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	About cowgirlpride If its ment to be my life truly will not begin until the submissive void is filled. Together we create memories, walk the journey of life with each other, hand in hand and heart to heart. ? Your Domination.........my Reason for Being. Your Control...........my Security. Your Guidance...........my Happiness. Your Attention........my Breath. WE listen and communicate well. WE are worthy of the others trust. You give me rules and expectations. You LEAD I FOLLOW. We give, each to the other, love and companionship (and mind blowing orgasms). WE respect each other and at the end of the day WE naturally fall into a role to the other. I feel submissive to You and have a need to obey. You feel protective of me, a sense of Ownership over me, a determination to always guide and keep me safe/helping me to be the best that i can be and train me to be the woman that You want and need mentally, emotionally and physically. i need to kiss and hug just as much as i need to be spanked and disciplined and lets not leave out tied up and played with. Isnt that how its saposta be? I am as most people would say a very powerful, strong woman and i know it takes a very special man to make me happy. I am not like many others and its hard to find a man secure and confident enough to show me our way. Is he out there? Im sure he is , He just has not found me yet. I do have expectations and i play no games. Sum think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. I happen to know i have a nice lawn and i would not dream of fencing it in. Dreams do come true and why not reach for the stars. Behind every great man there stands a woman. I know what i want and will settle for nothing less. Take a chance im waiting. ? At the end of the day i need a Daddy/Dominant/Friend/Lover/Master/Partner/Rock (placed in alphabetical order) that ultimately seeks a long term relationship with one woman

I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best

"I feel more like I do now, than I did when I got here."

Well !!! I Did it. I put together my first case with out my lawyer AND I WON!
MY X inlaws are now the outlaws!
court is not over they filed appeals And new charges . but that 2 lower courts on my side.

Get over it! YES I LEFT YOUR perfect SON!
DONT you get why ! obsessive freaks leave me alone!

~~@
I am so damn smart @~~


	I believe that true submission requires a deep mental connection with a dominant partner and that there has to be an exchange of energy that takes both the dom and sub to new heights. It is not about roleplaying...its not about sexual acts that are independent of this connection. This intense mental connection requires two people who possess the depth and intellect to reach these levels and become greater as a couple than they are as individuals.I?ve experienced great love, enormous loss and have gained a great appreciation for what matters most im my life. I am not without flaws, in fact some are more obvious than others, you will not find perfection here, but something much closer to authentic living. I don?t fear love and know what I offer that special someone. I do not know what my partner looks like but I know what he will feel like. I also know how he will make me feel.

Complex makeups, the trouble lies in finding the one person who can satisfy and complete us in just the right way so that his parts and her parts glide beautifully into one another creating endless possibilities toward ecstatic lustful perfection.

But what happens when you use comfort as an excuse to not move forward with your life

Well... Its over I am divorced...

I did OK .. with all things considering.
So i loose my house , my dream i built.
I wonder i give up so much to get away, Its a reallity slap to be so alone in one day.
Will i ever be happy alone?
It takes my breath away, what a terrable feeling.
Yet on the other hand i see such a big world and i am so excited to start over.
its a huge weight off my chest to after 3 years to be over.
Now i know i start to live.

Should I take interest in your query, we will share in-depth communication via email and then phone. During this time, there will be a very thorough screening and disclosure process. If you are unsure of or insincere in your interest to serve as a Dom/daddy, it will become apparent. If you are a self-consumed fetishist, club creature or general blockhead looking for an overglorified wife with a whip, I will know.

If you honestly feel you fulfill the qualities I have mentioned above in my profile, you are invited to send a query letter to Me and request a dialog. Your first message should be written with the utmost care. Mention that you are writing to apply as a prospective DOM, and describe yourself in a neatly written paragraph or two; I will ask for more detail later if I want it. Attach four photographs with this first message. Messages without photographs will go unread and will be deleted immediately.

Every time I log on, I open all these messages from people who seem genuinely interested in me as a sub or a sexual partner. Usually the first thing they point out is how pretty I am or how nice my pictures are.

They don't fail to point out that they find me interesting as a person or that they enjoyed my profile, but they usually say little else that grabs my attention or sets them out from the general group of people here.

