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	About candyslave Married and collared to my D/s Daddy Dom. Seeking lifestyle others for friendly dinners/scenes/ friendships. We are a D/s couple. Laid back, comfortable and secure are words that describe us and we seek others from a similar leather reference. i love to travel, and would love to travel with another lifestyle, female other ... makes things interesting when we have so much in common, regardless of whether you are a Top or a bottom, but, i only travel alone with females.... Dom's orders.. not mine (wicked grin, lol).. thank You for looking and Have a kinky day, smiles... candy masochist in Greenwood advocate for masochism as a sexual preference- not a disorder

my status in 2007:
happily owned by Dominant, Master, and Husband... and He came about in that order. First my Dom, then my Master, and finally Husband.

In seven years we have had a few rough spots, but, time together has fine tuned our relationship and our dedication to one another.

He is the only thing in life i am sure of and can really count on to be there in the long run.. above all, He is by my side and supporting me as i am at His feet with my forever devotion to Him.

Happy 2007 Everyone!

Merry Christmas to All and hope we all have a happy and peaceful new year

2007 is an entirely new year for us to grow or let it pass us by

.. up to you ::cough:: and me, smiles..

here is to new experiences in whatever form they may come, and enjoying them, from our deserts to our beaches

or a kinky scene or two...

Happy Holidays and Happy New Year to All!

Dark outside.
Without sun.
Damp and dank.
Turn up the heat..
It's Thanksgiving week!

Happy Thankgiving!

Thanksgiving week...

Happy Thanksgiving Folks !

from Sir and myself ....

Tell me where i want to be:
always down upon my knees

Silky skin
i love for you to take my silky skin and make it black and blue again.

Things i love:
1. love to be made to crawl
2. want you to take my priviliges
3. want to take your painful ways
4. love humilation
5. love forbidden things
6. the smell and feel of leather
7. needle play
8. unusual play
9. weights and clamps
10. time to play

UNTIMELY PASSING

When a leader is gone,
the followers cry,
friends ponder why while
families grieve.
a kind of fog..

Soon you realize their was
nothing you could have done.
Pain's intensity only truly known by that one..

The one now gone and
answers with Him,
He feels no more pain
while all forgive Him.

Now in an easier place,
His questions answered
as He explores His new space.

He forever looks down
with a heart of love
the very angels
we need from above.

Watching out for you,
a saving grace,
His arms always around You
God's saving grace.

Fear not the unknown
it's not your place,
when it's time
You will be met with a welcoming face..

Until then, be dear,
continue on
as if He were here..

Nothing is in vain, neither is this,
Your heart never heals without acceptance of His will.. it was His will..

You want to argue and question when in the end, forgiveness occurs and He will always be missed.

Those that are missed in this way are the ones watching over you in that everyday.

May God Bless You All that feel left behind,
Gather together and remember happier times.

Strength rallies in numbers,
family and friends all mourn as one,
all joined together in the loss to overcome.

Let us remember He had many good days,
remember to celebrate the wonders of His ways.

(in peace to a leader gone and his family left behind, may you all find peace..)

With deepest regrets,

candy,
masochist in greenwood

i haven't seen some old friends in a while, i guess when it gets cooler, i'll seek out a friendly munch.. maybe meet some new people too.

I'm in battle right now tho, with my weight.. still haven't lost that weight i gained when i was depressed last year and broke my right arm, hand, and wrist.. sighs..

i guess the doc will give it to me next week, hell, gastric bypass me/band surgery, i'll drop the weight and get skinnie ... that should make my dom happy and myself too... but, i still will have to work out.. and that seems to be the main problem, low activity levels.. maybe i should go to a fat camp..

To all my friends i haven't seen, i miss You All...

kisses,
candy,
masochist in greenwood

Wow! What a hot summer... whew....

i love it hott!!

candy
hott masochist in sc

Confused States of Mind
When you are safe, warm and dry it is easy to look back, in retrospect, and see how precarious a situation you were in.. alone in a lifestyle for a while leaves a submissive very vulnerable to predators in the lifestyle.

