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A riding crop and a blindfold doesn't make it BDSM. There is a big difference between being kinky and being in the scene. It's not a sexual thing to me, it's a very spiritual thing. When the combination of all needs are met through the Dominant mind, the true satisfaction of the submissive need is met from her strengths to endure, to overcome and to heighten her every sense of being.
8/13/2013 5:52:07 AM

Any man can grab a woman by her hair. Throw her onto the bed and rip her clothing off. Sure, he can tie her up, call her a ‘bitch’ or a ‘slut’, and have rough sex with her. But that’s not dominance...that’s rough sex, maybe even violent sex. And if she’s into it, it can even be fun. But that’s still not true dominance.
True dominance is the ability to whisper softly into her ear and observe as she obediently removes her clothing. Methodically...one piece at a time. Watching as she kneels before you offering her entire self to you. Willingly, without hesitation or reservation. She will show you her most vulnerable self without embarrassment or shame. And you will know that nothing makes her happier, then making you happy.