It's not that I don't want to talk to them, it's just that they all seem to have one-track minds. Not that all they want from me is sex, but it's difficult to talk to them because I know they're interested in me in a way I'm not interested in them. its the whole package i want them to know.

I really do want to talk to these people and make some friendships, but it's difficult to do because at the same time I know I must first reject them. I don't know how to tell someone I'm not interested without cutting myself off from them completely. Often, I don't respond to these messages unless they actually offer up an actual conversation topic, and usually once that topic has died, a new one doesn't spawn.

Even when I do eventually find myself talking to someone on a regular basis through IM, I still feel trapped somehow... it's a feeling I'm not easily able to explain. I've met people I might actually like to meet in person, but I'm afraid that once I get to know them, I'll end up not liking them and unable to get rid of them. In my experience, due to the anonymity of the internet, and the lack of vocal tones, facial expressions, etc., people are much different in person than I ever perceive them to be on the internet.

The obvious solution would be to treat someone you meet in person as a brand new acquaintance. But even that is difficult, because the whole time I'm sitting there remembering past conversations we've had. Why is it so difficult for me to be comfortable around new people? I have no reason not to trust.
I wish there was someone who understood psychology well enough to get inside the enigma that is my mind.

I can't decide whether or not that should be a challenge to those who read this.

But the remaining fact is that I've never met anyone who could really understand and dissect everything that I say and do. Grain and chaff.
Everyone has a Watson to his or her Holmes, it seems, except for me.

gosh, i so sorry to have to tell you this, you would think that you would know the simple etiquette

you dont own me, yet;
so dont order me to suck this and stick that in my U ARE NOT MY DADDY/DOM! RESPECT!

if you have no picture: I'll assume you have something to hide and i dont want to know what it may be, so deleted and on iggy you are

Originality counts, impress me to undress me; cut and paste or send me the same note is not original thought.I also want more than a hello or a one liner. How can i count on a good experience if you do what you have always done before and she left you because of it..... deleted, too i'm afraid

Oh, and i like where i live, i have friends/Family here, snow and cold... so relocating for the one who makes my life better equals my ability to be naked all the time inside and outside year round....

and if all you want while your in town away from the ho-humm is a quickie..... call a prostitute for the real no string attached (NSA) girl friend experience (GFE), i can buy my own dinner and glass of Pinot Noir

look again i'm hot and even an ugly girl can get laid

what do you have to offer me, it is a competition, i want to make you look good when out, look in the mirror will you make me look fantastic or will they ask themselves while shaking their heads, "must have a hell of a lot of money to have her?"

i am submissive not a slave to the one i love, not STQQPID, yessss with two oh,s
i do so hope this will shed a little light on my wants and needs.

My life alone is as good as it needs to be. But it's nowhere near as good as it _can_ be, and why would I settle for something that falls so short of what I know is possible? For the most part, I see this world in which I live just as it is - and it's a fine world, an entirely adequate world. But why settle for an adequate life, when a life of transcendent meaning and scarcely imaginable bliss is achievable?

Because I also see another world, a world in which a woman can be the property of the man she loves, and be twice the man he was when he was free...

A world in which the concepts of "love" and "ownership" are so interchangeable as to be indistinguishable, and in which the term "absolute, unconditional devotion" means exactly what it says and nothing less...

A world in which complete trust and complete safety can be found only in an atmosphere of complete vulnerability

A world in which the application of discipline by the woman is considered by both parties to be an act of the greatest love and respect, and in which the service of the man is regarded as the same..
A world in which it is just as natural for a woman to train her man like an animal as it is for the two of them to cuddle in front of a campfire or laugh at a movie or go hiking in the mountains together, and in which both parties are every bit as comfortable together in one instance as they are in the others.

And I know from sweet experience that it's possible to live in both worlds at once. I've lived in that other world before, and I want to go back and stay forever - but I can't go there alone. Neither can you. That's just the way it works. If you, too, want to live the rest of your life in that larger world, you need to find someone with whom to share the journey. And I might be that woman.

If you were to turn my own question back on me, and ask me how much _I_ really want, the answer would be - I want it all. I know that I'm asking for a great deal, and that it will be very difficult for me to find the right man.
Frankly, I'm not expecting to find him - at least not any time soon. If I don't, I'll still have a wonderful life by myself, but it would be many times more wonderful if I have someone with whom to share it. So here I am. If what I've written here doesn't connect with you at all - if it just sounds like garbage - then we're not right for each other. But if you read my ad and get the feeling that you're the one man in the universe I was writing to - then perhaps you are.
There's only one way to find out for sure.

