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About Culam
We are looking for a submissive/bottom/slave/whatsit who is service-oriented, bisexual, and wants a couple of co-doms(tops/masters?). In addition to various other fun kinky activities, you would be asked for some household service--not necessarily our day-to-day laundry (unless that's *really* your thing), but some help before and after parties, for events, and for when one of us has had a seriously painful week. (OK, maybe also some help with the laundry. We never seem to get that all done...) Exactly what chores you hate/love/do/don't do and how often is all negotiable, with the exception of dog-care--you have to be up for walking/feeding/loving.
Enjoyment of banter is a must.
Finding us both amusing would probably also help.
We're both experienced and versatile doms with sensual, sadistic styles. Our particular fetishy loves include fire, piercing, breath play, and rough body play--but we get a lot of that out on each other, so for a third we're more interested in where we can take you mentally than in what exactly we can do to you. As long as you don't take yourself or us too seriously, enjoy at least a touch of mind-fuckery, and are happy to be out and about in the public scene, we could all probably have some fun. (Caveat; we're more sadist-and-power-games types than bondage types. We'd be happy to mummify you, electrocute you, beat you, whip you, bruise you, make you crawl, make you float, and make you cry--but while we can handle some practical rope tricks, we'll never give you a Midori tableau.)
We're both passionate and active in teaching and kink-community leadership and want someone who respects, if not shares, that passion--someone who would either hold their own positions of leadership or help us with our paperwork/event set-up/advertisement/brainstorming (or all of the above).
While addictions are a deal-breaker for us, we do go in for the occasional cigar and scotch--you don't have to share either, but if the smell of smoke makes you queasy, you won't be happy with us.
What we're explicitly looking for is an ongoing play relationship, but we wouldn't be happy if that wasn't paired with friendship--so, some breif bullet points about us: We're more punk rock and opera than pop, our house is full of books, we love sci-fi (but are well-closeted about it), and are known for asinine/fucked-up senses of humor. In our house, movies tend to get paused for happily-annoyed commentary on historical inaccuracy and character-stupidity. We love fine dining and culinary experimentation, but are also fiercely loyal to Kraft mac n cheese, tater tots, and our local neighborhood greasy spoon. We love going out, but we also love staying in (especially when it's cold)--preferably with friends, food, and bullshiting. And while we'd rather cheerfully claim misanthropy and assholery than admit this, we're deeply invested in the idea of community and loyalty to friends.
In the world of ideals and perfection and happy endings we'd like someone to long-term be part of our family and someday move in; but before that, we're looking for someone intriguing to experiment with and get to know. |
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