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I'm a full-fledged, multi-dimension man looking for friends and a play partner. Chemistry and intensity matter more than age or looks. I'm divorced, and open to whatever develops, from casual friendship to something deeper. BDSM isn't the center of my existence, yet it turns out that without that element in my life, some vital part is missing. Humor and empathy are big parts of my make-up, and there's no contradiction between that and being dominant with a willing woman. I have lots of BDSM experience (and a bag full of toys to prove it). I enjoy a wide range of the typical BDSM activities --- but what matters most is the unique interaction between partners -- so with a woman who loves blindfolds, for example, I'd love to incorporate that in our play, while with a woman who hates them, I wouldn't care about blindfolds at all. In other words, the specifics of what turn me on varies with what turns my partner on. It's the overall power exchange that floats my boat more than being hung up on some specific activies. So by all means -- tell me what turns you on, and I'll tell you what turns me on, and if there's sufficient overlap --- YAY! A certain amount of paradox comes along with me: highly compassionate but delight in making it hurt so good; not concerned with superficials but appreciative of beauty in its many forms. More will emerge if you get to know me. One of my favorite quotes is "Nothing human is foreign to me" (Oscar Wilde). There's no substitute for good judgement, and I know when to be casual and funny, and when to be in control and intense. Exploring life is more fun with co-conspirator. Drop me a line and let's see if we want to play in the same sandbox!