When you stare deep into the abyss, what is it - exactly - that stares back at you? Do you know the answer to that question? Is your life a constant quest to discover the answer, or is it more a desperate struggle to avoid it? Do you reach out to touch what gazes back at you from the bottomless blackness of your soul, to embrace it perhaps - or do you turn to hide or even run from it? If you're thinking of replying to my ad, this is perhaps the most important question to consider first.

Another question to consider would be - how much do you want? I don't just mean how much do you dream about or how much do you fantasize about having... I mean, how much of what you fantasize about do you really _want_ to have? And when I ask that question, I'm not just talking about your sexual fantasies - your sexual desires are only one aspect of your hidden desires, one facet of that perfect diamond that shines so brightly in your deepest dreams. I mean that if your dreams could all come true, would the reality born of those dreams be a world you could be happy in, or would you be frightened by the differences between that world and the one that you live in now?

Another question to consider might be - are you comfortable with who you are and looking forward to seeing who you're going to become?

And perhaps the last question for you to consider would be... is this lifestyle a children's game to you, or is it quite literally at the very heart and soul of who you are? Do you have the courage to chain another human being's heart, and keep it chained to yours for better or worse?

You don't necessarily need to know the answers to each of these questions, but the man I'm looking for is probably going to be someone who has at least considered them, and who is at peace with the answers he's found. Notice that I'm not specifying what those answers need to be. For the most part, the answers don't matter so much as the asking. If you've asked, and you're still reading this ad, then we've probably arrived at pretty similar answers.

Im there at your feet. so fearful so weak and tender,tired i cant remember when the last time i had been held and loved . to be tossed food only when she has had her fill.
You find me kennel in a dark room feet sore from the cages she kept me in. memories of a life i though i would never see dayligte.
I was the pet she never loved,i had a place .. and no reason..

~He found~ me picked me up and looked into my eyes.
oh the love and sadness he seen in those brown eyes broke his heart.
he held me so close the way he loved me the way he stroked me and loved me all night long that first night he found me.
the dreams he told me about, he had for us.
already i can see i am his . he will love me and care for me forever.
i will run free and he will always be there to take me home. and love me for all that i brough to him that day when i tell him of my happyness to be with him.
Kabo

~Mo Anam Cara~

Andromeda

by James Hunter

Andromeda was the daughter of Cepheus and Cassiopeia, king and queen of Ethiopia. Cassiopeia boasted that her daughter was more beautiful than the Nereids, and in revenge Poseidon sent a flood and a sea monster to plague the land. When Cepheus consulted the oracle of Ammon he was told that the problem would end if he exposed his daughter as prey for the monster. His people forced him to comply with the oracle, and he chained Andromeda to a rock by the sea. She was rescued by Perseus who killed the monster and married Andromeda. One of their children, Perses, became the ancestor of the kings of Persia.
a though to ponder

I like sooo many things. I will try almost anything at least once. Then decide if i'll do it again :) I dont dwell on regrets, its a waste of time. Get up, brush yourself off, learn from your mistake, and move on with your life.
""I may not be perfect...but parts of me are pretty awesome""

_you know you own me...... All of me, you are the one! You set me free, and in doing so.........know that I will return ever more yours and all the more loving and giving..... I am happy to be urs....... Waiting is nothing, for in the end it will be all that more enjoyable...... :)When Im taken by you........

Explorer - 29% of your personality

Known for high energy, high creativity and spontaneity. Seeks novelty, risk and pleasure. Intellectually curious and not easily swayed by opinion.

Builder - 23% of your personality

Usually very popular. Deep attachment to home and family. Calm demeanor and low anxiety. Often consistent, loyal and protective.

