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Hetero Male Submissive, 61,  08349, New Jersey
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Looking for a smart, strong woman who knows want she wants, and asks for it (or tells me to, in the right context.) Notice, please: I'm no kind of slave, and not a "true submissive". Would like to be treated to regular trips over the knee, for all the reasons one or both of us come up with, but not neglecting because you can, because we both know I need it, or "just because." Lots of other things under the umbrella of the woman taking charge of the situation would be agreeable, but would rather correspond to discuss specifics. Aside from these prefs, I'm a more-than-average articulate guy, have a few ideas in my head, and have a romantic heart, even if I don't wear it on my sleeve except in private. Love classical music, smooth jazz, opera. I'm a fair cook. Not a sports fan, and don't dance. Non-smoker and seek same. (Greenstreet) You're talking to a man who likes talking to a woman who likes to talk to a man.(/Greenstreet)












 Submissive Male


 New Jersey

 5' 7"

 175 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women

Female Led Couples



 Being massaged

 Being spanked by you

 Classical Music



 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries


 Fine Dining

 Going to the Opera





 Anal Play (Beginner)


 Being allowed to give you massages

 Being allowed to use a vibrator on you




 Comedy Shows



 Opera Music




 Board Games

 Science Fiction

 Blue Grass

 Folk Music

 Rock Music

 Curious About:

 Body Worship

 Canes and Crops (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community

 Medical fetish play




 Clothing Selection

 Role Playing

 Speech Restrictions

 Theatrical Scenes

 Wax Play

 Country Music



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Housework Service

 Masks on Partner

 Hard Limits:






 Corner Time

 Electrical Play

 Genital Punishment

 Domestic Service

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Fire Play


 Gas Masks

 Hair Pulling



 Masks (Wearing)

 Modern Primitivism


 Sensation Play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Sensory Play

 Suspension Bondage

 Hip Hop Music



 Computer Expert

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Journal Entries:
1/11/2011 3:09:49 PM
Not suffering any dyspepsia from eaten words, so far. For some reason that baffles me, most of the views my profile gets are from men. I think nothing in my profile indicates I'm bi or gay. I guess the same sort who pick up a book and look at all the pictures, skipping the text, are well-represented here. (/snark) How 'bout a woman who's older than thirty, weight-to-age ratio less than 8, not demented with excessive, exaggerated self-esteem, and likes spanking a vulnerable man? Other activities negotiable, of course. Yeah, might as well pray to Osiris.

6/19/2010 9:05:41 AM
I'm close to despairing of the possibility of connecting with anyone whose conversation wouldn't be an embarrassment in front of high school graduates.  Unless there's just something about the written word that dumbs people down.

I hope to be proven wrong.  If a person whose personal preferences are compatible with mine contacts me, and shows some wit and an ability to draft two sentences without sounding like a dope, I'll be glad to retract my comment.

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