Submissives need to stick together, work with others to form safe networks, safe calls for meets *always* and understand limits are discussed before you are bound and naked ::coughs:: i knew some doms in safe networks too, domme's too... and if that safe call didn't come in.. the authorities were alerted...

Take your play seriously, remember your actions are with you for the rest of your life molding your future.

i am marked for pain, i have people ask to permanantly mark me a lot, twice today from two different men.. with a special thanks to us painslutts that take the hardknocks of the trade, like when i thought i had cancer from tit torture.. and they still watch them, and they are still tortured.... but, painslutts that are marked for pain seem to catch a tougher gig... but, hey, such as life..

in leather,
candy
masochist in greenwood

Back in the Collar Again..

i'm back in my Husbands collar again...

Since 2000 we have been trying to figure this out...

After leaving and being in dangers way, being home again, is where i plan to stay.

We are taking it slow, and learning our way again... but a team and together once again..

on bended knee, i returned...

i want to publically thank Him for His patience, support, and answers when i became confused... always my anchor..

Thank You Sir,
candy

When a submissive or slave loves a Master or sister sub, and they move on... the love remains in the soul of that submissive.

The heart and soul cry for what could have been and the dimension they have lost when that person exited their life.

But, life goes on, after loss, after love, and after someone you love move on.

Try to be happy in your heart for them, not resent them, but, love them for continuing to find their eden, their jewel, their rock.

Kiss their feet, wish them the Irish prayer, and pray to find peace in your own heart of hearts.

When they are gone, they are gone, and be happy for them.

I can honestly say, anyone i met in r/t that scened with me, or me and Husband.. You are missed, and will always be a part of either His or my mind.. and heart.. tho my heart is a lot softer than His..

If i never met you in r/t.. such as life.. it probably wasn't meant to be.. or maybe that special meet is just around the corner..

asta la vista... such as life.

kisses,
candy

Happy Daddy Dom Day!

Happy Father's Day to my Daddy Dom Husband. Thank You for Your training, guidance, and allowing me to explore and make my own mistakes... and helping me sort it out when i needed your support and guidance. Without You, nothing would be possible... You are my rock, my life, and my everything..
candy, your wife, and submissive always... our collar is always understood..

kisses feet...

A Garden of Eden

i have loved and i have lost...
Have been lied to, spit on, pissed on, sold Out, and left cold..

Deceived, denied, derailed, but not Destroyed...

Wanting more, receiving less, loving Intensely, losing deeply and finally Breathing...

Once again...looking back, not knowing Where, missing time, knowing now you Were never mine nor i yours .... it was due Time ...

Endings come for us all, sooner or later, we Must fall .. fall from grace, fall from love, a Certainity gaurenteed from above... from a Book so old... a doctrine decreed .. that will Always be to measure our needs... direct Our desires, and marks our deeds ....

We are assured we will have our end, the Final dance, when the lights dim..They will Be waiting, on the other side ... never to be Alone this time..

In a D/s heaven full of Doms and subs, in An order pre established that only we know as one... in our garden of Eden.. it is not an End.. But a place where desire rules Hedonistic whims ...

Where we will innately feel our place, our Role, and our reason for which our true Being exists.. finding freedom ... in our Garden of Eden...

An ominius end?

candy

wanna dance? says the masochist to the sadist... and let the festivities begin...

Masochism can take you to a submissive place, but being a submissive is not necessary to be a masochist.

Service is honorable, serving is rewarding, finding freedom in being owned isn't rare... it's the diamond in the rough that service fine tunes.

Memories fade, and emotional pain helps you grow... let the bitterness fade,
findyour submissive space again. Become improved from your pitfalls you over came in your journey.

