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I’m an atypical computer geek. An over educated redneck that tried to conform to the corporate mold for a while... I run a business from my home, therefore my inclinations and the environment and circumstances lend themselves to a full time Dominant/submissive setting. Rules, restrictions, requirements, and repercussions. I'm patient, firm, kind, resolute, intelligent, imaginative, and kinky. I am single, without children and live in a log home up in the Sierra Nevada mountains, on a private road in the piny woods. I mean, there are a lot of very big trees. I cannot even see my neighbors' houses. I cannot hear them unless they have a chainsaw running or the like. It is walking distance to the national forest but too far to commute to the Sacramento suburbs or Reno, NV.
My previous slave was released so she could take care of family business. So, I’m looking for a female interested in lifestyle BDSM. Strictly speaking, a woman whose existence is limited by a well defined perimeter; physical and mental. A woman who is (or can be) orgasmic from a spanking, paddling, and/or flogging (maybe a few accessories added for spice). The absolute ideal will be a special combination of a naughty daughter, kinky secretary, overstimulated student, and pet. An enthusiastic, sensual, and submissive companion.
I am trying to find a woman with which to share this existence we call "a life". That is much easier said than done. Added to by the fact that I'm not enthusiastic about most "vanilla" scenarios, I'm not interested in most of the extreme forms or cruelty (a firm hand, indeed, but not one holding a bull whip), and that every person has a slightly different collection of characteristics, desires, and fantasies that have to intertwine to make a relationship work, the task becomes quite daunting.
I'll admit that physical attributes make a difference, but I'm looking for intellect first and foremost. Wearing a collar should not shut off the mind. Just because her nightgown will consist primarily of chromium plated chain does not mean that I want to share my bed with an imbecile. But, do not confuse intellect with schooling; I do not expect a masters degree or the like. Intellect is, in my opinion, a thirst for knowledge and a willingness to learn, participate, and strive. I will encourage furthering schooling. College, a second language, a musical instrument, or some other interest. However, if this direction is on your mind, you will be supported but, be aware that homework will be mandatory and will be reviewed. Grades are not important, effort will be required.
I believe BDSM, especially lifestyle BDSM, begins in the mind. The environment, regardless of setting, whether an apartment in the city or a secluded house in the woods, begins in the mind of the Dominant and has to be acknowledged by the submissive to be effective and fulfilling. Something unique to the people involved. A relationship that is mutually rewarding.
As for my concepts of TPE, the simplistic statement would be something like "I set the rules, she will obey them or face consequences". Of course, the simplistic is never satisfying nor even all that accurate. Her existence as my slave would be quite full of things for her to do. The vast majority of which would have a kinky twist. For instance, doing chores in and around the house wearing nothing but a gag and wrist/ankle restraints connected by chains. Housekeeping, gardening, etc. I do not believe in a “play space” or specific “play time”. Our existence together will be full time. People cannot turn the desires on and off with a switch.
There would be times for specific bondage oriented activities. It would be very entertaining dressing her up in a latex maid's uniform (or shibari body rope pattern), a gag, and other accessories to serve drinks and hors d'oeuvres to a few like minded friends invited over to watch a movie or some sporting event on the television. Hanging her between a couple of trees well off the beaten track in the national forest for a flogging would be quite fascinating. Then having her "cool off" in one of the alpine creeks or lakes. How about a picnic? Summer in the mountains is quite pleasant.
Historical notes: I started in the central valley of California, moved to the mid-west with my parents, worked on the farm down the road, attended Univ of Mich, started in the direction of Architecture and Civil Engineering but ended up in Systems Engineering (computer hardware/software) and Mathematics. I've ridden motorcycles since I was 14 and have owned a street bike continuously since I was 18. My father, brother and I shared a love of old cars and when dad passed I inherited a couple nice ones and a couple "projects". I developed a love for places far away from the big city. Over the years, my job has required me to work in cities; Detroit, Anaheim, Los Angeles, San Jose, etc. I was never comfortable in a big city. I now own a business and live in the wilder part of California, where there are four seasons and a little elbow room.
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