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Male Switch, 18, naalehu, Hawaii
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Female Dominant, 63, Deltona, Florida
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Male Dominant, 48, Garden Grove, California
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About Coolbeans
Back on the market again and time to revamp my profile!
You'll find the original version of my profile below.
The short version: Seeking lifetime commitment with a sensual strict extremely perverted yet loving and caring Lady.
The not so short version:
(you'll find my attitude about some things changed if you compare to the original profile below...)
Yes, i`m still looking for the love of my life, but i found out for myself that this might be a different kind of person than what i thought it would be...
Let me explain - Yes, there need to be emotions and chemistry to start of. And yes, i got hard limits. But besides that once commited consensual-non-consent makes sense. Slaves aren't born, slaves are molded to become what their owner wants.
Yes, i`m aware that many things will never being joy - but a domme should push those things making her slave accept it's their job!
And yes, i want a vanilla life with you too - anyways, vanilla to the ouside world is a must. Not just because of what people would think but to enjoy the time with your partner with all those nice things life has to offer.
Hard limits: Kids, animals (sad having to mention those two), dead, men, needles, knifes, bleeding injuries, extreme pain, public
Turn on's: (Not a experience list, but turn on's - and yes, i'm aware that most of those things aren't something i'll enjoy. But the joy would be doing it for my owner)
Being molded, a extremely pervert owner, rimming, feet, pussy and ass worship, humiliation, degradation, fisting, gaping, molded into a 2 hole-toilet, being permanently plugged - growing sizes, chastity devices, gags, masks, enemas, feminisation, forced rubber dollification - and you using and abusing me to your likes. Make me feel safe even you aren't accepting a no... yes, it`s that simple.
Maybe I look for things that i will deeply regret after I found them. Don`t know.
I dont have any prejudices about sexworkers (Prodommes and so on) - but after you've been reading until here i guess you have to agree that offering me sessions would be sort of ridiculous.
Feel free to get in touch! If i added you to my favourites this could have been for many reasons - nice interesting profile, kinky pictures or whatsoever.
If you only want friendship, fine with me. But in case you are looking for a relationship i prefer no eternal texting but meeting in reality within 4 weeks from initial contact.
GERNE AUCH IN DEUTSCH
Old Profile:
Yes, i'm insane enough to look for the love of my life on a SM Dating site! Yes, i'm talking about love, romance, caring for each other - but ... on the other hand with somebody being a ultimate pervert :-) This said it's time for 99% of you to quit reading, the rest is welcome to continue reading and/or get in touch!
I don't really know any longer if this is the right place to look what i'm looking for. Why that, you might ask? Well, i'm looking for a relationship, somebody to spent my life with instead of just having fun. Basically looking here is sort of a preselection since i want to have it kinky in my life - but not with anybody it must be Mrs. Right! I'm looking forward to spent a good life with a nice, caring and romantic person - obviously having a dark kinky perverted side. BUT bdsm isn`t the only thing in life being important!
Having special interests makes you look across borders, but to be realistic - all those nice chats with nice females on different continents ended with nothing so far. Not saying people from Overseas are a no go - but you should first think realisticly what the word relocation means to you and your social life before getting in touch with me.
To say the truth i don't even know if i should call me sub/slave since i`m pretty much alpha in my daily life. And yes, i`ve lived both sides allready and enjoyed them both. I think there is no 100% dom or slave - there are two sides to every coin. Yes, i could imagine switching in a relationship but that's not necessarly going to happen. Experience showed me that there is a huge dynamic in bdsm relationships anyways, you can't tell where it`s leading to.
Btw., sorry for my lousy english, but it's a few years ago i had to speek/write in english.
To answer a few questions I heared in the last few hours:
Yes, I could imagine to relocate, but not on the spot and facing the truth - with a 99% chance we would have a nicer life if YOU relocate since i got what i call a good life over here.
Yes, I am single, no kids, never married before
Yes, I am willing to go for SORT OFF 24/7 (meaning you allways have the power to put me in the slave role out of vanilla life - but you will never abuse this ability. Let me explain - you wouldn`t try to use this power during a argue in a vanilla situation or decisions we make together, but if you feel you need to piss during this argue you might tell me to lay down and swallow it. Got the point?)
Yes, some of you blamed me not being really a sub/slave - maybe you are right and I´m only a kinky pervert guy, guess that depends on the way you look at it.
Yes, I am willing to be trained as a full toilet - but not knowing if i`m able to do so!
Yes, I am straight
Yes, there must be at least sympathy so i can serve a lady, but actually i`m looking for more than only sympathy
Yes, you can visit me
Yes, i got long hair - so if your fetish is balled guys we aren`t a good match :-)
Oh - and btw .... it should be clear after reading this profile, just in case it isn`t ... if you are looking for a stable of slaves, we aren`t a good match.. |
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Strange. When people emphasize being demisexual it's almost 100% certain that they just want to decorate themselves with it because they are actually superficial. |
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Just because you are a domme and me being a sub/slave doesn't give you the authority to take my submission. It needs to be earned. |
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