Let your strength pull you through to the next phase of this strange life we navigate through at times and soar at others.

i see "big men" on here saying "NO BBW'S" and i laugh as i wonder if their fat ass has looked in the mirror, and how their search is going..

i see ads advertising for "prostitutes" an illegal activity in and of it's self, and we wonder why lifestylers get a "bad wrap".

i have even heard there is a disproportionate amount of "big women" on here..and in the lifestyle in general... and i can't help but wonder how many of the men have little cocks... all the "little cock" men and how suddenly their five inch cock grows to seven in a couple of seconds on ads in text alone... but, knock a woman a little over weight.... ::laughs:: does size matter... you better believe it, and it goes both ways, smaller women, bigger cocks...if you are lucky you will get a positive corelation.. so stop whinning big, fat men... laughs... women can lose weight, you are right, but, you can't pump a couple of inches on that cock of yours, can you??

I couldn't be a femme, bc i really think i could crush balls... bc some men actually think they are Gods, and i believe, we, as submissive women, help feed that myth...

just my own personal observations... and desperate acts... rolling eyes...

ohhh.. and if you were on my friends list with the little smilie face chat... and i don't speak to you in weeks, months, or you don't answer off lines.. i clean the friends list out every few months, and i think it's empty now... maybe i talk to real selfish, me oriented others... but, i'm the kind of girl that just turns the page... if they speak in the future, good, if not... if it doesn't rain before i see them, piss on them, laughing again... bc you can't control what others do, ooo unless you are that incredible dom or perfect sub.... and i'm not even in the sub category at present (but i bet i didn't have to tell you that..).

Sometimes, in order to "not"love,we hate.. a defense mechanism we use.. or maybe you just love to hate... hmmm..in that case, you are probably just an ass... .how easily we lead our lives into booby traps of electrical emotions... bound to leave scars...

wow, wish i could find that submissive space again... maybe it's gone now... and i AM ready to start crushing balls, for cash, no sex, that makes it legal, right?? i
certainly have plenty of unused leather, bondage furniture and equipment...... lol... think it's my mood... i do ::giggles::

i guess i would have to buy a few of those cock cages tho... first thing... cause i have had a lot of men really piss me off lately, and i saw a man get raped the other night, an old movie scene we all know and love on deliverance... and it actually turned me on.... and i think it was seeing the humility of a man... not the unconsenting rape of course :(... but definately a new emotion for me upon seeing a man humilated.. maybe we do change in this lifestyle and our orientations are fluid and not stagnant... just thought for people that think...

if this blog offends you in anyway, feel free not to read it... i write what i feel, and half the time it's plagerised to other sites anyway...

in kink people..

candy

Happy May to You! Love spring, the warm sun and spring flowers... outside scenes, sun bathing nude... feeling the warmth of nature on your body.. rubbing the sensual oils sub bathers drench their hot bodies in...

ahh, wish i was at the beach... and it's raining today, but, we have had some gorgeous weather..

Life goes on, after wars, bad news, betrayals, life goes on...

You just have to know when a hand is done, and get the great dealer of life to deal you another hand... and play that one differently... if you play it the same way and expect a different result... that is insanity..

kisses in kink!
candy

geez, never had "poor" so effectively used against me as a manipulation.

It is a great moment when bullshit becomes perfectly clear, is it not?

Tip for the day: Do not get marred down in bullshit... there is an alternative, just sit back and watch it pile... shit that is... tends to pile up in one big dysfunctional pile...

and if anyone says, "I HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER YOU BUT MY SADISM, I AM A POOR ...." know they made choices and decisions in their life that put them where they are today... life in and of it's self, is a choice... it's not your fault, or responsibility to leave what you have worked for all your life to "fix" theirs.. (hint, they have decided not to further their lives but sit back and become bitter at those who do... and if they can tear that down, ooo how it makes their day..

i am beginning to believe there isn't love in this lifestyle, but users, even with the use is reciprocal, it is use none the less..
Peace out people!

