I will be away for a few days due to family matters and hence unable to be on the site. So please don't expect me to reply to your messages during this time.

For those who I have connected with....also sometimes time/situation does not permit me to give you long detailed replies and responses to your messages. This soes not mean that I have dropped off. SImply means I will respond when I have some time to put together a sane reply :)

Okay now that I have been on the site a couple of weeks I feel I can express a few things. I get quite a few messages on the site and cannot respond to all who message me. I am ceratin I maybe rsking losing a good match by doing this but I have no choice practically. I have responded and started connecting with a select few White gents in UK who have piqued my interest based on 4 things. 1. The way they have communicated with me based on my profile 2. my instinct about how safe/discreet they seem (clearly subjective but all I have to start). 3. My interest in their general profile 4. Picture/s.

Anyone who reads my profile and feels an interest  can message me but if I do not respond please dont take it personally. Also I have said clearly that I only entertain the messages of White gents, if you are not one kindly dont clutter my inbox and waste your time. We are all here for something. I respect your choices so please respect mine.

I will write more regularly as I go along here. I guess I am feeling a bit more confident than I thought after 2 weeks or so :)