03nov12 updated my profile, took out the information about my sadistic side; it was causing too much confusionand lead to mostly reactions of submissives. 

So, to further clarify: yes I do have a sadistic side, no it hardly ever comes out and it does not  surfaces around someone I consider my dominant. I cannot switch like that.

You are either my owner, my god, my everything    or   you are a chaste human cashmachine shivering at my feet hoping for attention. I am unable to accept both roles in the same person