You know what i am? a former masochist slave... isn't that a lot like a has been? feels like it to me....

things that make you go hmmmm....
or damn... lol

happy spring people!

Where Exactly is Your Kink Life

Loving men and really like women,
Making it fun and keeping it simple.

For all we need is some diversion
From a world devoid of enough Perversion,

Vanilla is creamy and but yet,
Variety is plenty, how many, should We guess?

Just want to keep it moving,
And free from daily crap...

Drama is draino that will clear
A pipe, do you let anothers interfere With your kink life?

Don't fall in, but think it through right..
Don't get sucked in and right down the pipe..

Where exactly is your kink life?

When all we want is to enjoy our Kink,
All the while knowing we share a Common link,

So may we all come together,
Not to judge, but to accept each other With an encouraging nudge..

From dom to sub and master to slave, Even players here have a place, Let's make it easy, We all have space.. have some great fun in a near by place.

Fun is fun and always near.. let us go Now so You may feel it, my dear.

As honor guides us and limits Expand.. Acceptance of others ways broadens and spans..

Add more cream and find your spice..

Where is it exactly is your kink life?

candy

Reality jolt:
From owned to betrayed:I am your Master, tell me all, show me where you keep your secrets, write ab your feelings and what you are, what you feel... it is your private space only we know about or some annonymous internet reader may stumble across and not know us...sharing all without restraint in a safe place blog... suffering after he said he wanted another and would seduce her... painful entries followed in this "safe place" blog..Then, the one he professed his commitment to me to secure as his own, from her owned Master of many years.. bc He didn't deserve her, according to him..Then, i was never measuring up, not as dedicated, pain loving, devoted, pretty, cute... on and on..trying to remain her friend with his constant berating seemed hypocritical.. so i asked her to try to understand i could not be her friend tho had the deepest respect for her..she fired off several posts on world wide sites.. negatively about me from calling me foolish to citing entire blog entries from other blogs on other sites... outing me every which way but loose... i don't know ab her, but i might have grandchildren to fight for one day, and don't need to have my neighbors and family know how much of a service pig i am.. some things better left unsaid..my ex master betrayed me... after encouraging me to write in my private place for him to read, to understand my moods, he told her the addy, and ooo she sited it too on another blog site.. entire passages... and he just turned his pussy profile off.. cause he had a woman fighting his battles..i met his ass fighting his battles from threatening an ex submissive then.. no more tho.. no more...i am free of him, and free of cancer, and survived his brands, and tit torture, and him trying to wreck my life... I survived You..there are abusers in this lifestyle, and their are total power exchange doms... it's a gray area...but, if you aren't enjoying yourself, you aren't doing it right... that is your yardstick for success people, once told to me by a dom i greatly respect.Peace to all but the jerk!candywho is now seeking a good scene... and wants that sadist to know that... how easily his ass can be replaced..

"The love of a slave girl is the deepest and most profound love that any woman can give a man. Love makes a woman a man's slave, and the wholeness of that love requires that she be, in truth, his slave." Magicians of Gor, page 31

these words of truth define a slave, not a collar, or a ring... but the undying love that a slave will always carry for her Master, either with or without him, she will always love him... and hopes he at least knows and feels that, at least a little bit of that love... each and every day.
candy from earth... pg 1

i absolutely love spring... and the hope it brings for a beautiful summer...

and some peace and quiet... lots of peace and quiet...

to crystal white beaches and palm trees.... swaying in the wind...

and lifestyle friends... cause we can never have enough like minded others around..

candy kisses and happy april fool's day... don't let the jokesters get ya ::giggles:: i am an expert at giving and receiving them, cause today is my birthday, another glorious year younger,,, your bd's work like that too, right.... here's to geting another year younger for many years to come, for us all...

