CowboyVampyre

Welcome.

I INSIST on starting as Friends. That means getting to know each other on a social level first, whether that means good IM Chat, laughter-filled phone conversations, or enjoying coffee or a meal together. After that we can test the waters as Play Partners or with an introduction to light Formal D/s Etiquette & Training (i.e. learning how My Style of D/s works). Should that go well then we can begin to discuss diving in deeper and exploring the luxurious waters of a Long Term, Collared, Master & slave relationship.

I STRONGLY prefer to have at least one webcam chat before we meet.

I play on many levels, from mild Role Play and Bondage fantasies, to all levels of S&M Play from light to intense, to your deepest, darkest dreams of being Utterly Dominated and Totally Controlled, and onwards to the far reaches of Edge Play.

I am 100% STD-Free. You must be too, enjoy practicing Safe Sex, and you should have been tested A-Z in the last 12 months or less.
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There are two KEY qualities that my submissive partner must have if she seriously desires to become my Long-Term, Collared Slave (and not just a Play Partner):
-- The first quality is a beautifully submissive heart that is so strong that only Serving her Master and being Owned will make her feel fulfilled with life and with herself. Fetish Submission comes NATURALLY to this woman, fulfills her, and she is absolutely in her element being thus, like a flower in the perfect soil. She desires to see her Master smile, and that desire truly comes from within her Heart. Her submission is humble and lady-like, and even in the tiniest moments and in the smallest gestures, her submissive heart is gracefully apparent. Her spirit is nonetheless STRONG and as such she embraces the exceptional strength gained by submitting to One Person and not the whole world.
-- The second quality is plainly and simply that she must be a woman who fills me with DESIRE, a woman who can get me aroused merely when I cast a glance at her. HOWEVER, it is not just a physical attraction that I am talking about -- it MUST be MENTAL as well. I must know that she is getting off on all the wild BDSM adventures we are having, that they really flip her switch just as much as my own.
The Mental-Psychic-Emotional-Personal connection must be so strong that all sexual activities between myself and my sub automatically contain that bond, and in every erotic moment, no matter how much our flesh is alive and singing, that mental-erotic bond is just as tangible, just as present.
Add the two together -- the mental-erotic bond and the pure submissive heart, and you have a description of exactly who I am ultimately looking for, to Collar and to Own. :-)

I have been doing this for over 20 years (I started young with Bondage and Role Play), and ALWAYS as a Dom / Top. IT IS WHO I AM; It Is In My Soul. I have been using the Tools and Toys of more Formal S&M (floggers, whips, paddles, etc) and training slaves for more than 10 years.
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You should seriously enjoy BONDAGE as that is my absolute forte'. I have also always enjoyed Role Play since this too was an element of my Fetish since day one. I have a Very High Libido -- always have, always will, and no I don't use Viagra (don't need to).
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These are my LIMITS and / or crucial information about me:

1) I LOVE Night-Life. I am EXTREMELY naturally Nocturnal -- I thrive after the sun goes down.

2) I LOVE Traveling. I have seriously explored and / or at least set foot in 5 continents so far, and I intend to do all 7.

3) You MUST have an overall Happy and Positive, Upbeat, "CAN-DO" attitude.

4) A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR is a MUST as well. Don't be surprised if my own “oh-so-serious” side suddenly gives way to downright goofiness!

5) I am NOT interested in pursuing anything serious with you if you:
-- are a pessimist and prefer to be negative about life
-- are a bible-beater OR if you have the word "satan" anywhere in your profile
-- are on prescription anti-psychotic or anti-depressant medications
-- are a self-cutter
-- are currently in a serious relationship with another man
-- are older than me unless I contacted you first
-- are any taller than 5' 9"
-- have any kind of eating disorder
-- need to drink alcohol every day or night
-- do any drug that goes up your nose (or anything harder!)
-- are any kind of heavy smoker
-- are a militant feminist who refuses to wear high, STILETTO heels

6) You MUST be Height-Weight Proportionate (HWP).
-- At 5 feet tall the IDEAL FITNESS weight for the "AVERAGE" woman is 100 lbs.
-- For every inch above 5 feet add 5 lbs.
-- HEALTHY AND PHYSICALLY FIT IS THE MOST SEXY.

7) FLAKINESS
Straight-up: If you think its ok and / or cool to be some pseudo-free-spirit who makes plans and cancels without notice thinking that irresponsibility is a great way to live and treat people, then we will definitely NOT get along. I have a VERY LOW TOLERANCE FOR FLAKINESS. Flakes are a Dime a Dozen and as common as dirt – I am not interested in meeting just another one of the mediocre masses – I seek the exceptional and I expect anyone I am interacting with to be high quality. You cannot be a Flake and also be high quality – it’s one or the other. _______________________

EDGE PLAY:
Are you a Edge Player? Do you feel that romance within D/s is without a doubt a wonderful experience, yet there is still that lingering sense that your limits have not been pushed as far as you really want to go?

No, Edge Play is NOT the same thing as knife-play. Edge Play is about INTENSE scenes -- not necessarily painful, and not necessarily scary -- but always having a distinct heat and VERY tangible intensity. Edge Play scenes take MUCH more thought and planning on the part of the Dom, and good Edge Playing Doms are VERY hard to find. I have been enjoying the creation of incredible Edge Play scenes (although ONLY when playing with someone who enjoys that level of play) for many years when all the pieces fall into place for such a rare scene. It is NOT part of my normal D/s Style unless you specifically show an interest and an aptitude for Edge Play.
Edge Play is about going to the very Edge of where you previously thought your limits were, whether those are mental, physical or emotional limits. If regular D/s and S&M are like having an exhilarating run on a beach, then a hot Edge Play scene would be like winning the marathon.
If you are reading this now and you consider yourself a submissive Edge Player then contact me and prepare yourself for some phenomenal scenes.

You work hard, you play hard, you take it to the Edge.
Someone once said that Edge Play is like the Fine Wine of S&M.....I concur.