Negotiator - 24% of your personality

Excels at seeing the big picture, long-term planning and consensus building. An intuitive thinker who is flexible, verbal and socially skilled. Imaginative, empathetic and nurturing

Director - 22% of your personality

Daring, original, direct and inventive. A non-conformist. Skilled at abstract thinking and short-term planning. Often assertive and quite competitive. Tough-minded and efficient.You are an EXPLORER/negotiator

You are a highly spontaneous person who always likes to try new things. Novel and unpredictable situations don't bother you; instead you find them challenging and exciting. You tend to be focused and resourceful and you are able to juggle a lot of projects at the same time; as a result you are sometimes a whirlwind of activity. You have a firm grip on reality and enjoy living in the present tense. But you have a keen imagination that enables you to lift off from time and space to be remarkably creative. You are humorous. You are able to laugh at yourself, and you like entertaining others. You have a deep sense of compassion. You can show genuine insight into the needs of others; you are good at listening and talking; and you express a genuine desire to be helpful. Yet you are easy-going. Your tolerance for others and their beliefs, your lack of prejudice, your ability to compromise and your occasional antics make you popular with others and a great companion.
I took this test and I think it describes me to a T. So I wanted to share it with ya all

At the end of the day i need a Daddy/Dominant/Friend/Lover/Master/Partner/Rock (placed in alphabetical order) that ultimately seeks a long term relationship with one woman

?Love? is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.

I believe the basic nature of a woman is to be wise, a care-give and compassionate. I make no apologies for my views.
I also recognize there are exceptions to this, within both genders. Some men are weak, soft, and submissive. Strong, alpha men sometimes possess inherantly female qualities, such as great empathy and compassion...nothing wrong with that. Some women are strong, dominant and agressive. Plenty of sweet, gentle women have the capacity to be competitive, hard nose bitches when there is call for it. Nothing wrong with that, either.
However, by and large, I stand by my original believe regarding gender-roles. That is also, my only reason for labelling myself a 'switch'.
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very well though out profile and feeling why am i still single i am aked more times than not.
I am single for 1 simple reason i belive in dreams and i will settle for nothing but perfection in the Dom i choose. 9 Words Women Use

1.) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are
right and you need to shut up.

2.) Five Minutes : If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour.
Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more
minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3.) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing
usually end in fine.

4.) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

5.) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an
idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)

6.) That's Okay : This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7.) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome.

8.) Whatever: Is a women's way of saying FUCK YOU!

9.) Don't worry about it, I got it : Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking "What's wrong?" For the woman's response refer to #3.

I guess i dream I do belive my dream will come true.
I am here and i will wait for you.I will take good care of you when u come home to me.
My KING my Dom spoil me worship me miss me fill me let me feel you.
Take my hand

Ah what a day...
I sit here on a cold minnesota winter -10 below temp outside. think its -32 with windchil
Just brough in a load of dried oak I split this morning to warm up the house i built. I have my animals outside all water /fed and my boy locked snuggled in his box. he is out of the skin freezing cold. i miss our times together in the warm sun. safe laying on him as we stroll thru green clover. the smells of the flowers as you carry me thru them eyes closed trusting you would never hurt me. to enjoy all sences.
I wonder will i ever feel this feeling again?
I lay here snuggled on my couch watching the fire crackle alone.
The warm house empty and alone .
Me Alone on the couch with only my dogs and horses to keep me company.
oh yes by the way your naughty i was talking about my horse in my letter.
hence my point ? Where are you and why have u not found me yet?

I can?t help now but wonder how to help u see what my brown eyes concealing, thru love we feel we are greater than we know...

our body close together our hearts pounding like wild with excitement dare I say it Love then we will ride off in glory until our time is done and u will be my hero my cowboy in the sun.

I guess im a hard person to make happy.
I look to the new year in hopes for a new start.

Give me your hand ~ Make room for me to lead and to follow you beyond this rage of poetry ~Let others have privacy of touching words talk of love of loss of love.. For me?~ Give me your hand

Spiritual & Sexual Orientation: Looking vanilla on the outside, while exploring alternative type experiences, within the privacy of our own confines, would be ideal?In that, strong and unconventional sexual orientations. Extreme, but not illegal. Seeking a Dom, who can evolve with me spiritually, to a place fueled by erotic intimacy and expansion of boundaries...Psychological and sexual charged experiences that constantly seek movement to the next level of intensity are a MUST!!! My limits must constantly be pushed and challenged!!! Being logical and sane, preventing emotional and physical harm to anyone is a boundary I maintain...A Dom must be equipped to temper, restrain, praise and punish, evaluating when pain must play its part...All types of control, mind play, and understanding of the charged psycho-sexual underpinning of a D/s dynamic are critical to me. Among the broad spectrum of a D/s dynamic, the physical attribute is just one extension. In that, I seek a complete and integrated D/s dynamic, encompassing cerebral and spiritual extensions as well. Ultimately, I seek a permanent D/s relationship with one master.