Peace Out!

life moves on, and we move with it..

i embrace the spring, new experiences, and new ways...

here's to cumming, and lots and lots of fun....

bdsm it suppose to be fun, if you aren't having fun, then, you are doing something wrong...

CORRECT YOUR MISTAKE... HAVE FUN NOW or not... i can try to have fun for us both.. let me know if you can't have fun... cause by goodness and all above... girls just want to have fun!!!

wants and needs

wanting to serve a sadistic master full time, needing a sadist in my life all the time..

wanting a good scene, needing to submit to humility, dedgradation, and pain from someone that needs me too... reciprocal energy releasing as one..

wanting a new adventure, needing to remember traveled paths... desiring new challenges, hoping opportunities arise...

remembering ones you love, and served, and hoping only the best for them...

wanting an exotic vacation, needing to see the ocean again....

wanting to run, decisions unmade..

hiding from pain, aching for hurt.. torn inside, a mind and heart spit apart..

untrainable, and left hanging... hearts heal, souls mark a path... people move on.. it's our way..

submissives kneel, bc that is what they do, masochists take pain, sadists deliver, could a pair be better made?

needing to serve: wishing a way could be made

well, i guess the previous loser e mail was correct, Master said i was untrainable, and that He has another that He wants and will seduce, and now all He does is tell me how sorry and inadequate i am and compared me to others, and i'm untrainable...

instead of feeling like i want to die, i will leave the lifestyle first... but, leaving the Master that clearly is so dissatisfied is the first step, so i have taken that.. and now, i have to decide if i even want to stay in the lifestyle anymore...

i had a lot of fun in the vanilla world and had masochistic needs filled... and had lots of sex... course, most folks in this lifestyle are too kinky to fuck.. so, guess i need to hit a good nilla bar and pick up a cool 24 year old for the night and take all his heavy testosterone and aggression levels, and let that fill my masochistic needs for a while... ooo that is a good concept, use the man for awhile for filling my masochistic needs and sexual desires (not the first time i have used men for sex, in the nilla world, that is...)

peace out folks! fuck a sub, save a hooker!

ok, i get some rude e mails but i got one from a self proclaimed dom telling me no one would want a fat ass pig slave, that maybe if i lost 60 lbs... then maybe.. needless to say i told him to fuck off... and blocked him.

now, i have gained some miserable weight and feel bad enough, but on my front pic i weighed 160lbs, i am five ft seven, if i lost 60 lbs from that picture, i would be medically classified as an aneorix at 100 or less lbs... or i need to be on a run way in Paris...

what the fuck, if you don't like a self admitted bbfucking w, then why write me and insult me with your pathetic bull shit?

an e mail like that can lick the red off anybodys candy, but, i woudln't ever lick the red off his or any other jerk like that.... his loss.. not mine..

hmmm, what to say... things in my little life have... shifted, per say... like i don't have to get up early anymore, guess you shouldn't question sleeping late... other things are changing too.. but, i'm not keeping up with them.. so good. everything always seems so complicated.

a slave used, is a slave serving purpose.

slaves at rest, are at waste...

kneeling is good for the soul... a very old practice..

holes are to be filled, or they are just empty.

nipples are to be clamped and weighted .

use a slave, save a maid

pout because she is gone,
use me as bait to bring her back,
a tool to hurt another submissive

unknowing, but used none the less...

a twisted path that leads you afar,
a twist of faith that leaves you ajar,

used to hurt another, wondering how many others...

younger, plumper, cuter, fuller, wanted, desired, out with the old, lure in the new.. used again, like an old shoe.. time to discard and replace with a newer, better, unscarred pair..

pairs are His badges of honor, bigger and fuller, younger and newer, less damaged, more desired..

thow out the old shoe after walking to get the new onces..

a new pair is better than a damaged pair...

an artists canvas, mare as You may, tire and throw away.

be gone, no more...

