messages i get are either creepy or retarded. and they're always from either really young and horny Dom wanna-bes or really freaking old and horny Dom wanna-bes (eww). getting messages from guys that are 70 is just plain wrong. you could be my GRANDFATHER you sick bastards! in fact i dont want to talk to you if you are over the age of 40 (there you go old guys, there is your age requiremnt). i also dont want to talk to you if you live in the vicinity of: spain, france, russia, italy, greece, mexico, egypt or anywhere in africa for that matter. i don't want an online Dom, therefore nothing is going to happen and you are wasting both of our time. secondly i am not going to hop a plane to europe to relocate so again you are wasting both of our time.
...you know if it wasnt for the other decent 10% of people on here i would be long gone. the only entertainment value the other ones provide is that they are fun to laugh at. that and there is something satisfying about deleting their asses.
anyone who now wants to message me saying i am in desperate need of a spanking is welcome :P
ADDED:
this was sent five minutes after the journal entry went up...
"Hi,I know i`m too old just wanted to say I think both pics looks like you,tell by the nose and eyes and i like your additude,keep it up."
i think i am going to scream.... |
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so people keep telling me that the two pictures i have up look nothing alike....
someone needs to get their eyes checked.
ADDED: okay people, yes i know they look alike because they are both of me. i don't really need your reassurances. i have eyes. it was just a comment about the paranoid idiots on this site who think everyone is a dude in disguise.
thanks for all the compliments though :) |
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This is a journal entry of mine from about two years ago, but apparently some people didnt get the message so i'm reposting it. maybe people will actually read it this time:
if for some reason you have the urge to message me criticizing me, my profile, or even my word choice, please note in advance that i dont care what you think. i'm tired of recieving random messages from jealous subs, and older men pissed about my age preferences. yes, call me shallow, call me a fake for specifying what i want and what im looking for and not getting on my knees for the first idiot who has the audacity to call himself a Master and expects immediate obedience from me simply because of the title he has given himself.
go ahead and lament the fact that you were born fifteen years too early and insist that i should really reconsider. you probably think you are the exception to the rule. more than likely youre not. you might feel like messaging me and telling me that as a sub i have no right to be selective or have certain specifications. Well guess what? i have them and im keeping them so save yourself some time and go bitch at someone who may actually care about what you have to say and stop cluttering up my inbox.
i love being a brat. lol.
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i'll never understand how certain Doms can call to my spirit, others to my mind and still others to my body. Finding all three in one person? doesn't seem possible really. i know they say "capture the mind and the body will follow" but is that really true? could i be with someone who seems to be able to read my soul, but holds no physical appeal? maybe i just judge too quickly- then again maybe not. to instantly like or dislike someone isn't that uncommon and while you may not think it's fair or nice or polite, that's the way of the world. those who don't think it is fair tend to fall into the category of people i dislike (or think they will)
then again to be with someone physically attractive, without connecting on any other level doesn't suit me either... maybe i'm just fickle. there is no other word for it. |
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yes physical appearance matters dammit. i want to like what i'm looking at. |
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back to st. louis and school... woohoo... |
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Only three more weeks until the end of the semester... but i think i might have a major meltdown before then.
how in the hell do people manage to enjoy their junior year of college? all i can think about is internships and jobs and being out in the real world and how i still have absolutely no clue how to get where i want to go in life.
Frankly finding a Dom is the least of my worries right now and i find it weird how a lot of people on here make it sound like their ultimate goal in life. not to mention that i find it really really weird when Doms i talk to seem to think that i'm the weird one for not giving it more importance.
am i just missing something or are people on here genuinely that single minded? |
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off to go snowboarding....
so far it's the only time of the year i ever expect to have a bruised bottom :P |
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no i am not frustrated. to be frustrated denotes that you are trying to get somewhere and are being thwarted. i on the other hand, have stopped expecting anything or anyone i'm looking for to magically appear before me.
no expectation = no frustration
this way if anything actually does happen, i will have the pleasure of being pleasantly surprised
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is there possibly, perhaps, perchance (yay for alliteration) a Dom out there who is calm and can be in control of both themselves and me? someone who can remind me of my submission with just a look, a touch.... something small that makes me stop wanting to fight. so that the only place i want to be is on my knees at his feet, head against his leg while he runs his fingers through my hair.... |
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i love those Doms that put "must be height/weight proportionate" in their profiles, but i really wish one of them would just say what they mean already- No Fat Chicks |
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So i know some people are into the whole poly thing, but i'm not. People who message me, wanting to add me to their "family" or their "collection," or whatever you call it, should know in advance that my answer will be a resounding NO. It's not that i dissaprove of their lifestyle choices or anything like that, i just know it isn't for me. Mainly because i'm a bit selfish and hate sharing attention. Call me spoiled, call me a brat, i don't care. I will readily admit that part of me loves being a spoiled little girl- but there are other sides to me too, as there are multiple sides to all people and one aspect shouldn't turn you off from exploring the others. Just don't try luring me away with a lollypop- it won't work. |
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turned 21 two days ago. does age make that much of a difference in relationships though? maybe its not really the age a person is but the age they appear to be... |
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dude, i give up. seriously.
Haven't really found anyone that interests me that much so i just quit.
If someone wants me they can send the first message because i'm not searching through bunches of profiles anymore. |
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just moved to st. louis for school. maybe i'll have better luck here than in kentucky. probably not, but one can hope i guess. why cant i find anyone who makes my heart pound? someone with the character and personality that makes me want to give myself to them... i'm beginning to think its always just going to be a dream. |
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why do people think its okay to include their phone number with their first message, but at the same time they wont send a picture? there's something backwards about that. If you are wondering why i havent responded to a message you sent me, most likely it is because you dont have a pic and i get too many messages to respond to the ones that simply say "hi, wanna chat" if you really want a response, a real message and a pic will do the trick unless you are just plain creepy. |
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if for some reason you have the urge to message me criticizing me, my profile, or even my word choice, please note in advance that i dont care what you think. i'm tired of recieving random messages from jealous subs, and older men pissed about my age preferences. yes, call me shallow, call me a fake for specifying what i want and what im looking for and not getting on my knees for the first idiot who has the audacity to call himself a Master and expects immediate obedience from me simply because of the title he has given himself.
go ahead and lament the fact that you were born fifteen years too early and insist that i should really reconsider. you probably think you are the exception to the rule. more than likely youre not. you might feel like messaging me and telling me that as a sub i have no right to be selective or have certain specifications. Well guess what? i have them and im keeping them so save yourself some time and go bitch at someone who may actually care about what you have to say.
on a side note- if you do send me a nasty message it is the most cowardly thing ever to immediatly block me so i dont have the chance to respond. because i have some pretty choice things i could say to you and its just really sad that you will never get to find out what a complete waste of oxygen you are. |
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a note to those who respnd to my profile:
i really like chatting with people on here, but if you think that we may be some sort of match i AM going to ask for a picture. its a reasonable request. if you think this makes me stuck up or vain... well then i doubt we would get along very well anyway. |
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