Ideal Soul Mate: Please be Local to Tri State..Would move to be by him if he was the right Dom`
Desirous of a strong directing force in my life. An extremely strong experienced Dominant who can truly handle me and reduce me down to a raw primal place of surrender. Please be a non smoking, SWM seeking a monogamous LTR. Not into Poly. Please be unmarried, powerful, and self assured. Please be formally educated and professionally inclined, legally single and emotionally available, financially established with well developed sense of self. Emotional and psychological integration are critical. Integrity is essential to intensity and intimacy?Please make sure your values align with mine. Strong preference toward self-actualized men with intense conviction, fierce unrelenting type personality, who command attention with their mere presence; men who are not threatened by a strong independent woman but instead support that attribute. Looking for a real time, seasoned Dominant who seeks true sub to train, cherish and love, not slave to abuse. Looking for an extremely profound and spiritual connection. A Master to whom which, eventually, I can lay my soul down to. Please be consistent with me and that will happen. Please be single -- not married, not separated, divorced (min -3 yrs.), not attached to a former lover, but truly SINGLE...

Jodi...Minnesota, USA...Single, Very happy...Financially independent, 1 teenage child, legally single, smoker, tall, slim, leggy, novice submissive SWF born and raised in Minnesota lived in many other states New York, Vegas, Texas. Former underwriter in downtown financial district now Commercial Real Estate investor & Equity Syndication. Strong by day but sub by night, whom needs to relinquish power. Brunet curly long hair, dark brown eyes, olive dark skin,eye catching smile, Dimples 5'6. 125, 34B/C, tall, thin, leggy, curvy and extremely femme. Independent by day...By night, 100% sexual sub femme ?On the outside: elegant and evolved... On the inside: emotional and sexual, erotic, yielding sub for one Daddy/Dom, serving with erotic angle....Real Time Sub who has authentic desire to serve sexually & spiritually, achieving fulfillment on various levels; cerebral, psycho-sexual and spiritual... Extremely sensual and sexual, open and erotic, addicted to sex with the appropriate Dominant!!! Very comfortable engaging my own sexuality.

I seek a permanent D/s relationship with one master.

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If it can't be done legally in a busy cafe, I'm not interested. Sorry.
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I want my Dom to feel my power/passion and live thru it.
Is he not saposta be so storng and secure in himself ? My dreams only fuel his passion .
i want him to feel joy and passion when i excell and become a better person .
I do not want to be punished or put down for wanting or needing. I want to be herd!
Why would you want me to walk behind you.
show me off .
Let me walk next to you under your arm . Be proud of what you have won.

Well if im going to find him i guess i have to keep track of my lessons learned.
I went out for my first meet in a small town bar/dinnerclub. I drove 50 miles to find he lived in that town.
good to know he went out of his way!
i was on time he walked up behind me 15 min late and asked that we leave and go to a more quiet location. (hello?) i said no we r here only for a few beers i have to catch a buisness flight at 7 am so this was a simple hello .
We walked to a table in the far off corner.
i had ice tea he drank 3 beers. half way thru he finaly lookes into my eyes askes me to remove my bra. i chuckled in amazement. this man could not look me in the eyes thinks im going to leave with him the first 10 min i meet him and with in 30 min he thinks im going to remove my bra .
i smiled holding back the nasty words i wanted to say to this punk who at the end of our short date . tells me im not a sub im to strong headed and opinionated. i disobeyed /disapointed him and more or less begged me to go to his house .
so he could show me how he wanted me to behave.
what i got out of this date:
a strange man emails me on a bd/sm web page invites me out to a drink .
i drive 50 miles after dark to meet him half way. to find out He lives in this town . With in 10 min of meeting him i get an invite to come to his house so he can show me how he wants me to be... then tells me im messed up and not able to trust and i had the issues ..
mind u this was only going to be a first meeting .
Do women really go with men like this and wonder why they get raped and beat up?
He was a police officer ! and within 5 min I had A RED flag up?

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