Happy Valentines Day to All!
hugz, kisses, whips, and chains to all that want or need them, and if you don't want or need them, why are you here.... or at least some leather.. right... big valentines wishes to all!!!

a few have asked if i had the nips pierced yet.. no.. but, i am going to within the next few weeks or so, i'm not in a hurry, no i'm not scared - i have had it done before, and am actually excited about getting it done. not looking forward to the healing but can't wait till they can hold some weight... fun, right?

Peace Out!

found a piercer in town, was with a friend and was approached by Him, wanting to pierce us... and we are going in.. pig is doing the nips again with the barbell and loop that hangs off the barbell, they are so pretty.. and should hold some weight even if they have to be pierced a little farther back.. so excited...

have had a few comments on my pic of tits... one man just can't believe a married woman would post a pic of tits on an alternative website... it's an alternative to a vanilla site... ok, and i have permission from my dom husband to post whatever i want here... as a matter of fact, he is the only person in the world i answer too... ok..

alternative people, alternative to vanilla, to family sites with pics from your vacation... or alternative to pics with clothes on... get a life for real tho..

if you notice, my ad states not seeking.. taking a break for a while but try to find times to answer friendly e mails and possibly meeting new friends... but that is it..

advocate for masochism as a sexual preference ..... not a disorder...

masochist in greenwood...
candy

Insecurity can ruin your relationships... Masters need not be insecure, their slaves usually love them....

why send e mails and then block the sendee before they can respond unless you are allowing your insecurities to effect not just your sub, but you as well...

Happy New Year! i hope this one brings me a smaller waist line and more lifestyle friends.

have learned a lot this year ab myself and others, and the nature of the beast that drives this lifestyle... as God as my witness... i will never be harmed again!!! fade to scarlet with dirt in her hand ready to sling in the face of anyone ready to get in her way

Remembering Christmas, lost loves, and new memories...

May all Your Christmas wishes come true and Your memories bring You peace!

Happy Holidays to All!

Happy Thanksgiving to All Americans today! Here is praying for peace on earth... and a general acceptance for All...

try to remember, one person's kink isn't better or worse than another, it's just that .. different..

what works for one, doesn't work for All... acceptance in an alternative lifestyle should not be this hard, it's an alternative lifestyle people... alternative being the defining term...

in service

candy in SC

if you are a married Dominant and your wife doesn't know what you do, or is not lifestyle, DO NOT CONTACT ME AND WASTE BOTH YOUR TIME AND MINE BECAUSE TIME, IS A TERRIBLE THING TO WASTE!!!
TRUST IS A CORNERSTONE TO EVERY RELATIONSHIP WITH ME.

a new day, a new page. this is an intense life we live in bdsm lifestyles....

honesty is so important to being true to yourself and others.

selfishness, lack of tolerance, and the desire to hurt others in a lasting way seems to be a current theme amongst those i encounter ... like subs are test pigs.... guess i have been talking to the wrong Dominants... go figure...

Time to turn the page....

thinking of adding another slave in training to the household, have room for another. she will be 25 or older, finished or not interested in a higher education, and have 0 dependents and desire 0 dependents, and be available for 24/7. for those who may be confused on that, 24/7 means r/t living with and available for use 24/7. period. no obligations that keep you busy, no phone to tie up His life, no on-line crap, but, here, 24/7, serving your Master as His slave, nothing in between.
oh, an understand what a slave is, a lifestyle slave is to benefit the Master, not the Master cater to every whim of a sub, ain't gonna happen here girls, cause i am and can be the alpha slave of your nightmares as i keep you focused on what a piece of property for use you are and how lucky you will be if He selects you for His use for any particular evening.
hmmm......wonder what i had for breakfast ....truth syrum.........yes...that was it........you can't have a perfect life without sacrifice.......what are you willing to sacrifice?
candyslut
slave to Sir Mike SC

today i place an ad for Sir seeking His second slave. hopeful i find the right little slut for Him and He will be proud *smiles*
candyslut

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